I Allowed Him Go With My Child,am I Right?

PLEASE MY PEOPLe ,my hubby has been seeing his ex-friend and they have been meeting for drinks ,this woman is divorced and still want to have contact with my man which he is encouraging by seeing her,she sometimes call his phone and they talked, even in my presence, he takes it that i understands and have no problem with that, he said there is nothing going on between them that she is an old hag and blabla, ,just today he told me he wants to visit her with our child which i allowed with out all my mind,am i wrong or is it okay ,i just hand all to God and ur opinions please -------

huh? your husband is seeing his ex?   

and he is going with your child?  huh?


huh?   


see if i was in your position my husband can't ,i repeat can't be seeing his ex for anything

not even be taking her phone calls right in front of me

not to talk of taking my child to see her

tufiakwa! 

i think going with the kid is just the man's silent way of saying 'I know who i'm with now, and even if for 1 stupid moment I forget, my little angel is all the reminding I need' I see it as a kind on insurance policy to make sure the ex doesn't try anything stupid and to show her that there is no vacancy.

I see no problems in the situation. If na naija, I for say, be careful the woman doesn't poison your kid, but i doubt if that will happen,

 I don't want to sound harsh oh but what type of woman allow her husband to go out and see his ex  . Anyway why are you bringing your child into this mess, abeg let your husband go by himself to see the woman jare .

Your husband is smart oh using the child as a cover up so you wont think his sleeping with her , Men are smart sha, see the way his cheating on you with another woman right in your face, next thing he will be moving in with her.

I don't think a responsible woman that cherishes her loving family will allow one stupid husband to go out and see his ex.

So what kind of advice do you want oh

Trust him,believe him,he shit on u Love him.

you have all spoken well my people ,is not that am keeping silent on this but he always sees it as am being jealous ,but it is not only being jealous but am scared cause i am alone here with him and the little kids of 2years and 3months old,the lady in question has a grandchild of 2years,lets say she is a grandma but she won#t let my man be.  >:(i called her oneday to warn her to keep away from my man and she called my man and informed him of my call,he came back asking me i denied it and i saw how disorganised he was and i later gave in,all he said was i want to hinder him from getting something from this woman, and the woman is already shaking in fear that i might come to her shop for fight and blablabla, ,i find it difficult trusting him again because he has lied to me on several occassion,even before i got married to him i vowed never to lie to him i told him everything about myself because he was my first and onlyman,but he is making me doubt the love,and am not really happy about it .he always say "you are a woman ,it is good 4 a man to be exposed than a woman" .so what do i do next my people??