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hogar (m)
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Hey guys, this is my first post in this forum, never through I would be posting a topic like this one, anyways, I have got a big problem, I'm 19 almost 20 YO, and Iv never really had a girlfriend. Iv probebly had 1000 of opportunities to hook up with a girl but I don't have the guts to go up to her and simply say "Hi"  I was at a bar a couple of days ago and this girl looks at me, and I knew she was intrested, but then I say " should I go talk to her or not?" so I start making up reasons not to go talk to her because I'm a BIG COWARD! Well you guys probebly think I'm a big baby and I do agree with you, but really the reason why I posted this topic is to know a little bit more about this iincredibly hard chalange "for me". What would you say to a girl you never met before in your life? All of a sudden my brain turns off and Iv got nothing to say..... Thank you veary much!  |
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ijele (m)
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hey, this happened to most guys including me, but it's still about courage.Go out there,stand firm, look into her eyes don't blink.first tell her '' I LIKE YOU'' simple. keep looking into her. let her away take her eyes first. (this is called charm) Tell again her I JUST CAN'T HIDE IT NO MORE. then smile a bit and be serious, if possible dim ur eyes.
now she will see the boldness in you. i bet you most girls like a guy with guts.
Be a man! don't expect postive answer immediately but you ve made an impact.
don't forget to flash ur best smile,dim ur eyes while talking.
please,please don't wink ur eyes bro  , it's act of irresponsible.
cheers
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truthhurts (f)
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o'l boy what a way 2 catch a girl, if i was d lady i would be interested in knowin what made u so bold
so hogar maybe u shld use ijiele's rules it just might work because ladies love bold and charmin guys
goodluck buddy
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layi (m)
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Be a man! don't expect postive answer immediately but you ve made an impact.
don't forget to flash your best smile,dim your eyes while talking.
I assume u like her genuinely not just for pairing sake. don't expect any answers. Ladies usually answer No verbally but YES in action. You want her so go for her and don't say NO till its over. Like I have said a million times. Just make friends first. don't sttart with I love U, I want u lines. Helloooo! (using lizzy's line) you hardly know me. |
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hogar (m)
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Well okay Il try my best, thanks alot you guys!
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Rhodalyn (f)
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u're welcome[as if i gave an advise ] |
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creamdream
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i love you scatter i love you die, oya, talk your own!!
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denony (m)
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Believe me with Ijele's advice you can conquer any girl you come across. Ijele you must be a philosopher, O boy, i fear you, How many girl friends do you get?  |
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Busta (f)
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Try to be friends with them first.
once u get comfy with her, then u can tell her how u feel.
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