Why Do Nigerian Dudes Walk Around Holding Hands?

@ cute n hot
Its not effeminate it is normal and acceptable who told you real men are not allowed to show emmotions? and since when has huging and holding hands on a good day become emmotions that betray masculinity? I beg you people should stop preaching gospels that come from your heads as if you did research jare if your people don't hold hands because there are faggots every where around you who oppenly show their homosexuality by holding hands the same rule does not  apply here o the next thing you people will say now is that girls holding hands are lesbians don't worry very soon no body will give hugs or hold hands in western countries for fear of beign labbeled gay.

@K0be
I wonder o i fear my head. before e no be like that for yankee o, na now adays them start to frown upon am because most gay guys wey dey toast like to do physical contact like holding and touching to drive home the point say them want to do runs with you naim make men for there no dey like make another man touch them and them too no dey like touch other men so that the guy no go miss interprete the touch to mean another thing. if faggotry dey kill them there them come carry their gospel come meet nigerian bobos wey like babes and get clean minds  concernning sex.abi them don hear of transvestile abi wetin them dey call am for nigeria before? our men like to be men and them like to sleep with women their mentality no dey twated or twisted.

its funny how he sees these men as being gay

but in the US you will see alot more gays and aka "Brothers on the Down Low" than anywhere in the black world

okay when the poster said holding hands. he doesn't mean they just walk around saying oh we're friends and we must hold hands while walking.

it's just that sometimes when you watch male-male relationship in naija there can be some physical interactions that people from other parts of the world will say is gay.

effeminate, u mean?

Some people are so gay fixated that they see gay in everything. Men holding hands in Naija is not something you see every minute but yes occasionally you see some old friends hug and clasp their hands briefly as a way of expressing their pleasure for that rare opportunity to catch up with old time buddies. It is also not a big deal for a guy to take out the boys on a shopping-beer-drinking-suya chomping spree. . . homophobia can easily cloud one's sense of judgement.  I weak o 

I was told  that in high school dormitories boys even glanced at other boys comparing sizes.
And there was absolutely no sexual tensions involved.
Men just liked comparing who was better endowed.I bet some would call that gay too.

Girls did same too and there was no lesbian undertone to it,generally speaking.

biko what is nunu?
I don't remember touching any nunu's,lol

LMAO
 Nunu is a hausa term for milk. But it can also be used as a reference to a girls boobs  

@Poster

its your moda foking dirty mind that is playing games on you - so if u see your brother and your sister holding hands now - u will start thinking? Look - may your oko bend go one side for this posting wey u don post here - oloko nla.

I wonder
meanwhile what is oko?

_{i hope it's not something bad}

my sister abeg answer my question,what is oko?

really?
I though oko means husband.
oko mi?
maybe different prononciations.

If you called a man oko nla,I doubt if he'll be offended.
You may have made his day

Babyosisi

don't u know d following:

Oko                       d ick

oko                       husband

oko                       farm

oko                       stone

Just like
Akwa       cloth
Akwa        bed
Akwa      egg

uchenna did you know that though?
I mean the Yoruba words for husband and Mr man