Having Trained Her All The Way, She Dumped Him

A young man falling in love with a lil' pretty girl, with the intention of getting married to her.

Probably an age difference of five to ten years. Solely taking responsibilities of her tutorial fees through the higher institution just to make her a better person in the society. Knowing fully that her family cant really support her financially.

He did all he could to make her and her family happy. They were both in love.

With time she changed, wanted her freedom, dumped the engagement ring and dumped him.


Now i ask maself, if its really nice to train up your suppose lover because your are looking forward to make your wife.

Because the possibilities of her leaving you is almost sure, she is young, not really exposed. When she finds her bearing her might change course.

Some guys would say, it would be fair to marry a girl who has rounded up  her higher education, fully exposed, and ready to get married. Others would say, if you must train her, marry her let her go to school as a married woman.

What are all yo be saying?

sleep with her well well , impregnate her, then send her to school after 4 kids. THATS SAFER!

Let's consider a couple of things:

It sounds as though the fellow didn't really love the lady for who she was.  He wanted "to make her a better person" (emphasis added).  And, by the way, he didn't "train" her--it's not as though she's a family pet--but, rather, he paid for her education.  All things considered, she didn't end up being the same woman he thought he "loved" so he might well be glad that things didn't work out.

Was it clear to all parties involved that his generosity was to be reciprocated with marriage?   If such is the case, then that sounds more like a business transaction than true love.

Now, did the lady determine before or after her education was complete that she would not marry the man?  Was she simply looking for a "meal ticket?"  Was this arrangement of her own or of her family's doing?

Does this show most graphically that money cannot buy love?

Yeah I did. Did you? What set? *jeez am getting scared that am not anonymous anymore on this forum*