Most Girls Now Want To Settle With A Ready-Made Man

Hey Ladies: Why Do Most Girls Now Want To Settle With A "Ready-made" Man?

Back in the days, Chics were ready to settle with a young Guy with prospect (Not a poor person, because no lady wants to suffer).
Any way, years forward the story has changed. Girls now wants Guy wey don "HAMMER" (a rich girl).
However, as good as it may seen, some Chics now use that opportunity to become LAZY, just waitingfor a rich GUY to "hook down".
Well, I need comments mainly from the Chics perspective, before i make my final commment(Final thought).

Be good Y'all.

  one more point......  if the guy/ man in question is poor, no education, business, priorities or what so ever...... then there's no need wasting your time with him because he's a dead end...... definitely a no go area.

hmmmm............... why do most girls settle for ready made guys???
Answer:  That is their choice. They may want some form of security. Comfort and security could be their priority. Also let me have you know that Some of these girls are also made and want someone of the same status too.
 Its difficult for a girl who has worked hard *in any way* and lives in a flat of hers to now settle with a guy who is squatting with 4 other pals in an apartment.

Starting with a guy with prospects is also kool, no doubt  but can you [the girl] see the prospect abi na so so talk the guy dey yan no action.

Then again Bigtee Who do you classify as a guy who is already made???

It's an appaling thought that any girl would look for a man to provide comfort and economic security. Where's your sense of self-worth, girls? You should be able to take care of yourself and not wait untill a knight in shining armor comes by to take you to the promised land.

Most Girls Now Want To Settle With A Ready-Made Man

The statement above is just another indicator to the state of our economy and value systems, In Our Nigeria of today why wont most girls want to settle with a man that can take care of her and the kids when they start coming. For most girls it has been pretty tough, growing up, schooling, finding a job etc, now, it’s only fair that, such a lady settle for a man that can handle all their financial needs in marriage. This is the typical, stance of sisters, bent on finding a ready made brother before tying the knot

Ready Made men are highly contested prize these day, come to the oil rich city of PH and see the young and up coming single fellas, working with the oil and gas firms, how  the ladies melt like chess on a hot knife, all over them,..... but there is a catch to this, because most of these young fellas are either, "players" trying to lay as many women as possible, before settling down or there are either too scared to trust any lady, since they think its the money, status or security, that she is really interested in and not them.

I think is a matter of choice, for any woman, “ready made or unready.” or even the one “loaded with potentials”, going somewhere in the future to happen, who ever you want to pick and settle with, its up to you,  my advise will be to just pick  :DHAPPINESS !!.....regardless of where you find it, ready made or unready...  

Well Thank You! @fancidiva. Its not easy to find " what you want in a Place like PH"... These days men try to play the "Role" Hakeem _Eddy murphy...in coming to America, maybe thats the only way to find a woman.. not after your ready man self.

common Willis

It can't be that serious in Port harcourt

wats up people,
like someone rightly said it is a matter of choice, i am a woman am supposed to be taken care of, not the other way round.
and not forgetting that even men don't want to marry poor girls, or girls from poor homes anymore. status is important in any society and so we create a standard for ourselves and try to live by it, and stick to it.wats wrong with that?

Who is a ready made man

Whats the definition of a ready made man.

A readymade man is that man that has achieved above-average financial status (+ more).  He is that guy that knows he has  MOST things a typical woman would like. He knows that his possessions are his baits without which the ladies won't come. so therefore, those that come rushing and professing love are doing so because of his status. He's that guy that feels he has the right to beat up his woman, collect his car keys from her and kick her out of his house and he's sure she won't leave him because he's MADE. He's that man that treats his woman like one of his possession....  do I keep going on?

lol i didnt eat my school fees lol

we are not talking about love here zarah.But i agree with u because love can't put food on your table.

the reoson i mentioned that (anobscase) is because someone suggested that no woman is marrying the ready made man for love, and that its better to marry a man who will love you. read through the clips again u will see its relevance.

Let me just say that being made doesnt give a man the right to hit a woman.
2ndly, there is a difference between "having basic neccessity" and " being made"
Its a pity that mentality has made us believe that if a person has 10 moillion then he is made.
Readymade is a strong word and i will have to use an example.

A ready made dinner gown, fits you just right. Its so perfect on your body that you'd hardly need to put  any xtra stitch on it.
So until you show me a guy who is complete without a woman, child or love,  Then he is ready made.
But if he owns a car * whether jeep or beetle* he aint made. a car is a neccessity not a luxury
If he has a duplex, he aint made, because he needs a house.

And who said ready made is only in material things.
An arroagnt guy without manners who own a mansion can definitely not be made in my dictionary

Character matters!!!

i met a guy over 2 years ago while visiting who classed himself made.
What was his definition
He has a BMW, Owns his own house with split unit even to the toilets and works in Elf.
And has cash to burn [according to him] and that was his definition of being made. Duh! 

I asked him if he had integrity, manner, if he was a gentleman and he said those didnt matter since his got cash.
How much is this cash you burn
Answer:  Enough to take the ladies out and get them shopping
Is that it if you can comfortably buy a car for a girl and not have your account cry, then financially, u've got it to burn.

Isnt this supposed to go the other way round as well? No seriously, I am a ready made woman and apparently ALL guys want to settle with ME!!!