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Dynast (m)
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All the ladies complaining I hope none of you were raped by a man if thats the case then rest your case, Some of lost ur virginity as a result of "long throat",insatiable quest and greed. Rest my case for those who were raped. Lose ur virginity lose ur dignity as a man,
If I discover that my wife is not a virgin on our weding night I will demand refund for the dowries I paid on her head
All ladies who are no longer Virgins go and meet the guy who disvirgined youQED
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Seun (m)
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You've been brainwashed. If you help two girls to lose their virginity, must you marry them both?  |
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tlops (m)
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the same reason u'll prefer a "tear rubber" jeep to tokunbo.no hassles, no past lifes, more trust,all life waranty lol (money back if it fails) etc
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k0be
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lol, you're hilarious
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dantanee
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The truth is most girls were disvirgin by well experienced, in most cases older boys and most boys were disvirgin by well experienced, in most cases older girls. This leave a vacuum where every one of the parties want to fill. Many folks out there are mentally lost for the real feeling of how having sex with a virgin is like. I can say it all a quest for what we lost we may not find it as long as we are adventurous about sex and treat religion and divine law with disdain.
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Godsgirl (f)
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Girls, We are too precious. Men are precious too. But I know that if any one of the sexes had the capacity to wait, it is the woman. But realise that alot of good men I know will wait for the girl.
Women (regardless of your race, spiritual belief, or age). Please close your legs. If you are no longer a virgin, it is not too late (as some other guy said) the sooner the better. Infact, I respect those of you who fit into this category because, it means that you have tasted what it is like and are willing to hold off now. I am sure this is a hard thing to do, that is why I commend you for your efforts. Afterall, it might be easier for the virgin (who does not know what she is missing, anyway) to continue to abstain. I know some of you think I am harsh and unrealistic but I speak to majority of you women when I say that one day, you will desire to be married and even if it is not for the "virgin" experience, would you want to start blurting out names of other men in bed with your husband or even dare compare him to those men? I do not think so. Our men deserve respect also. Not "all" are dogs.
Do not let the "If you love me, you'll give it to me" excuse fool ya. He will not- I repeat, HE WILL NOT want you anymore very soon. There's always something new and more challenging. It is human nature for a man to hunt and expect challenge in life. It is not their fault-they were created that way by default. If you are easy, you are only good enough for "instant gratification." Surprisingly, I would respect a girl who had the guts to say she sleeps around for "her own" satisfaction, rather than "I thought he loved me" or "I did it to keep him." Sex before marriage is a way you (yourself) signs the end of your relationship. If you do not care or prefer not to marry in this lifetime, then please disregard all this. However, if you do, Know this: Love waits, It is patient.
Whenever someone rushes you to do something--that is a red flag, stop and reevaluate the situation. When I was about to buy my very first new car some years ago, the salesman was so much in a hurry for me to sign the contract. He actually got upset to see that I wanted to take the time to read the contract first. What do you think I did? Girls, if he does not have sex with you, he will not die. We love our men, but girls, they gotta wait.
Agape!
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Oke_amu (m)
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Actually the reason is that from research, first love always have best potential to stick forever, the girl will be less likley to cheat on you because she is enjoying you first hand, so she has to be used to you and you used to her. As long as you two have discovered a way to pleasure each other, it will stick good as long as it last, Experienced ladies always compare your s*x with other men, and you know what follows next,
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Oke_amu (m)
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Girls, We are too precious. Men are precious too. But I know that if any one of the sexes had the capacity to wait, it is the woman. But realise that alot of good men I know will wait for the girl.
Women (regardless of your race, spiritual belief, or age). Please close your legs. If you are no longer a virgin, it is not too late (as some other guy said) the sooner the better. Infact, I respect those of you who fit into this category because, it means that you have tasted what it is like and are willing to hold off now. I am sure this is a hard thing to do, that is why I commend you for your efforts. Afterall, it might be easier for the virgin (who does not know what she is missing, anyway) to continue to abstain. I know some of you think I am harsh and unrealistic but I speak to majority of you women when I say that one day, you will desire to be married and even if it is not for the "virgin" experience, would you want to start blurting out names of other men in bed with your husband or even dare compare him to those men? I do not think so. Our men deserve respect also. Not "all" are dogs.
Do not let the "If you love me, you'll give it to me" excuse fool ya. He will not- I repeat, HE WILL NOT want you anymore very soon. There's always something new and more challenging. It is human nature for a man to hunt and expect challenge in life. It is not their fault-they were created that way by default. If you are easy, you are only good enough for "instant gratification." Surprisingly, I would respect a girl who had the guts to say she sleeps around for "her own" satisfaction, rather than "I thought he loved me" or "I did it to keep him." Sex before marriage is a way you (yourself) signs the end of your relationship. If you do not care or prefer not to marry in this lifetime, then please disregard all this. However, if you do, Know this: Love waits, It is patient.
