I "Hate" My Parents

welll this is a little personal but i choose to share it,
i always have issues with both my parents and i don't like the feeling i get from it, sometimes i feel like beating my dad or just wishing he were out of my life, as for my mum she nags like hell gosh!!!, she pissing me off.

i was wondering if i was the problem, but some of my pals have similar parental issues too some are even worse than mine, so i was wondering if there are any other members who don't seem to find the right click between them and their parents

i GET ALONG WITH MY PARENTS NOW CAUSE IM FAR AWAY AND WE HARDLY SEE EACH OTHER, AND WHEN WE DO WE REMINISCE ON OLD TIMES, I love my parents and wont trade that for anything, parents In Nigeria have a different style of up bringing

i think its a stage every one goes through mostly as a teenager, you outgrow it especially when u become independent.so just endure it till then.

Honestly timmy, am sure everyone has had resentments for their parents at one time or the other. Its mostly all those hormones durng puberty. Are you a teenager? If so that explains it. I would advise you to try and see from your parents point of view some times. They are not your enemies, they love you and are only trying to protect you. Try reading books that deal on teenagers/parents relationships and help yourself deal with these issues. Please try and be more tolerant, try to have more patience. I know it might not be easy with your mum nagging all the time and your dad trying to boss you around or something. Just try, please I beg of you.

well timmy your case is personal indeed but sometime we share things with people that we know are capable of helping us.
well, i may say that you are brave enough to speak out because most they keep silent. but then pray that your parents will change and you will see that with God everything is possible, and try to obey them because they love you and that why they are treating you that way thought most parents do not like their children. so just do what i have said and live the rest for |God to solve and each time they talk to you try not to reply , it will make them feel bad ok?

Its called teenage crisis, even though your parents may have a part or fault i have learnt enough to know teenagers are more at fault because they are growing with all the recruitments of hormones and want to jump start certain events, i am now my dads best friend and my mum misses me like no other time, and i miss them too....................that is what time and patience does, it exposes yourelf to you....................be patient, and you will learn with time to do it the right way, its just a stage you are trying to grasp.

hatin on your folk aint good bro.

You better check yourself before you wreck yourself

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well my guy the base line is every body probably went thro' this phase, but the older u get the more tolerante u become. That is just life.

Parents do what they do because they care about us. They may not always do or say the things we want but almost all, if not all, parents act because of the love they have for us. I think almost every one has at one time or the other felt 'pissed off' (for want of another phrase) by one or both of their parents - so, you are not alone. Whenever you feel that way, it may be of some help to remember that their intention is not to hurt, although the delivery may not be to your liking. Parents are not perfect, none of us is.

It will be very sad if you resort to physical violence against any of your parents. I am not sure any culture allows it and in Nigeria you will almost be ostracized from society. At your age, you will be able to talk to your parents when you think they have hurt you without knowing it. Take it with a sense of humour and just take some of it  on the chin.  

One thing though, you will find somewhere down the line that most of what they are saying came from experience and you will end up saying similar things to your kids - although your delivery will probably be better than your parent's.

So, chin up bro. In time you become more independent of your parents and you do whatever you want to do - and bear the consequences.

you all sound alike, more like my uncles, but really i wouldnt come out to say i just hate on my parents just because i don like what they look like or somfin.

My parents just want to hurt me at will, they pick on evry thing i do, curse me at will and just don't see me as a man, even when i don't talk back, they go like "see him, his keeping mute, his mind is so full of evil, thats why he wuldnt talk"
and when i talk back they go like, "rude boy, you're crazy, your did, how dare you talk bact at us"

oops my mum just send me a fine text massage

it end with " the Lord be with u it's well my boy!"

now tell me who will pray this hard for you?
only a good parent will

Timmy this is a true story which happened in the states. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents in to the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said " Daddy I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.
So Timmy think about this story the next time someone(especialy your parents) steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes.
But the actions we take while in a rage will hunt us forever.

thank you all, i guess i know alot more than i have even recieved, but i just don't get what exactly it is that i do, dey keep refering to events i did in the 90's , don't dey know now that im grown!! gee's

and the truth is they don't even want me to live their house. 

aww welcome to the real world and don't say the word (HAte)because u don't hate them u are just annoyed at them but just keep your kool everything is going to be alrite.