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lucabrasi (m)
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i know this is a very old post but i guess the major reasons have been dealt with save the reasons why many women are single at 30 years old,fair enough some might be single through no fault of theirs in which case GOD has a plan for them and it will surely happen,but there are also ladies who are single at 30 now solely through their own faults, its either they are looking for will smith with a fat bank balance,good job and also caring worships her e.t.c there are guys like that but few and far between so he has more girls to choose from,if he now eventually drops you,then the complaints start
there s this weding coming up next week of an uncle of mine in london,the guy had been with a girl for 5/6 years plus ,suddenly last year the girl said she can't marry the guy anymore and gave series of excuses,he begged her and even sent people to beg her but she didnt budge,luckily for him he met a girl and after 8 months they are engaged and gettn married next week,funny thing is that the ex girlfriend s still single,and the guy she had all her hopes on(we later discovered there was another guy)dumped her and she s now asking the guy if he truely loves the wife to be, imagine what cheek!!
the advice ill give to girls is to have an open mind,don't be all arrogant or look down on any guy,be polite to every guy(we know 99% of nigerian girls are not)theres always a reason why a girl is single at 30 because a girl always,always hs a choice but more often than not they believe he is not up to standard, a friend of mine said she will only marry a guy who is in same family background,whose family is known,aller than her,must be rich,ambitious e.t.c must be a muslim,no ibo or hausa e.t.c guess how old she is going on 27, the day i adviced her to chill out with her preferences she wanted to pounce on me so i shut my mouth from then on
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ifyalways (f)
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@Topic,i guess it wont be so easy for the ladies.am guessing oooo,i don't know,am not anywhere near 30. Maybe its because of a few mistakes they made hereNthere,maybe it was just nothing  but rather than jumping into marriage with just any guy because u want to be married,i guess its better to remain single but happy and fulfilled. |
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Queenisha
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@Topic,i guess it wont be so easy for the ladies.am guessing oooo, i don't know,am not anywhere near 30.Maybe its because of a few mistakes they made hereNthere,maybe it was just nothing but rather than jumping into marriage with just any guy because u want to be married,i guess its better to remain single but happy and fulfilled. How do we know ? |
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hadiza30 (f)
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How do we know ?
@Queenisha ur very funny  |
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syren
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@ topic
Marriage isn't compulsory it's a lifestyle choice. But it is also an asset, our world would die out without procreation which is best when it's done within marriage.
It's best to wait for the right kind of partner and be happy than pick the first person that comes along and have it all end in misery.
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zayhal (f)
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@malaika you said you are not unhappy, however you piece of prose do come across that way. obviously there is no fire in your union, since you have no interesting story to impart to us. believe me i am not being disrespectful, but when i reach 30, i hope i will be able to stand on the top of the world and shout " I AM A HAPPILY MARRIED MAN". i think thats what a good marriage do to people.
You're very correct.
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ifyalways (f)
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How do we know ?
like am under any obligation to tell Ukeep waiting. |
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carmelily (f)
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Single life at any age could be fun. It all depends on how one chooses to live. One thing i've realized, early enough fortunately, is to learn to live in the Now and just be happy. NEVER let people make your choices for you, and it is NOT noble to live your life for other people like we are made to believe. It's ok to die for people, if you want, but DO NOT live for them.
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nwa-uwa (m)
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How do we know ?
totally uncalled for and childish @Topic, Single life at any age could be fun. It all depends on how one chooses to live. One thing i've realized, early enough fortunately, is to learn to live in the Now and just be happy. NEVER let people make your choices for you, and it is NOT noble to live your life for other people like we are made to believe. It's ok to die for people, if you want, but DO NOT live for them.
yeah. be happy with whatever life has given Umake the best out of it. |
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