To Know if your Boyfriend/Girlfriend is in Love with You

There is a friend of mine, a girl.  I liked her more than I should, but she didn't reciprocate so much and she did some things that ought to have annoyed me.  At first I refused to be discouraged by her actions, but later I decided to use my sense. 

I will never know if she was just trying to test me, because as far as I was concerned she had failed my test by doing those things.  You cannot test someone's love for you by being mean to the person, because at the same time the person is also testing you.  What will happen at the end is that the person will come not value you as much as before.

Love is like a baby.  When you feed it, it grows.  Have you ever seen a mother who is trying to test the strength of her baby by withholding food from the baby?  No, she feeds the baby and watches for signs of normal growth.  Because she knows that the baby is to precious to be sacrificed for any stupid test.

for me i think it is when you decide to write the things you used to like him for or her  for and discover that the first few months it was because he was fine , nice and so on and the next it was because of some other things and later it was because you found out he was so caring and it varies with each time you get to know him more he or her dosen't have a particular reason you like them. it's just as cool as that .

well twinkle i think u are right. because some guys are realy deciever. so ladies becareful.

as for me o! if my boyfriend is in love with me, i'll know somehow 

If the person says I LOVE You. i know i would never say it if i don't mean it, or would i.......hmmmm

2 know if your spouse is in love with u there's alot of things that u can do. u can first of all show that u love them by giving them special time with u and the spouse, sharing and showing interest in the person, know what they like or dislike or at least know there birthday or fav.color,animal or food. Just try 2 show love in variety of ways through gifts and emotions your love shall always show even when your sleeping show your spouse that u love them by comforting them and talking into their ears and sayin the most magical word "I LOVE You"  when someone says that word ori mi ma nwu ni especially if its being said 2 me or if i'm sayin it 2 someone else. 

since a girl raised this issue, i wldnt b so sure of what to say to her. SINCERELY, i can tell whether or not i am in love wit a girl after we'v made love. my signs after d 1st time;

i think about her often
i always want 2 see her
i miss her 2 much when we r apart
when we'r 2geda, i always want her close to me
i make it a point of duty 2 call / sms her everyday weda or not there's airtym on my econet / glo lyn
after everytym we do it, i always want her more
i say "I LOVE You" 2 her wyl lukin directly in2 her eyes

i shldnt b judged cz no1 on nairaland is innocent or do i say, a 'V'.

1 love!!

if your boyfriend loves you, he will always be patient with you . . .

well this seem to be a hard one,but if i knw my boyfriend truelly loves me
damn i wnt need no advice from any one,all i'll do isssss ask myself hw much
i love himn we go on from there,
but if only i cn jus knw if he truly loves me ooohhhhh! wt a bliss dt would be
cs i would hv no more headaches, i jus love to bo told d truth
cheat on me and be caught dan to tell d blunt lie

Se Love dey? All i believe is just be sincere with yourself,and be commited to your relationship. this 20th century guys are all CADS,all they want is chop-and-go relation.if u're just lucky u may get sm1 who truly luvs u, anyway if any guys love sincerely it will be written all over him.

Premarital sex is totally wrong, both parties should discuss this in love and abide by this principle. Love is unconditional, even if either party wants to leave, honestly, frankly, openly without having the other party in the dark and even hurt.

inu jin my dear u can never know d person that realy loves you everything lies i d heart of your partner.

@seun
i think i truely agree with you,one sometimes has to keep fate for things to keep moving.some of these tests are sometimes not worth it but worsen situations.

FOR YOU TO KNOW IF YOUR BOY FRIEND LOVES YOU IS VERY DIFFICULT.BECAUSE GUYS GENERALLY DO NOT SHOW THAT THE LOVE YOU BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE IF THE SHOW YOU WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THEM.LIKE MINE IF YOU ASK HIM IF HE LOVES ME.HE WOULD BE MAD ASKING WHAT TYPE OF QUESTION.IF YOU NO LONGER GIVE HIM ATTENTION THE WAY HE WILL REACT OH MY GOD,
A GUY TAKING YOU SHOPPING,TELL YOU HE LOVES You,PRETENDING TO BE JEALOUSY,TAKING OUT FOR PARTY AND SO ON ITS NOT A GUARANTY THAT HE LOVES YOU.HE MAY BELIEVE ALL HE IS DOING IS NORMAL THING.YOU CAN FIND AN ORDINARY FRIEND WHO CAN DO ALL THOSE THINGS AND MUCH MORE WITHOUT ANY STRING ATTACHED.SO WHAT ARE WE TAKING ABOUT

The only way to know if you're really loved by your partner is actualling knowing; What they do for you without your knowledge, What  they say about you or how they portray you to friends, colleagues, family members in your absence. Its really not about what they say or do when you're together because that  is just a means to an end, believe that!