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superman (m)
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MILITIA is sittin right here with me. hmm what next, we find out!
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Larrydee (m)
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i've been flirtin wit other girls but i've slept wit another girl just once & i did confess to the real "one". believe u me, it made d relationship stronger. i had 2 do it because d "one" is kind of spiritual & wont let me touch her so i found someone else because i needed 2 let my steam off.
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uyai (f)
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yes i have, but i've never been caught.
the first one i did back in naija because i thought i was going to leave the guy, but i changed my mind.
the next cheating was out of frustration, well i did it a couple of times, i felt no remorse.
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Well well with no regrets at all!!! 
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lucida_ng (m)
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Well, na normal thing for guys to cheat, so i no need to tell u before u go understand,
anyway, it still doesn't make it right,
Well, me i don decide to dey take the antidote so that i no go backslide again,
ANTIDOTE: """"Only date people you adore, care for and respect, one that is truly your friend, and not just becuase of that bakassi or boobs or sexy lips, sexy figure"""""
""""Make sure the feeling is mutual"""""
Otherwise """""ABORT relationship""""""
Else """"Heartbreak!! Cheating!!!! Late Nights!!!""""""
no long thing!!!!! signing off
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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more confessions people, come on bare your minds.relieve urslf of the guilt, TELL US ABOUT IT!!!!!!!
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enitan2002 (m)
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I've never done it, and i don't imagine myself doing that. @ all, remeber the golden rule:'Do Unto Others As You Want Others To Do Unto You'
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bebe2007 (f)
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~~~~ THEY SAY NEVER SAY NEVER~~~~ so those of you saying NEVER you would probably eat your words sooner or later. Cheating is not something you set your mind to do, it just happens. The fact that you love one person does not mean you wouldnt find others attractive or maybe love them too. Its just the way it is. You can cheat physically or emotionally (which is most common) i.e you are with one person and you secretly love another or miss another. Am sure those of you saying NEVER are guilty of no.2 Those of us guilty of CHEATING are not devils, we just didnt have the necessary self control at that time. So do not judge us ok. You maybe next. @siena, boy i must say you look hot at 39.  How do you manage that? Keep it up!!!
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enitan2002 (m)
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~~~~ THEY SAY NEVER SAY NEVER~~~~ so those of you saying NEVER you would probably eat your words sooner or later. Cheating is not something you set your mind to do, it just happens. The fact that you love one person does not mean you wouldnt find others attractive or maybe love them too. Its just the way it is. You can cheat physically or emotionally (which is most common) i.e you are with one person and you secretly love another or miss another. Am sure those of you saying NEVER are guilty of no.2 Those of us guilty of CHEATING are not devils, we just didnt have the necessary self control at that time. So do not judge us ok. You maybe next. @siena, boy i must say you look hot at 39.  How do you manage that? Keep it up!!! you are not worthy to take home to my mama
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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so who do u think is interested in following u to see mama?
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enitan2002 (m)
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so who do u think is interested in following u to see mama?
if you wont follow me, then be prepared you are not getting the total love from her last kid a son for that matter.
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Siena (m)
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@ Bebe: Thanks.
Of the 2 kinds of cheating, as Bebe said, there are 2 kinds, emotional or physical. Most who deny ever cheating are at the very least, guilty of emotional cheating.
And, dare I say it, emotional cheating can have further reaching consequences, compared to the physical act. Often, the emotional 'cheater' doesn't know he / she's cheating, and as such, can go on for the length of a relationship.
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babadee (m)
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many times and i know i still will many times more.
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Omo Eko (f)
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Cheating and moi does not mix together  , if am tired of a relationship, I will rather break it off than cheating on him jare.
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Sonye (f)
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@ OmoEko Hello girl. Good to meet you everywhere i drop by. How u doing?
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Omo Eko (f)
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Come on have only been to less than 5 threads today  , anyway sha I dey oh just chilling.
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jdizzy (m)
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I'm about to make one oyinbo chic answer YES to this question. Met her while clubbing this weekend and the girl dey no wan let man go, but keeps reminding me that she has a boyfriend  Anyways, I doubt that I can be 100% faithful until I meet the girl that I want to marry! Haven't met her yet so just dating for the hell of it, and getting whatever I can
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Gemini II (m)
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seun what are you waitin for u ought to give militia a life ban from this forum she is corrupting all the good gals 
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Gemini II (m)
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seun what are you waitin for u ought to give militia a life ban from this forum she is corrupting all the good gals 
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DevDel (m)
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wetin MILITIA do all of una sef ehn? make una leave d chic alone jare. But to the main question, I no gree answer!
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BlackMamba (m)
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There is no expectation or demand for a monogamous relationship. So cheating do not come into play. Surprisingly, there are enough decent women out there that practice this lifestyle, and I'm loving it. No pressures. No lies.
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Gridlock (m)
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I have nothing to contribute.
[This is offtopic] @Larrydee Hey, that pic in your profile: isnt that a shelf from Kenneth Dike Library?
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tomi_ade (m)
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na today? i have even lost count God loves a cheerful giver you know? because freely freely he gave unto us.
i dey tell u, 
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MILITIA (f)
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Yes oh!!!! I say who wan die make im die!!!! 
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MP007 (m)
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gone are the dayz when guys where the ones cheating , ladies have taking over, frekas . bitches and ho's , lord have mercy , its hard to get a good girl theses dayz,
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denex
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You people shoul stop this. It is dangerous and it is reckless. I meet some people I know personally on Nairaland entirely by chance.
Anybody that implicates themselves on this site should have no one to blame but themselves.
I have not cheated during any of my relationships, but even if I had, I'D have just ignored this thread.
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MP007 (m)
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freaks!, i havent and never will,
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lucida_ng (m)
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@ denex, good call. word of caution to all, i suppose.
honestly speaking, some of us are already aware of the "supposed" risk that you have just mentioned but are still going ahead to bare our minds,
it is meant to be an interactive but candid exercise so that we can all draw positive insights from the learnings and ideas of others, while we share ours with them,
i suppose there is some truth in what you have mentioned though and i implore all of us to share our personnal experiences with a little bit of class and style, and not freak out for fear of retribution,
why lead a double life? there is no gain , in the long run.
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