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k0be
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some men.
he has all the experience in the world, but when he's ready to settle down he wants to marry a virgin.
even though he's slept with many women, he doesn't want a girl that has been with tons of guys because he can't trust her as much.
is meeting a virgin more important than meeting the right one?
is it selfishness, insecurity, lack of trust, moral reasons
how come some women are expected to be virgins when they are married out but the man doesn't have to be?
let virgins marry virgins
non-virgins marry non-virgins.
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Seun (m)
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We have been brainwashed, that's why.
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sylvao2000 (m)
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Na waoo for you na that kind question them say make you come they ask here waiting you be self man or woman if you be woman l think why you ask that kind thing na because you none be virgin again and men when dey see you want marry virgin. l get one word for you ( take heart ) you will find who want none virgin very soon.
Everybody if am wrong make una correct me oooh please none be abuse reply ooh
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crazykid (m)
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Every man would want to settle down with a girl that doesn't have a nasty past. If you fall in love with a virgin, you'll know that you the only man in her life. No ex boyfriend No secrete No past life Her sexual life begins from you Isn't that wonderful  |
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PHEESAYOUR (m)
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Every man would want to settle down with a girl that doesn't have a nasty past. If you fall in love with a virgin, you'll know that you the only man in her life. No ex boyfriend No secrete No past life Her sexual life begins from you Isn't that wonderful I second that and also, The probabiltity that She will remain faithful to you is 1 (If you treat her well) , She could be trustworthy and reliable |
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olanajim (m)
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I think one of the reasns is that, men who sleep easily with ladies finds that some ladies are sluts. They turned themselves into bedroom experiments and made a nuisance of womanhood. They therefore made a mental note to avoid such lady as a marriage material. In this age, where things are even more complicated, some men find the best insurance in marrying a virgin or a rather conservative lady. Those ladies with hot pants would have to find their match elsewhere. Abi if you are given a brand new Toyota corrolla and a badly battered hummer jeep with good body but a nearly dead engine. Which would you pick? Over to you!
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olanajim (m)
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I must however add that most virgin are just a potential slut waiting for opportunity to let loose the steam. Some are worst than street slut,
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$ammy (m)
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Not necessarily
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keltin (m)
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it's because most men are hypocritical!!!! yeah, you read that right!!!! why would men sleep around, feel no remorse for their acts but expect d ladies to bear a bigger "curse" for doing the same thing? and who even put such wrong ideas into d heads of a few lousy men that just because a lady is a virgin, she's the "best" thing that could ever happen to them? i know you may be saying "keltin, what's your point?". well, i have an interesting friend that is not a virgin and another boring friend with ugly character(sadly !!!) who is a virgin, while, i believe in morals(whatever that means to you), i would never marry my virgin friend(no offence meant) because my life could end up being such a boring and painful life!!!!! In a nutshell, here are my points: 1) every body has a past (that includes the guys with an ugly craving for anything on skirts or trousers these days hahahaha) 2) people have different areas in which they fail/ have failed, for some ladies, it may be losing their virginity and for the virgins, it may be something worst like never telling the truth or even stealing, did i just say that,  ? 3) you should never choose a wife just on the grounds of virginity rather ask the question : will i be happy with her? 4)and if the past is too important to you then ask yourself or find out if there's anything in her past that has the potential of affecting your future, ? 5) whatever, you do, always remember that the past is good enough for reference but never as a standard or yardstick, stay focused on the future!!! God bless!! |
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sanrima (f)
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@keltin u,ve said it all, i wander when our brothers will stop being hypocrites! please what is good for the geese is also good 4 the gander. @poster, well they will always tell u its a mans world so the guys are at liberty to get away with anything. they end up marrying virgins and still go out to cheat! reason? she is inexperienced, she doesn,t satisfy me. heeheehee  |
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oyb (m)
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1) culture: a man who gets around is the man,a correct guy, while a woman who gets around is a slut, a nympho, a ho, a trick . .
2) insecurity: if a fellow is not good in bed, as long as he marries a virgin, she won't know the difference, as she'll have no reference to compare his performance with.unless she becomes unfaithful, she'll just assume that the way sex is. . a man's thing
3) Karma:hardcore playa has spent his life fooling with women( other's men's women , most of the time ) he dosen't want to be cuckolded, the way he has cuckolded other men in the past. plus a virgin (in this day and age) is probably a very inexperienced girl, who will be easier to 'chance/bully'
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Bblak (f)
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Nice words! but want you to know that not all virgins are boring or naive as u've said.Though virginity shld not be a yardstick for choosing the right woman but if u're fortunate to get one all the best. Also being a virgin does not make one inexperienced or boring. It all depends on who u are, your background, your level of exposure e.t.c. Maintaining your virginity is a determination and not due to the fact that u're naive or local.so you can be a virgin and av a whole lot of exposure.it's all about you.  |
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charlione (m)
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well said girl.i completely agree with u.have a coupla friends who are 26 and still virgins. they wont quite fit as naive and inexperienced. they're not unattractive,they just remain virgins due to raw determination and i respect that.
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Bolarge (m)
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Virgin guy marries virgin girl. That's my style.  |
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otokx (m)
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@Bolarge
Very good.
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Everbright (f)
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There's no guarantee that a virgin wife will always be faithful For men that look for virgin wife after living a rough life,i would call it foolishness and selfishness  |
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deekseen (m)
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I think this 'virgin' thing is highly overrated.
The first time i tried to penetrate a virgin, it was hell. Three hours plus and i could not make any reasonable penetration. Three hours with a deflowered girl would have been next to heaven. For some time now i've tried as much as possible to stay off 'virgins'.
I'm not saying girls should not keep their virginities till their wedding night and i'm not saying i wouldn't like to marry a virgin. All i'm saying is that i wouldn't force it. If the girl i eventually fall in love with is a virgin, good. But if not, not bad either.
I won't be a 'virgin-p*ssy' hunter!
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MsSunshine (f)
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There's no guarantee that a virgin wife will always be faithful Exactly! Once she gets started, |
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Mwaka (f)
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they just want to get them out of their virginity.i mean, after fucking a virgin girl that girl is no longer called a virgin.
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johnnygan (m)
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Not the point. All who are virgins are not bound to be virgins for life with the exception of religious or traditional reasons.
@ Topic
Your topic was supposed to be "why do most men want to get married to virgins?"
Look, i can get married to any girl my heart desires. Virgin or Not. Dun care because LOVE matters.
Duh!
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bugado (m)
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why do you want to marry a virgin when u are not. i think that virgin guys should marry virgin girls
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bugado (m)
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why do you want to marry a virgin when u are not. i think that virgin guys should marry virgin girls.
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johnnygan (m)
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lol. You got an hell wrong expression
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deekseen (m)
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Look, i can get married to any girl my heart desires. Virgin or Not. Dun care because LOVE matters.
Duh!
That makes us two for now. |
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trendy (f)
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i wont comment now, i will come back and comment when am less angry most of you guys are something else u want to marry virgins and u go about sticking your dicks in any available pussy  |
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bencobenz (m)
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To help them lose their virginity!
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johnnygan (m)
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lol.
They got freaked i guess
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trendy (f)
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my problem with guys in general is that
if u want a virgin wife be a virgin yourself how hard can it be
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