How Do You Play Hard To Get To Someone You Are Obviously Tripping For.

I met this guy last week and he has some of the qualities, I want in my dream guy.He has been calling me consistently for the past 3days but not of late. I don't want to show him that I am tripping for him already what is the best thing to do, I want him.though I told him I am in a relationship where I don't love the guy, was I right in telling him that?

@ ugwumba
to tell you the truth, guys always like hard-to-get girls, they love the chase and when they get her they feel she's worth it unlike a girl that says yes 'eagerly' when she's asked out. that's why I need help on how to play hard-to-get, so that I wouldn't betray my feelings to him so soon.

is it that easy for a guy to change his mind just like that? He told me he's not dated a girl for like 2years now.

for 5days he called me consistently, sometimes upto 3times in a day now is almost 3 days he hasn't called, my hands are itchy to call him but I don't want to because I feel I would look cheap to him.please help, what do I do?
Again he suspects my friend matchmaked us , I feel same too but my friend says that she's not guilty is pure coincidence.

Hey, if u like the guy, don't push your luck too far by playing hard because there are many fishes in the river and he may decide to give up on u. Remember there is a saying that''if u can't have what u like,like what u have''
u are not cheap do what u have to do fast,

alert
play hard to get while making yourself gettable don't overplay or you're sure not 2 last in d r/ship even if it materialises
u can call him 2say hi its long i hrd frm u wsup,

Girl, you don't need it!
Don't forget, no one is Irreplacable!

@ Alert

Look at the facts girl, if he has not dated a girl for two years and you are there playing hard to get, you might just make him recoil into his shells. I guess he doesnt have anything to loose since it would just be an extension of his holiday from dating.

why all this hard to get blah blah blah story, i believe if you like a guy and he is asking you to date tell him straight, and give it a chance, get to know each other and see where it goes. all these hard to get is crap to me. later you  realize it was not worth it.

if you don't like him tell him straight he would get the message, don't keep a brother waiting for too long. no one should interpret my words as being cheap.

all am trying to say is,playing hard to get does not make you a better person. if you are someone with a good character and high self esteem, you would still be respected but if your not no matter how you play hard to get, sorry the brother's not going to give in cause once he realizes who you are. he is going to leave and see you as a waste of time

i am saying this because the length some girls go to play hard to get is so annoying. these ones they go dey chop the man money, dey go agree make the man carry them commot go buy chop. den dey go come say them dey play hard to get. hard to get my foot. 

I think its okay to play hard to get as long as you are ready to remain HARD TO GET. In fact gradually if you keep the game up you may become IMPOSSIBLE TO GET.

Just thank God that you've not met a guy that fronts like me. I won't even give you the chance to contemplate hard to get. Its either youre with me or against me!

@Thoniaslim

Thanks so much! May ya bread be buttered on both sides forever!

If this guy walk away fro you u might end up playing easy to get to some one you did not love, give the guy a chance at least call or txt him NOW to know how he is fearing since he has not called you for 3 days. That will show him that you care and even if he wants to enter and bail he will think twice. I am in the same shoes as am writting now but GOD dey sha.

Whether you play hard to get or not, both tactics have a chance of failing . . everybody is different and attracted to different things.

Now girlfriend, I'm not going to tell you what to do, its your cross to carry.
I suggest you follow your spirit, do that which seems right to yourself, body and soul. If in the end, it wins you something, be glad; if not, then take it as an experience.

Such cases isnt where you do something because Adobi said you should, or because Chidimna said you shouldnt, both could land you in same spot, or opposite . . and believe me, you'll regret it more if you did it out of 3rd party interference.

Weigh the advices you get, but at the end of the day, do yourself . . .but one important point though; remember, too much of everything is bad, do not forget that.

If he's been calling and stopped all of a sudden, i suggest you call him to know whats up, that doesnt make you cheap my dear, it doesnt. It takes more than returning calls, saying yes to a date or doing something to put a smile on the person's face to be termed cheap, you can play all the games there is to play, and still be seen as cheap

Its you that matters, the way you do you is what tells if you're cheap or not . . everything with class dearie, with class!!

@bodeya


one woman's shakara is another's akara

that's it girl, listen to thoniaslim-always definite.

@topic il play very hard to get easily. Cuz I believe he should work hard to get  me. Am very impatient. If I can't get a patient man then its not worth my while.