Responses From Females/men In Regards To Men Hitting On You.

My # 1 choice response to: "You are fine" is: "Aww, thank you very much"
           and when he asks: " Can I call you some time?" I say: "No, I am sorry, I am married"
to which he says: "I just want to call you as a friend" and I respond, "Well, in that case, you will also need to meet my husband, bc we knew each other's friends and I would hate to keep you from him."

The whole time, I have a pretty smile--eventually, he gives up!

I used to say "I am engaged" until some men stopped respecting that, Hey, some even still persist when I say "I am married" (God, help some of our men)

Mind you: I am not married, Yet!  Until I am, I still and always belong to God,        

@ Iyawo-I hear you girl-I got that same response (regarding the ring) a few times-Until I was smart enough to come up with this one- ("according to my culture, rings are unacceptable")-I actually have a friend that can't wear a wedding ring due to religious reasons.

Say thanx in a way that'll make the guy understand that you aint ready for idle talk