Whenever someone rushes you to do something--that is a red flag, stop and reevaluate the situation. When I was about to buy my very first new car some years ago, the salesman was so much in a hurry for me to sign the contract. He actually got upset to see that I wanted to take the time to read the contract first. What do you think I did? Girls, if he does not have sex with you, he will not die. We love our men, but girls, they gotta wait.
Agape!
You wrote like a virgin, when you start having sex, you don't go back, |
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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Typical how "GodsGirl" post is only directed to girls.
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k0be
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our lady of hearts, what do you have to say about this fragile matter? lol.
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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kobe jare I already replied before male insecurity If you're shitty in bed, why not get with someone that wouldnt know that difference? That's really what it is. They marry the virgin wife yet still go out and cheat on her with the so called experienced whores. All idiots. |
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Godsgirl (f)
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@ Thiefofhearts
I am a woman so, my heart is geared towards their care. If I sounded a little harsh, it is only out of love. Please understand. Hopefully, a man can speak for the men. He will be in a better position to caution the brothers on how to treat us women. We are delicate and deserve the very best; nothing less. Most women that have been considered "whores" only got that name because they meant well-to show the man how much she loved him. Is it wrong to show a man love? NO, Is there a better way to do it? YES!. I have tried my best to be unbias but I do truly care for "us" women and I know we can do this. This has helped several other women I counsel and it has been successful in helping them abstain.
Agape!
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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nobody said you sounded harsh. but like I said before, virginity or not, marriage or not, if the dude doesnt truly love you his heart/mind will still wonder. like I mentioned before the same men looking for the virgins sometimes end up being the ones that cheat on these same obedient and "submissive" virgins with "experienced whores" with the excuse thatr their wives isnt "experienced enough", do you not see the irony?
I do however agree with you on the whole "if you loved me you'D want to sleep with me" bullshit that some people fall for.
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Godsgirl (f)
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I see the irony and you are absolutely correct. My point is not bent on pleasing anyone or being submissive to anyone. It is more on empowering women to respect their bodies and not be obligated to give themselves (virgin or not) to any man. And yes, I agree Virginity cannot assure ones love for someone else. FYI, if the woman is a virgin at marriage, who says she will continue to be unexperienced for the rest of her life? afterall, the expereineced woman was once a virgin too before she got experienced. Again, my focus is not "virgins" and that is why my previous threads make it very clear that everyone (non virgin men, non virgin women, virgin men and women) in this matter needs to take some sort of responsibility for their actions. I could care less of someones status; Women, to me, are all equal. We still need to respect ourselves and men still need to respect us. This is where I stand. I respect your views as well.
Agape!
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Sandia (f)
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Virgin OR non Virgin, watz d big deal. After all we all gon b non virgins someday. Bin a virgin or not is a decision someone makes N i respect evry single decision any being makes on this earth.
Bin a Virgin is biblical. Not that am sayin no one shld follow d bible. what I'm tryin 2 say is that we shld accept each 4 who we re.
A man married 2 a virgin, he might b livin a very happy married life or maybe d opposite side of it (same applies to the non virgin).
Bin a virgin or not has nothin 2 do with, what is, what is 2 b or what is past, that depends on individual not what is happened underneath.
Women always ve 2 suffer d pain. N why that? A man wants 2 get marry 2 a virgin while he is sleepin around not even thinkin he might contact a very deadly disease n this innocent virgin who knos nothin suffers d crime she aint deserve.
I kno men want 2 get marry 2 virgins because they thinkin non virgins re second hand, re they right? (i don't think so, is just Christlike daz all).
A man can get marry 2 a virgin n d lady enjoys d pleasure her man gives her n Afterwards becomes an unbearable sexfreak, what about that huh? N her man can't even control her, even get tired of her. she'll go aside n look 4 some one who wont get tired of her huh.
Problems in marriage life has nothin 2 do with bin a virgin or not. It has 2 do with how u plan your life, d decisions u make in life, or even pples past can even play on their own intelligence that can lead 2 marriage problem. Instead of u bangin your head on her b virgin or not; try 2 focus n kno d woman u wan 2 marry with.
There re girls who want 2 keep themselves till they get marry, but thins happened they ddnt wish 4, they get attacked. what re we suppose 2 do about this ones huh? because they re equally non virgins 2. re u men just gon punish them 4 d thin they kno nothin about or even add more pain to the pains they re already into? is up 2 u people , men.
