How Do You Know That Your Spouse Loves You?

really, how do you know that your better half loves you? i have had experiences in the past where my lovers  profess undying love only to make me regret knowing them after making a few sacrifices for them.i want to be adviced before getting into another relationship.so common people,help a sister out

Just tell them that u have Aids , thats the best trick 

Well the greatest gift a man or woman can give ya is "LOVE" love is really from the inner mind.  One may know how to gain a victory, and know not how to use it, in other words people out there get someone nice, cool, caring, but they don't know where to keep that person heart.  Most especially females hearts are kind of fragile, they need to be kept  in a safe place..and take care of it very well so it won't get broken people out there don't get to be love or don't practice love cause the guy and the girl ain't compartable.. they just want to force their way in to love each.. why they ain't compartable.. Love is just like a school.. it a course u got to study before jumping and getting FIRST CLASS in it..  IT also a scarifice you got to make..  i got to stop here men..

           Love is a feeling of two serious minded person in other to archive a goal in life
1. Check to see if both of you guys share ideas together
2. You could easly know if he/she loves you when he/she tells you what he/she is going through.
3. You would know if he/she loves you, when he/she tells you that "WHAT PLANS DO YOU HAVE FOR GREATER FUTURE, CAN WE WORK THINGS TOWARDS IT "
4. You know when he/she says "HONEY  I'M PROUD TO HAVE YOU "
5. you will know when he/she hurts you and in some mins or hours he/she get back to his/her senses and tell you that."I'M KINDA SORRY FOR WHAT I HAPPEN, SUCH THING WOUNT REPEAT ITSELF"
6. You will know. because he/she will always want to tell you the truth
7. You will know because you need respect. in what sense. okay now see this. he/she is talking to an opposite sex, and he/she sees you coming from afar, then he/she needs to excuse that friend.. so if he/she loves you.. he will come towards you and excuse the friend and give you a hug and a peck.  telling you "WELCOME SWEETIE, HOW WAS YOUR DAY LIKE ?"

What else ?

he does all u can eva thk of

aww i can almost feel it in my fingers  :Di think someone loves me this time and it's for real

I know that he loves me because inspite of my mistakes, my blemishes, my imperfections, he stays. 

@ Mystique

true that

 
when he truely cares,one way to know is when he tolerates your ignorance and shortcommings,this because only a few men will.

jaybaby i fear  you ooh

i believe he loves me because since i met him, i ave become a better person in terms of anger management - here is a man, a fine one at that and when i say fine fine, i mean fine - that hangs around me even when i said terribly hurting things to when i used to allow anger control me. Of course sometimes he would express how shocked he was that i could think of saying such things to him and then he tells me "Bambi, learn to control your anger". Apart from that he can't bear to see me sad. I have never believed it when a man said he loves me until i met him. But for Cherie, my relationship would have been over but now i thank God everyday for bringing him my way.

When he has not divorced me yet for all my antics on Nairaland and beyond!


You said it. . . .tolerance and just loves you for whom you are. . . even though he yells once in a while because I ma typing furiously at the computer, posting crap on Nairaland when he is trying to get some sleep.