To Know if your Boyfriend/Girlfriend is in Love with You

How will you know that your guy or girl loves you?

I mean how you will know that your boyfriend or girlfriend is in love with you?  What are the things that will  make you understand that he or she loves you?

Hi,

To be sincere I think there is no way to know except you are sure you are going out with the "right guy".(Right guy in quote.....you desire him, you don't just like him physically but he or she affects you as a person relating to your being, physical looks, emotions, finances, thoughts, everything dear heart, and out of it all he must have the fear of the Lord, etc).  A friend is better for a relationship and that's just it.

If he takes matters that affect you seriously no matter what people around him think about you.

When two people have been on enough dates, they generally fall in love. You can tell you're in love by the way you feel: your head becomes light, your heart leaps within you, you feel like you're walking on air, and the whole world seems like a wonderful and happy place. Unfortunately, these are also the four warning signs of colon disease, so it's always a good idea to check with your doctor.

-- Dave Barry

Hey! Hey! Hey! Boyz and  Girls, you do not need to consult a soothsayer for you to know that your "date" is in love with you.

The fruits of the relationship will say it all.

Does he/she like to spend time with you? Always ever want to be alone with you?

Do you think he/she is proud of you? In the midst of friends, colleagues and family?

How often does he take you out on dates?

Do you receive gifts? Or is it always a case of " sebi you und'stand?

Do you receive friendship cards? Roses? Chocolates? Or is he/she the unromantic type? ( too bad )

How often do you receive SMS's, phone calls, e-mail?

Do you think he/she is comfortable with your person?

How does he/she correct you? Harshly or otherwise?

How does he/she address you ? Both when you're alone and in public?

Do you think there is mutual respect?

Is he aware of some basic courtesy in treating a lady I.e "opening the car door for you", " helping you up after a dinner date and talking in the seat while you step out in style?",

Does he/she actually say " I love you" on a daily basis?

Does he/she admire you? And actually say it?

Do you dance together? Go to the movies? Window shopping? Etc.

Does he/she hold your hands?

Is pre-marital sex perfectly under control?


Honestly, the list is endless but any body would know if the other person is in love - you do not even have to be too intelligent

Motee,

In my opinion, if a man is truely in love with me, or better still - madly in love with me, he wont sleep with me before marrying me.

dablessed:
Wow girl you've said it all.  You're definitely a walking encyclopedia on this issue.  I had better PM you right now to get more info about ...

Nairalanders
                 I've noticed a trend in posts, even if the original poster dint talk about [you]sex, [/you] we still find a way to manouver the topic towards sex.. must everything be all about sex? can't we discuss issues straight to the point without dilly-dallies.. na wa for us o![/b]

Lol. it is so funny. reading u lot messages. it just made me day at work. u lot kept a smile on me face and as for the question. i do not really know but i know me BF might prbly love me because he does some of the stuffs some of u have posted. so it means that am a luck girl. so cutie (lol) if u read this message am proud of ya.lol.

Dear Pretty Pinky,

Walking Encyclopaedia you said? Hmmmm! Not too sure about that.

But feel free to PM me anytime.

Ciao

Bolasho,

In a situation where the lady wants sex while the guy believes its not right, the guy has got to stand his ground - afterall he is a man. He must not give in to the woman.Which is why you must take time to really know the other person's view on premarital sex before moving on to  courtship.

I advice people to find out the other person's opinion on premarital sex as early as possible in the relationship. This will prevent problems later on in the relationship.

Hope this helps.

a quick but very dirty way to find out:
say something really mean about her good friend, like her breath stinks and study your girl's reaction.  If she gets defensive and starts coming after you then you better treat that friend right cus if that girl should ever say anything bad about you, u'll end up on the street single.  If on the other hand she smiles and plays it off like it doesn't matter then you know where you stand in her affection table.

Another quick and dirty way is with money.  I don't care what race, tribe or sex you are human beings do not play with money.  Ask your man or woman to lend you a good amount of money (make sure say them get am first o) and if the person comes up with excuses just run as fast as your legs can carry you.  If you can't trust me then how can you love me?

 Please you don't have to do it this way. Somebody go die oo.
Simply tell him/her that you had a test and you are comfirmed HIV positive and see his/her reaction first.

Well I hope any lady I'm planning to marry does not make the mistake of "testing" me by such (deceptive) methods.  Especially Fox's method!  If you use any deceptive method to "test" your fiance or boyfriend, then after he "passes" your test, you may discover that you have "failed" his own test (by being a liar and deciever).

If you tell me something and I know you're lying, I will ask you "are you sure?"  If you repeat it then that's the beginning of the end of our friendship (not to talk of relationship).  I won't scold you, I'll just withdraw.  I'm not a lab rat for anyone's psychological experiments.
:-o

  Once I discover that you've told me a lie, I will ask you "are you sure?" and if you repeat the lie then that

Well I hope any lady I'm planning to marry does not make the mistake of "testing" me by such (deceptive) methods.  Especially Fox's method!  If you use any deceptive method to "test" your fiance or boyfriend, then after he "passes" your test, you may discover that you have "failed" his own test (by being a liar and deciever).
  Once I discover that you've told me a lie, I will ask you "are you sure?" and if you repeat the lie then that
don't try to test your lover, if you have watched games women play.. you should learn from genevieve's stupidity at testing desmond elliot..because in  the end, she lost her lover to her best friend..omotola

what if he is the acting type, that u find if difficult to dectect. but somehow u manage to catch him on his act. but he dose not know u know.