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Caradona (f)
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@ TOPIC One time I was on a date with my then Boyfriend, a Man was checking me out  and He waved at me. I innocently waved back and My boyfriend saw me waving back at the Man. Before you know it, I'm being accused of cheating  and he went and confront the man, the next minute they're throwing punches at each other.  My boyfriend ended up with broken nose and ribs. I got dumped. Adekunle you're an insecure man. only you have eyes? men can't look at me abi? Ewu Chicago. |
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Amigoz (f)
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A friend and I were walkin to college one day and we saw this cute fine guy coming towards us, one minute we were chattin away nd d next we change topic to the cute guy. The guy must have realised we were eyein him up, because as he walked past us, we turned round to check him out from behind, imagine our embarassment when he turned at the same time, and winked at us sayin 'caught in the act'. We all just laughed about it.
My point is, I don't see a problem in appreciating beauty in watever, sex, shape or form, we are human after all, nd we hav eyes. As long as ur guy does not go further than appreciating, girl you got nothing to worry about. But as other people have advised, if it bothers you communicate with him, I am sure its nothin.
Much love
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cintia (f)
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Men are never satisfied,they always behaves like he goat. but i won't take if my man is with me and still look at another woman. Admin www.uniquemate.com |
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qudrat
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It's a guy thing! For your peace of mind;don't watch to see if he's looking  |
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mantutuman (m)
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It is not unusual.
Most men will look at other beautiful (and sometimes not so beautiful females) and always wonder Hmmmmmm,
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ne4real (f)
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men will be always be men
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Cactus (m)
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what is wrong with looking at people, do you want men or women to be walking blindfolded or their eyes on you all the time?
If you are not secured in your relationship or u lack some level or trust, well bad for u tough luck. If you see a pretty person walking well there is absolutely nothing wrong in appreciating the beauty of nature. Looking does not necessarily mean he will go after her or she will go after him and cheat or something.
If you are scared, of your guy or girl, i guess you better have an open line of communication. I just wonder when girls say don't look or don't have female friends to guys. This is absolutely ridiculous.
People will be people, and if u get angry or go crazy just for looking, well u need more maturity.
What is wrong with looking?
what is wrong with having friends of opposite sex?
what is wrong with going out with your friends?
what is wrong with all this crazy mentality?
I have a handful of married female friends, we go to dinner, and nothing happens just as friends.
If you are not comfortable with yourself or being in a relationship, well, quit and live a solo life.
Women also look
Years and years ago am sure men still looked and women also looked and no problem
but when you have mtv, bet, vh1, divorce court and all these crazy tv shows with negative messages, what do you expect. portraying a certain group of people as bad or indecent does not mean everyone in that group does the same, don't make generalisations about people.
I laugh at girls always complaining about something a guy does, going out, with his friends etc.
one thing to always remember is that, he knows his friends longer than he has known you. get a clue, same goes for women.
there is absolutely nothing to be bothered about if both of u in the relationship have a level of understanding.
so can you tell me you have not looked at a guy either just to look at him and be like whao he is cool or in a sexual manner?
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Sweet T (m)
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@Caradona
You again?? On the last thread, you got disvirgined by 3 guys. Now you got your boyfriend's @$$ whupped ! Na wah o. I hope you ain't planning to be married ! You better slow your young @$$ down before these boys turn your toto loose !
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finemocha (f)
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sweet t
leave caradona alone, geez. I'm sure she is old enough to do whatever she wants
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adconline (m)
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objective of the eyes is 2 to see good and ugly , but your brain is wired to make a distinction.
I went on a date with a girl who had a V - neck top that was showing her cleavage and it seemed to that she was a little uneasy becuase she was using her hand to cover her flesh, but I told her that I was not staring and to my surprised she said that she would question my sexuality if I did not glance at her cleavage.
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namdee (m)
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what can i say,I do it also but with style so as not to vex my girl or make her feel any form of disrespect.but most times either I am admiring the girls outfit and imagining how nice it will look like on my girl or they have physical resemblance or just harnless checking out,girls don't get it all wrong, though we might b thinking otherwise too, anyway can't pluck out the eyes can we, but girls are also guity of this
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bebe2007 (m)
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Am a babe and am guilty of this sin. Very much so indeed i even go as far as calling my Boyfriends' attention to things (boobs, ass etc) that i see. Its just a reflex action thats all. You see something that catches your attention you just LOOOOOOKKKKKKKK. On the contrary, i kind of understand the posters point because there was once my Boyfriend saw this cute, very cute small babe in shorts, long endless legs inshort she was hot. He looked at her and said the word CUTE!!!!! in this sexy way that my heart bled LOL. I was hurt that day but i didnt show it. Well i do the same to him when i see very good looking guys. It doesnt mean anything ok. Just let him be and feel free to admire guys in front of him too. Its allowed babes.  |
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Sweet T (m)
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@Finemocha
Ok sweetheart, ms. defense attorney !
