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myssfyne (f)
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first of all a professional dancer is not every girl's dream.at your question,if you love the guy then go for what you like,your friend would get over her heart break.
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N-joy (f)
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And you call yourself a friend, what goes round comes around. Men come and go but friends are forever.
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hotslink (f)
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Well, i don't think you nknow exactly what you want. my only advice is "do to others as you wish them do you"
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j-girl (f)
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If your best friend is really in love with this guy then i think it's cruel what both of you are doing to the poor girl.
Did your friend know you were exes? and did you give her your blessing to go ahead?
If so, then you people are just confused. You all need to talk about these things.
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luxoire (f)
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@mindey
eyah, i'm tempted to call u B*TCH, but then again, i can't, because a part of me, understands u and feels SORRY for your friend.
IF you and this guy really like each other then BOTH OF YOU had better STOP YOUR COWARDICE, have enough balls to sit your friend down and set her straight, it might mean u lose her as a friend (so thats your call, is the guy worth that risk), if he is fine, and if your friend truly understand she'll know she's just in the way of something both of something stronger than 3 of u. and she is hurting her self, she'd better let go, but the earlier the better for her and you to, MAYBE HE IS YOUR ''MR RIGHT'',
shame it had to be your friend, BUT i y'all had better NOT break up again, if u hurt your friend. otherwise i will really call u a B*TCH
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whiteroses (f)
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i'm not being sarcastic but that is what we are talking about, dating your bestfriend man, hey your best friend for crying out loud, you are not a nice person at all the kind of girls i watch in movies, please post the outcome of what you are doing let us know
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mindey
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luxoire
thanks 4 not calling me a B*tch because if u had i would have strangled you through your system.Any how i have though about talking to her but i don't think it will be the best,she knew intially i dated the guy and when i broke up with him and they started going she didnt tell me about it,i guess she felt guilty telling me about it but i found out anyway thats why am finding it difficult to talk 2 her about it
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michelin89 (f)
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Ladies:
1. She didn't meet this guy through her best friend
2. They dated back in school
3. The best friend has only got herself to blame for dating her friend's ex.
@ poster
It's obvious this guy belongs to you. No matter how bad we can paint you, that won't change the facts. Your friend made a mistake by lending her shoulder to your ex. That's why friends should never date the same guy. People/things always go back to their owners!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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lmao, professional dancer. every girl's dream. you wish it was true  your such a confused person, you don't know what you want, and stop playing games with that guy's heart.  |
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luxoire (f)
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@mindey
hahahahaha, well i tell the truth or i keep quiet, no in between, lol
maybe she'd always liked him, and found her chance when you to separated.What is the real reason y u can't tell her? eitherway,i think ALL OF YOU NEED TO START BEING OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER, like people who care about each other should do. If not, y'all going to be in this viscious cycle for a long time
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iice (f)
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maybe she'd always liked him, and found her chance when you to separated.What is the real reason y u can't tell her? eitherway,i think ALL OF YOU NEED TO START BEING OPEN AND HONEST WITH EACH OTHER, like people who care about each other should do. If not, y'all going to be in this viscious cycle for a long time
Word, with best friend for that matterThe truth hurts but il do ya good in the end. |
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Soshio
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Well i dnt thnk its advisabl 4 a frnd 2date her frnds ex because thers evry tendecy they come back 2geda.But i thnk u should have a talk with your frnd thats if u really love this guy,but if u know u are going to find yourself breaking up with the guy again then i think you should let them be.Free them,because its goin to b really bad if you make them seperate and at the end of the day you break up with him.If that happens then i thnk u deserve to be called a b**ch.Think well before you act k
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mamaput (f)
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Please she only took back what belonged to her anyway.
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Neptune (m)
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first off, sorry for being the first guy on this post, incase im intruding.
apart from :mamaput, Soshio & michelin89, the rest of u girls have the typical nigerian girl mentality. Talkin about best friends like you give a damn. The girl obviously cares about her best friend if not she would need anybody's opinion on anything. im sure some of you other girls have done worse things to you bestfriends. (Atleast the poster has a concience). Having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not like buying a bag. there's always a connection. I'll advice you to just trash the whole thing out. nobody would kill you. let every other person jump into the river if they like.
~O
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iice (f)
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Maybe some people don't take friendship that seriously but if you have to do something like that, one has got to be truthful with their friends. You may not even up being friends after that but it's better than having that constantly gnawing at you. Best not to be revealing oneself as a deceiving person whilst projecting honor and what not!
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Oracle (m)
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When you broke his heart, your friend was there for him.
Now you want to take the only thing that matters to her.
If he breaks up with her, then you can go ahead. But don't start a secret relationship with him
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simply_me (f)
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hmmmm - a friend indeed - enjoy the hunk, enjoy the sex, when he is done with u, he dumps u for another friend of yours, and u can't face your friend again when he dumps u, used u, bounced u and eats u raw.
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Ralvy (m)
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hmmmm - a friend indeed - enjoy the hunk, enjoy the sex, when he is done with u, he dumps u for another friend of yours, and u can't face your friend again when he dumps u, used u, bounced u and eats u raw.
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Kevo1
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simly me,
I really like your word of advice, let her continue meesing her. my own advice to her is to forget the relationship between them and look for another lover that will love her for whom she is.
please, play save.
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LILDICE$
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ONE THING ABOUT YOU BITCHES ON NAIRALAND YALL COME UP AND MAKE SHIT UP AND STAR LYING AND SHIT,YOU DATING YOUR BESTFRIEND BOYFRIEND SO WHAT YOU WANT US TO DO?YOU KNOW SHE'S YOUR BESTFRIEND YOU KNOW YOU HURTING HER,AND YOUR KNOW WHAT YOU DOING,SO WHY COME UP HERE AND ASK PEOPLE FOR HELP,THAT MEAN YOU A FAKE BITCH YOU NOT REAL.
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angelchi (f)
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WOW, @ poster all this for you? ve a re-think girl.
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finemocha (f)
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1.is this senario taking place in nigeria or us or uk.
2. what is a professional dancer in nigeria really mean. (someone who is jobless)
3. who really really gives a mess, seems your silly little friend did u wrong, by dating him, and u are getting her back.
4. I ask again. what does a professional dancer mean in naija
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finemocha (f)
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@simply me
i don't know eating raw is not such a bad tradeoff.
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EFOSA VAL (f)
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i think u don't need help! you're just being silly about it girl wake up dear, and stop drolling your EX is your EX, so move on ok ok ok 4 a start will u like to get hooked up with my teddy??? just make sure u don't dump him he is very emotional |
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Busta (f)
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Who keeps digging out all this old threads?
Can't u open your eyes and look at the dates that these threads were started?
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bjibola
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His he the only guy around. Y do u and your best friend keep passing him around. Nyways, the guys good luck.
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ngojoygurl (f)
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You don't need any help because u entered into it with yr eyes wild open!!
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