My Friend Was Dumped By Her Boyfriend Of Five Years

What's the point? Thot love was meant to last forever..

with the number of failed, failing, fallen, f**ked up marriages/relationships we have nowadays, i strongly believe there is such a thing as "true love", but it is much too difficult to achieve.

i agree with "the devil in pink jacket", it is now a commodity, that experience i have

last forever? where does that come from, do u live forever?

a sister to a friend of mine was lectured about guy
what the guys say: i want to love you {mo fe fee e}
what the guys mean: i want to sleep with you {mo fe ba e sun }

I feel for those who have been dumped.  Because I am just like one of them.  Honestly, i am still hopeful we'll get back someday.
But what if there is no action from the other party, this is something i should pray for.  Its so hard mending a broken heart for there are still words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

@ tabuko
Then wts the point? Why waste your time, money and stuff knowing you both had different religious backgrounds that could prevent you from getting married? Makes no sense to me.

4me we r stil in it because we love each other so much. U know real(true) love is really scarce or hard to find.Even though she is far from me,the thoughts of her being wit me gives me joy.
Let me tell you guys a secret i have told no one even my girl.
Why i don't want to call the relationship off, when i can easily do so since we are thousands of miles away,is because i believe one day she would hav a change of mind. - i mean seeing nothing wrong with my religion.
So tell me. If i dump her now (though i hav not used her) den she changes religion willingly, how would i feel? Knowing she still doesn't have any guy yet. Well since she is my first love,i have no other option,than dumping the new girl for her.
That is what we call true love.
It takes me 15 hrs to get to her school in Jos. If i could do this for her,what else can't i do? Ladies do u feel me?

Shit happens, he found someone else or simply wasn't happy. Even married people of more than ten years get dumped simply because of their own reasons.

Its part of lifel

So sad! Please give us the full gist. Something must have led to the break up.

So sorry to hear that. Your freind has to be strong right now if she ever wants to find love again. The Issue i have though is why you ladies always see things from your point of view (Why are guys so cruel) I know a lot of guys jilted by their girlfriends . I even know one who was left on his wedding day so please be a little balanced.It goes both ways.

shits happen,everyone is been dumped by someone.girls who are down with the benjamins always come back after the guy has got his own share saying they are hreatbroken.this is what i call bullshit.if u don't want tobe heart broken,then don't LOVE.

Maybe he met her when he was NOTHING, now becomes SOMETHING, and feels she is not his type.  am just guessing shaa!! .  take heart baby

kind of undastand d religion reason but other dan that mennnnnnnn!that sucks guys una no try

@topic
tell your friend to forget him and move on, i know it might be kind of hard for her, because she is passing through a lot of emotional and psychological stress and trauma. but she has to give it a try. i believe if your determined to do something it would be done. if after five years of being together and according to what you said, being through a lot with him, he still dumps her, then its clear he does not appreciate the person she is. and such guys are not worth the waste of time or thoughts, you try to see whatever negative situation in a positive light. what of if he had married her and after sometime, he decides to get a divorce? she should try all her possible best to move on. i believe God's going to see her through.

SOMETIMES I WONDER IF BOYS ARE WORTH THE TROUBLE,
@POSTER
IT WON'T BE EASY FOR YOUR FRIEND MUST SHE MUST MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE, SHE MIGHT EVEN MEET SOMEONE BETTER AND BE MUCH HAPPIER THAN SHE USE TO BE, please TELL HER NOT TO THINK TOO MUCH, ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT THE GUY IS DOING NOW PROBABLY WITH ANOTHER GIRL AND SHE IS THERE CRYING. JUST TELL HER TO FORGET HIM AND LOOK FORWARD TO THE FUTURE FOR MUCH MORE POSITIVE THING, SHE'LL FIND IT DIFFICULT BUT BELIEVE ME SHE'LL BE FINE.