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ebos (m)
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Men are never satisfied,they always behaves like he goat. but i won't take if my man is with me and still look at another woman. Admin www.uniquemate.comNever knew that this thread will turn men as He-goats. Cintia, you have tried. Up you. Wash yourself outside. |
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matcpt20 (m)
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well I think evry babe should know how her man looks at her when , If that samelook is persistent for other women , I think she should raise an alarm and if the alarm doesnt work, She should reconsider the relationship. |
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swing4real (m)
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Abeg make him look as longer he is not touching abi u prefer him to touch and not looking |
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pmdaboh (f)
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Look as long as you have eyes, you are going to see who crossing in front of you path of vision. We all look--don't we? I mean if a handsome guy walks by, even though I am married, am I suppose to pretend that I don't see him, or even admire his good looks. It is one thing to look and another to want to start to get that person's phone number, so hopefully you can meet later to have sex.
God gave us eyes, and when others cross our path we will look. To me, that is normal and natural. Now, I am not talking about looking until you are trying to picture that person without any clothes on, but I mean glancing at them as they pass. It is nothing wrong with admiring beauty.
I agree with a comment someone said. Next time a guy walks pass you and you are with your man, take a look at him and admire his looks. Stare at him a little, and see how your man reacts to it! That way if he says something, you will not be the first one who brought up the subject. Just let him know that he does that too while in your presence, so you were wondering how he would feel if you do that while in his presence. It is nothing wrong with glancing, but to stare someone down is different. After all, if neither one of you can never look at anyone else while you are spending time together, it will start to feel very uncomfortable, confining, and unnatural to me, which will strain the relationship.
Well that's my opinion. Best wishes!
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OhGrey (m)
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I used to have a girl that raises hell every time she thinks sorry catches me checkin out other women. Instead of stopping I just devised new ways of lookin - looking without turning my head or sometimes I'll just holla " girls of these days! check out wot that girl's wearing" and we both look.
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ima1 (f)
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well i don't want to end up being the bitchy g/f i let him do what he wants to do, as long as he has a good reason for it, but the looking at other chicks thing is just crazy, can't stand it because most of the women he looks at ain't got nothing on me.
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finemocha (f)
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@oh grey
hilarious hehehehehhe, but shame it doesnt work for men. i have been caught numerous time exchanging glances with goodlooking guys. but i don't think if i screamed chai men of these days, look at how sexy this one looks in that tight muscle shirt. I doubt my boyfriedn would buy that. I know it bothers him because that is what him and i used to do before we got together, so i guess i better learn how to be slick when scoping out the opposite sex
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simply_me (f)
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so? he should blind his eyes to things around him just because he loves u?
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Sweet T (m)
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@Simply me
You are one hot mama !!!
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shens2006 (m)
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go wash ur head girl  |
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kemu_lala (f)
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@ ima1, My friend , if the guy can´t focus on you alone, that means he is not committed. Don´t get me wrong, we all look at other people but all the same , do u look at other guys whenyou are with your man ? if not, well u don´have to put up with that.
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ima1 (f)
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i don't look at other guys because i know its disrespectful to my guy, well next time he does it i'll call him out on it.
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jones77 (m)
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can she tell us the exact point her guy normally look @ when he see other girls? just want to know if he only appriciate the good work of the lord or if he imagine clinging to a hotel bed with that chappp
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jones77 (m)
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Zignor i guess must be a very handsome guy thats why they look at u,,, but i wonder what u do when u see other gusy girlfriend,,, tell yourself the truth!!! fineboy
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ucohinya (f)
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my dear,there's nothing there ok.its just in them to appreciate God's work,beside it's in their blood.
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ucohinya (f)
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i think there's nothing there.he's just appreciating God's work.Beside,it's in everybody's blood to admire.lol.
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Mustay (m)
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abi o wetin we wan use eyes do  no be d same eyes we use identify u sef? |
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