Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?

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randy (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #96 on: March 27, 2008, 01:02 PM »

i will not date a girl i CANNOT marry

it will b dangerous for me
tRoOE (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #97 on: March 27, 2008, 06:08 PM »

Quote from: yemivictor on March 27, 2008, 11:03 AM
The catch is, how would you even know you don't have a future with him when you've not dated him & barely know him!?

Could you please enlighten us on this!?

Please stop quoting me!!!Okay



tommyex (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #98 on: March 27, 2008, 06:10 PM »

MAYBE yes
But it will be a quick 1
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #99 on: March 27, 2008, 06:22 PM »

Quote from: tRoOE on March 27, 2008, 06:08 PM
Please stop quoting me!!!Okay





What are you smoking!? Grin
kojeiwa (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #100 on: March 27, 2008, 09:55 PM »



It easier for a guy to date a girl they can't marry than for a girl to date a guy they can' t marry.

It also depend on their stage in life. Most girl at 25 and above wouldn't want to date someone

they can't marry. I can then, but not now.
blue-sky (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #101 on: March 27, 2008, 09:59 PM »

if they havent got the qualities for marriage, then they havent got the qualties for dating.
ariblaze (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #102 on: March 27, 2008, 10:22 PM »

awhile back i wont have minded

as a matter of fact i would have welcomed it

but now

past/time is catching up with me

am searching for that one now Cry
stillwater (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #103 on: March 27, 2008, 10:35 PM »

No.
iz2much (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #104 on: July 11, 2008, 12:22 PM »

Hmmm!!!
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #105 on: July 11, 2008, 12:23 PM »

@topic
NO
Gamine (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #106 on: July 11, 2008, 12:29 PM »

i dont see the point.

Why stress?

I go out a lot on dates with no strings attached.

i think thats better.

but if it turns to a "date" situation

i have to think of the future
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #107 on: July 11, 2008, 12:32 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 11, 2008, 12:23 PM
@topic
NO

How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? Tongue

Cc: Gamine
Gamine (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #108 on: July 11, 2008, 12:37 PM »

duh!!!
coolier (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #109 on: July 11, 2008, 12:37 PM »

No.
lucabrasi (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #110 on: July 11, 2008, 12:39 PM »

hell no,wats the point, unless its a booty call and you both know wassup
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #111 on: July 11, 2008, 12:40 PM »

Quote from: yemivictor on July 11, 2008, 12:32 PM
How do you know/tell who you can or can't marry, dearie!? Tongue

Cc: Gamine

i just do, i can observe him can't i Tongue
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #112 on: July 11, 2008, 12:53 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 11, 2008, 12:40 PM
i just do, i can observe him can't i Tongue

Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!? Grin
Reese1 (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #113 on: July 11, 2008, 01:01 PM »

No, I can't date anyone I can't marry. There is no point in even begin dating someone you know right off the bat that you can't marry. Why waste each other's time when you know your desire is to get married someday?

But of course, if no red flag comes up the first time you meet that person, (e.g., he or she is a devil worsipper  Shocked ), then you can begin dating the person just to get to know each other more and then make that decision as you go along.

But if you don't see marriage in your future at all, then I guess you can just date around for fun. But you would have to tell your potential dates that you're just having fun, and are not trying to marry anybody now or ever lol  Grin
smooooooth
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #114 on: July 11, 2008, 01:04 PM »

how are u supposed to get the experienced before marriage. Huh i think from the dates that wont be marriages. Grin
tollu (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #115 on: July 11, 2008, 01:07 PM »

Not at this old age of mine.
Pataki
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #116 on: July 11, 2008, 01:09 PM »

YES I can.
smooooooth
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #117 on: July 11, 2008, 01:14 PM »

Quote from: tollu on July 11, 2008, 01:07 PM
Not at this old age of mine.
hey tollu, how oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooold are u.
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #118 on: July 11, 2008, 01:34 PM »

Quote from: yemivictor on July 11, 2008, 12:53 PM
Didn't they say one cannot judge a book by its cover!? Grin
huh? when i say observe i don't mean only the physical Smiley
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #119 on: July 11, 2008, 01:47 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 11, 2008, 01:34 PM
huh? when i say observe i don't mean only the physical Smiley

So why don't you expatiate, for the benefit of us all! Tongue

BTW, when did you move to Guadeloupe from Kano!? Grin Grin Grin
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #120 on: July 11, 2008, 01:49 PM »

Quote from: yemivictor on July 11, 2008, 01:47 PM
So why don't you expatiate, for the benefit of us all! Tongue

BTW, when did you move to Guadeloupe from Kano!? Grin Grin Grin

benefit ko

Guadeloupe? ooh, few days ago Tongue
will be in iraq tomorrow Tongue
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #121 on: July 11, 2008, 01:56 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 11, 2008, 01:49 PM
benefit ko

Guadeloupe? ooh, few days ago Tongue
will be in iraq tomorrow Tongue

LOL . . . i'm loving this babe! C'mon now, don't be stingy o! Grin
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #122 on: July 11, 2008, 01:58 PM »

yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc  Lips sealed
sista-jay (f)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #123 on: July 11, 2008, 01:58 PM »

Can't say, cos not every date ends in marriage.
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #124 on: July 11, 2008, 02:00 PM »

Quote from: sista-jay on July 11, 2008, 01:58 PM
Can't say, because not every date ends in marriage.

Brilliant!!! You deserve a medal!
ibkaye
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #125 on: July 11, 2008, 02:03 PM »

yes you can, as in only date those you see as a potential wife/husband, he/she may not be the one but it doesn't hurt to observe indept and more closely
yemivictor (m)
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #126 on: July 11, 2008, 02:07 PM »

Quote from: ibkaye on July 11, 2008, 01:58 PM
yeesh, don't you know? the usual like personality, beliefs etc Lips sealed

If marriageability is based on these, how come many relationships never get to the alter, in spite of the fact that the couple(s) share same beliefs, like personality, e.t.c.!? Undecided
jek_kad
Re: Can You Date Someone You Can't Marry?
« #127 on: July 11, 2008, 02:09 PM »

@topic

sometimes we get into a relationship thinking it will end up in marriage,but along d line everything goes sour

so we just cant know cos not every relationship leads to d altar or brings out d "i do" word from our mouths
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