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extreme (m)
Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« on: July 17, 2007, 10:13 PM »

I was seeing this girl while i was still in school and we were really cool and even as odd as it might sound for a boy to admit it, i really loved her. i went back to school to check up on her but realised there were some changes like she wouldnt let me hold her phone or come hang out in sch with her so i got curious and checked her phone and may be i shouldnt have cus i stumbled on some voice messages of her ex demandin sex n all from her. he actually said somethin bout enjoyin doin it and wantin more. she denies it but i was hurt n we broke up. she says her ex is a crazy guy n would do stuff like that, i wan to beleive her but should i? guys do u think a guy would just send a text like that to his ex, i no i wouldnt. what do y'all think? did she cheat on me?
tboy1 (m)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #1 on: July 17, 2007, 10:18 PM »

If you really saw that kind of text then i'm sure she is lying.
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #2 on: July 17, 2007, 10:22 PM »

Are you serious?Huh You broke up with her because of that? You should have talked to her first. Some guys are actually like that! If you broke up with her because of the other reasons, that's more plausible. You need to talk to her and get to the bottom of it to be honest.
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #3 on: July 18, 2007, 06:56 AM »

i would be frank, you might have leaped to fast.  the guy might want her back and sent those messages to spite you, cause he knows you might eventually see it. now if she deleted all the messages on her phone, na una go talk say women dey fishy, i tire ohhh Undecided
Mandora (f)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #4 on: July 18, 2007, 11:44 AM »

Why r u still asking when u just said that u got d hard core evidence?
mide2 (f)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #5 on: July 18, 2007, 11:56 AM »

I don't think you actually loved her like u claim to hv, breaking up with her without being sure  if she indeed cheated or not, isn't a sign of true love.

Blunt truth.
Bolarge (m)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #6 on: July 18, 2007, 12:14 PM »

Quote from: extreme on July 17, 2007, 10:13 PM
even as odd as it might sound for a boy to admit it, i really loved her.  
Helllooo?? And when did it become odd to admit u love a girl?. . . if you's not on some ego trip Huh

Quote from: extreme on July 17, 2007, 10:13 PM
i stumbled on some voice messages of her ex demandin sex n all from her. he actually said somethin bout enjoyin doin it and wantin more.
 Case in point: I have numerous friends who're happily married now. One calculated text msg from me thanking her for some phoney sex romp would cause a major crack in those homes especially if there're fundamental trust issues already.
 I think your judgment here was rather rash though I don't blame u so much, some guys I know would've fractured a few bones of hers.

Quote from: extreme on July 17, 2007, 10:13 PM
she denies it
  Does this mean anything to you?

   What to do:  
  Call her and apologise. I refuse to believe u're 100% a saint yourself.
  Set the conditions as u'd have 'em . . . what u can't take from her (if u'd have her change her # to forestall further incursions by the intruding moron then tell her), what u want from her. . in short communicate.
  Put the past behind u n' give her a clean slate to start with.

  Her actions thereafter will then determine how things progress.
tonerro1 (m)
Re: Do You Think She Cheated On Me
« #7 on: July 18, 2007, 01:04 PM »

this is what i will tell you,i had i similar encounter once and this is what u should do, u guys sit down and let her explain everything,when she is through, u should  listen to ur heart and do what it tells u to. if ur heart belives her she is right if not ditch her and look for someone new
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