Hi. Am very excited to be a member of this club. I would love advice preferably from others who are married. I have a boyfriend whom i have dated for 4years. I really love him and he has proposed to me. The problem is I feel very scared. Its not that i dont trust him coz i do. I just wonder how it will be and if we will be happy.Is it normal to feel this way?
Well. . .I'm not married, but it's normal. Anytime one has to make a life changing decision, it's normal to have doubts and get "the jitters." If you've been with him for four years, things must have been going right. So the fact that there will be a ring on your finger shouldn't change much. You will be happy, but don't expect marriage to be perfect. No marriage is absolutely perfect without any fights. You just have to take them when they come and get through them, and before you know it you'll be at your 50th anniversary or something lol. Just take it one day at a time, remain considerate, and you'll be fine.
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