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randy (m)
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i will not date a girl i CANNOT marry
it will b dangerous for me
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tRoOE (f)
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The catch is, how would you even know you don't have a future with him when you've not dated him & barely know him!?
Could you please enlighten us on this!?
Please stop quoting me!!!Okay
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tommyex (m)
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MAYBE yes But it will be a quick 1
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yemivictor (m)
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Please stop quoting me!!!Okay
What are you smoking!? 
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kojeiwa (m)
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It easier for a guy to date a girl they can't marry than for a girl to date a guy they can' t marry.
It also depend on their stage in life. Most girl at 25 and above wouldn't want to date someone
they can't marry. I can then, but not now.
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blue-sky (f)
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if they havent got the qualities for marriage, then they havent got the qualties for dating.
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ariblaze (m)
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awhile back i wont have minded as a matter of fact i would have welcomed it but now past/time is catching up with me am searching for that one now 
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Gamine (f)
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i dont see the point.
Why stress?
I go out a lot on dates with no strings attached.
i think thats better.
but if it turns to a "date" situation
i have to think of the future
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yemivictor (m)
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@topic NO
How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? 
Cc: Gamine
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lucabrasi (m)
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hell no,wats the point, unless its a booty call and you both know wassup
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ibkaye
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How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? 
Cc: Gamine i just do, i can observe him can't i 
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yemivictor (m)
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i just do, i can observe him can't i  Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!? 
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Reese1 (f)
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No, I can't date anyone I can't marry. There is no point in even begin dating someone you know right off the bat that you can't marry. Why waste each other's time when you know your desire is to get married someday? But of course, if no red flag comes up the first time you meet that person, (e.g., he or she is a devil worsipper  ), then you can begin dating the person just to get to know each other more and then make that decision as you go along. But if you don't see marriage in your future at all, then I guess you can just date around for fun. But you would have to tell your potential dates that you're just having fun, and are not trying to marry anybody now or ever lol 
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smooooooth
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how are u supposed to get the experienced before marriage.  i think from the dates that wont be marriages. 
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tollu (f)
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Not at this old age of mine.
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smooooooth
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Not at this old age of mine.
hey tollu, how oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooold are u.
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ibkaye
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Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!?  huh? when i say observe i don't mean only the physical 
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yemivictor (m)
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benefit ko Guadeloupe? ooh, few days ago  will be in iraq tomorrow  LOL . . . i'm loving this babe! C'mon now, don't be stingy o! 
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ibkaye
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yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc 
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sista-jay (f)
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Can't say, cos not every date ends in marriage.
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yemivictor (m)
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Can't say, because not every date ends in marriage.
Brilliant!!! You deserve a medal!
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ibkaye
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yes you can, as in only date those you see as a potential wife/husband, he/she may not be the one but it doesn't hurt to observe indept and more closely
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yemivictor (m)
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yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc  If marriageability is based on these, how come many relationships never get to the alter, in spite of the fact that the couple(s) share same beliefs, like personality, e.t.c.!? 
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jek_kad
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@topic
sometimes we get into a relationship thinking it will end up in marriage,but along d line everything goes sour
so we just cant know cos not every relationship leads to d altar or brings out d "i do" word from our mouths
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