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Rhodalyn (f)
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of course u can date someone u can't marry i mean basically u dnt actually date guys because u wnt 2 marry them!!
i date loadz of guys because i wnt 2 see da species if u knw wht i mean
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darqly (m)
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The way I was taught, date only those you think you can marry. This means date those that have the qualities you'D otherwise want in your dream spouse. What's the use of dating a party freak when you dread gigs  ? Don't make sense. I subscribe to the fact that you may want to have fun before settling down, but on the whole date those that have the potential to become your spouse. |
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Renike (f)
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what exactly is the purpose?
u don't eat to feel the spoon in your mouth, u eat because u are hungry.
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prince_onx
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Did that back then don't think I have time for that anymore! what's the point?
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DE-KING (m)
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Personally, I won't. Why venture into a relationship that I won't get anything from but either break someone's heart or get mine broken?  . Can't do it. She might come with the mind that she wants something serious and I'D end up breaking her heart just because I'm into it for the fun of it. It;s painful playing with other people's delicate hearts. |
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funty (f)
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no way that's crazy and callous because i know i can't marry you and i go ahead and date you even though you might love me and then later when i see someone i'll love to marry, i dump you; that is really wicked i wont do it cause the guy might even come back to hurt you cause of what you did to him
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Jamesbond (m)
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na wao!!u guys seam to have 4orgotten that sometimes you're into a rlationship out of LUST!!!.yea, i mean some of us see girls and we like WOW!! :oand u start havin randy plans.be it affair,date,relationship,courtship,whatever, its only with time that the two parties involved will decide or know if they would go to the next level.so if u ask me if i can date someone i can't marry my noble answer is DEFINITELY.
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madam (f)
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@Jamesbond your guess is as good as mine
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desiree (f)
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i think it is a cruel and devious thing to do, why date someone if you don't intend to start something serious with them? personally, I do go on dates with guys and if i don't see us being serious in the future, i will let them know immediately  . |
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mobzy205 (f)
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i can date someone i can't because if your looking for someone to date for marriage it might be wrong one besides there many fishes in the water and God will send the right person for me not first one i date.
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Idekeson (m)
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Of course. Marriage is overrated.
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Bisanke (f)
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Yeah, it happens  |
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ToniSafe22
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In the past, i dated men that i could not marry; but now age aint on my side, so presently i can only dated a guy i can definitely get married to.
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lioness (f)
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Right now am getting to 30. I can't afford to date a guy with no head way. At this time in my life, after a year in a r/ship, i ask the guy the way forward. If he isnt coming out with anything positive, I move on. Aint no need wasting time just assuming bobo go marry you mwhile nothing. |
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marlet01 (m)
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hhhhhmm
what's the point when you know you can't marry her,
BUT SOME GUYS DO THAT
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babycool (f)
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Most times, we ladies find out that the ones we really love to marry may not feel the the same way about us, and there is this guy, who actually is not your husband material type, he is heads over heels inlove wit u, kissing your feet, willing to do anything for u, the things u wished your dream guy should have done for u, what do u do? the real question should be "DO MOST WOMEN ACTUALLY MARRY THE MEN OF THIER DREAMS?" |
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iice (f)
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Yes, you can date someone you can't marry. How would you even know offhand that you can marry him if you don't date him and find out what kind of person he is, how he copes with a partner, how he responds and acts towards his partner?
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Nikegenius (f)
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@dargly
You just got the point of the question. Make sure the person has the right quality so that when it works out better than u were thinking, taking it to the next level wont be a problem.
Thnx man, u are the guy for the job.
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Macgreat (m)
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yes! yes!! yes!!! i open my crystal ball,i see those that say yes to the subject as them that go into dating for longthing,i call that relation-shit not relationship  |
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angelchi (f)
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yes i can, for the pepe |
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ruffbob (m)
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well am presently in a relationship that i know would not lead to marriage bt it some how hard 4 me 2 go out of it because changing her life was the reason 4 me getting into the relationship. though i av acheive a little of it bt i think i would had love to marry her bt she is older than me with 2years(this she don't know) so i av no choice.
but one day i would explain things to her since she apreciate me changing her life style and planning her furture
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JustGood (m)
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i fit date all de 'wise' girls only for yanshing
them own too much and if person marry them na yawa for house and 2 captains for ship
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JustGood (m)
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rhodalyn dey date to see species.
when person dey do ashawo work dey call am anotha name, yeye don start be that
when she reach 29 she go post advert dey look for husband and she no go remember say her husband don yansh her go away
yeye
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JustGood (m)
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Yes, you can date someone you can't marry. How would you even know offhand that you can marry him if you don't date him and find out what kind of person he is, how he copes with a partner, how he responds and acts towards his partner? this woman just like to yansh around |
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iice (f)
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well am presently in a relationship that i know would not lead to marriage bt it some how hard 4 me 2 go out of it because changing her life was the reason 4 me getting into the relationship. though i av acheive a little of it bt i think i would had love to marry her bt she is older than me with 2years(this she don't know) so i av no choice.
but one day i would explain things to her since she apreciate me changing her life style and planning her furture
Amazing. . . .changing her life style? planning her future? Yeah she must be really something to appreciate all that. Goodluck |
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Nia
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You can definitely date someone you can't/don't want to marry. Just because you're dating someone doesn't mean you have to marry them. Dating exposes you to different experiences, a lot is about learning about yourself and finding out things about the opposite sex, things you might (not) want in a future partner or spouse, and characteristics you look for in a future partner (things that are within reason, anyways), interest in certain activities that you might not have been exposed to, and it's a good way to make your mistakes (and hopefully learn from it) until you decide to settle down, (if you decide to get married later on). I think it's always best that both people involved are on the same page, though, if you know for a fact that it's just a temporary fling.
Communication is important so you don't complicate things with emotion or hurt other people who might be looking for something more like a long-term commitment out of the relationship.
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