CONCLUSION: D problem in marriages or in general has nothin 2 do with bin a virgin or non virgin. D problem is that we being complain 2 much. We wish this, we want that, because of this our unsatisfied behaviour daz why we men killed Jesus(GOD) when he was with us. I guess life would ve be totally different havin God around. No, we ddnt like it that way. i guess he wasnt a virgin 2 daz why.
Pples is high time we all grow up, think before actin.
4 d virgins i say RESPECT n i give u guys this kiss xxxmuah
4 d Non virgins i say RESPECT n i give u guys kiss xxxmuah
4 d Fuckers n sluts i say AIDS exist n it gives Hell while still on earth
4 d innocent who ve AIDS we give u prayers, healin is u guys portion, AMEN
i c u guys some other time. goodbye n God bless
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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what exactly does your pic have to do with the topic at hand?
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Sandia (f)
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can some one please tell me how 2 remove my babyface frm there lol i mean my picture
i thought it was goin 2 b very small like a passport foto, not knowin is mighty like mighty ( u people shldnt blame me oo is my first time here n this virginity of a thin )
please help beauty sister out. i ddnt mean 2 advertise d face. new comer ya all kno how it is na
abeg xx
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debosky (m)
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very easy sandia, just click modify in the top right corner of the post, and remove the attachment or attach a different file  |
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Chiekezi (m)
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@Sandia nice pic by the way
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Sandia (f)
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thanx alot 4 savin a sista. i finally removed it. as 4 my profile pic please sorry pples i do not ve little pic bear with me. how do u guys reply someone personally? c ya i kind of like this topic a bite because here u kno who is a virgin n who is not lol  . some people can lie 2 that they re virgins is only God that is seein us oo pc xx |
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debosky (m)
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you can't reply personally on nairaland, but you can talk on yahoo messenger or msn with anyone you want, just check the person's profile the MSN or yahoo id is usually there |
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Sandia (f)
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no is ok, i thought u can just reply someone like that via here
anyways is all good. thanx anyway
I'm takin a nap
gudnite pples
damn I'm tired
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lamarck (f)
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some men do not believe in the reality of living so they do not want a non virgin as ther wife but 4 me i pray i see a virgin to marry
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johnnygan (m)
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Keep prayin then
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tpia
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virgin or non-virgin, men will still be men.
A man who wants to cheat will still cheat, even if he dates or marries a virgin. Virginity is not a guarantee of faithfulness.
I'm not saying virgins should go and lose their virginity, but just don't assume it will give you some special kind of status when push comes to shove. Afterall, once you loose it, there will always be plenty more women lined up who are still virgins. So if a man is addicted to virgins, there's always plenty available for him to sample, after he has disvirgined the one at hand.
This is why some people will even sleep with children, in their quest for " purity".
My point is, its good to be a virgin, but don't build your entire life around that fact. Its also good if you're a non-virgin, but life is not only based on these things, in spite of some people's preoccupation with virginity.
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mellow (m)
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Its a matter of choice
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Dynast (m)
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because we men are ever virgin
If you doubt me disprove with evidence
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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virgin or non-virgin, men will still be men.
A man who wants to cheat will still cheat, even if he dates or marries a virgin. Virginity is not a guarantee of faithfulness.
I'm not saying virgins should go and lose their virginity, but just don't assume it will give you some special kind of status when push comes to shove. Afterall, once you loose it, there will always be plenty more women lined up who are still virgins. So if a man is addicted to virgins, there's always plenty available for him to sample, after he has disvirgined the one at hand.
This is why some people will even sleep with children, in their quest for " purity".
My point is, its good to be a virgin, but don't build your entire life around that fact. Its also good if you're a non-virgin, but life is not only based on these things, in spite of some people's preoccupation with virginity.
Real talk. |
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kanmosyl (m)
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The truth about the thread is that its just a matter of choice
to some they want to get married to a virgin to avoid nasty and dirty past lives and to the other they want to marry a disvirgined chicks to avoid putting her through sex training and classes so she go fit blend in the act.
Do i want a virgin or not?
still thinking about it.
Thiefoftheheart how far and hope u are alrite?
i ve not come across u for a while now but sure u are alrite?
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I forgot to mention, tpia as you can see from the responses on here you can see why some people would think the world revolved around virginity anyway kansomyl, I dey jare. trying to take it easy.  How are you? |
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debosky (m)
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all this madness over virginity, as if they remain virgins forever? after them born pikin the fabled 'tightness' will be gone, what then? go look for another virgin? some of these idiots wouldn't even know the difference between a virgin and 'alum trick' and have been sold 'fairly used' goods as new  |
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