Virgin Girlfriend Gives Her Virginity To Aristo

Do i have any sympathy for the guy in question? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Serves the slacker right

but looking at it he might have been shagging plenty of other girls and then thinking he is "saving" his girl and thinking he is smart , he might not be hurt that much. But if the guy had been spending all his cash on her and then spent the majority of his time wanking himself into a deep world of extreme fustration (trust me i have had friends who have had the same mentality and experienced the same things b/4) then if he does not fork the biatch real badly even in twenty years and as a married man, he will be still living with it.


Feelz me, I feelz you. No long thing, no long story. We will still get tired of forking each sooner or later in marriage anyway so don't give me a crap of waiting 4 a glorious and heavenly day. Thatz some long bullsh!t.

I have guys who go by the same mentality and the end of the day start to whine about the girl. Thats bullshit too. Like i always tell them, don't come around me whining, i don't need to hear all that.

Men, this is bullshit. I wonder why she is now confused and don't know what to do, she should just go on and marry the rich man since the precious thing she was keeping for her guy is gone.
I am sure before the thing happened, if somebody ask her if she would ever do such a thing, she would say capital NO. If i am her guy, sorry, it's OVER.
It is only God that can safe man self.

But the man never forced her, why lying? The truth will prevail one day you know

According to the first poster who posted it, he said he cajoled her, he never said "force". So, ?

here we go again, the fact is that some ladies(in Nigeria) don't even want to date guy just a little bit above them because they believe he will not be as successful as the chiefs.
You must know that for her to get on the man's bed is not a force, besides i don't really believe all those old man can force a young lady, most are done willingly and they usually come out to say they were raped.
To go by the word "cajole" according to my most trusted dictionary it says: Cajole : persuade somebody gently: to persuade somebody to do something by flattery or gentle but persistent argument
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 Now, i have read posts on the topic and i got to know nothing coercive happened, it was based on mutual agreement. You ladies will not advice yourselves to be focus individuals rather you will be blaming and criticising

did i say you were dumb or don't know the meaning? all i was trying to tell you is that when you see someone who do something wrong, let him/her know it is WRONG. I don't want to respond to your post the way you did, respect is reciprocal.

My dear nairalanders, everyone seems to miss the point on this one. All that I am reading is about sex and virginity. Where is love?

Here’s the answer. If she is truly sorry and knows that she made a mistake, she should go kneel before her boyfriend and tell him she has something to apologize for. Tell him she got carried away and started another relationship that caused her to lose her virginity. If she is sincere and he loves her, he will forgive her and they will carry on like nothing happened; after all he’s marrying a person not a virginity. Let the truth be told, he is probably not a virgin either. Even if he is, no-one deserves to die for making a mistake. Love is about forgiving the human failings of those that we care for and LOVE. It is better that she made her mistake now, not in the middle of her married life for which even God’s wrath will be visited upon her.

That said, the relationship will be strained for a while, he will be disappointed, that is human too, but two people that LOVE each other can work through the most difficult things together.  On the other hand if she has tasted the apple and wants to follow the devil in his sweet delicious chocolate nourishment, nothing good will ever come to her.

That said let me share another story.

A friend of mine fell in love with a girl in secondary school and they dated for over 4 years with the understanding that we will have sex for the first time on the night of our honeymoon. He went onto the University in the US and she went onto OSU. While in the US, he started to her about her adventures, she was now into those boys whose last names ended with “ISM”, first name as Mr. President or another friend who’s medical doctor father makes foam etc. etc. You know the celebrity types. When my friend came back he challenged her about the stories and she denied them. So he insisted that they were going to make love to determine if she was still a virgin. I was in the house at the time because we had discussed out and I heard her scream and moan in pain. Do you know what my friend said to her? Shut the “f#@7k up, if that is how a virgin feels like, I have been missing the point myself all this while

They never got married, not because she was not a virgin but because she refused to own up and wanted to play him till their wedding day. I doubt if she would have been a alive now if she had pulled that trick. She is now married and is a medical doctor. None of the show boys she used to date but she’s ok, and my friend, he went on to marry a nice girl who by the way the issue of virginity never came up…….

so you all suggest it way better for dating people to have sex ,  ?

Now, we have someone facing the reality. I don't know why ladies we keep on covering who has already messed up

now you got it

Well let her just own up to the boyfriend, no need to lie, who says the guy has not been "doing" other girls to satisfy his sexual urge and keeping his virgin intact till marriage?

even if that is not the case, if the guy does not want her back doesnt mean he is unforgiving, its just hard to accept ajeku (left over) after so much sacrifice to keep yourself, so that is one star on her blouse and medal round her neck 

she'll learn to do whats right when another chance comes along, as for the virginity? its gone for good. 

Well pendilite, thats your opinion. Whether she feels bad and asked for advise is no issue as far as am concerned. She felt bad, she seeked advise, Has she stopped sleeping with the old timer? Probably Not. So her feeling bad is BS as far as am concerned. She needs to leave her boyfriend alone cause shes a cheating B**ch!. She doesnt have to tell her boyfriend she was unfaithful if she doesnt want, but she should scram!

Is there a difference in Nigerian women that use the internet and Nigerian women at large. The responses by the girls so far have been interesting. While the boys are screaming and cursing the women are gently restoring my faith in Nigerian womanfolk. Sorry to say my impression of Nigerian women under the age of 30 are gold digging, opportunists. The word Aristo was created as an excuse to collect from Big Daddy while looking smart. But if the responses to this issue are true (from the heart), girls, you are alright. I now agree, one little stain can spoil white cloth. Keep it up, spread the word not the legs

I just pray for you for what you said, you are a real lady

 ???Well Rhino dear, this has nothing absolutely nothing to do with nija gals, its not pecular to nija gals alone. Once a girl is not disciplined, she just isn't, whether white, brown, black, red, green, purple etc. What she did is bad as it is, lying about and trying to be smart about it is something else, another casfile abeg. Even if she opens up and tells her boyfriend what happened, and they still get married, bobs, i doubt if she will really forgive herself because, this guy can't trust her absolutely especially when she is not around him. Abeg this kin marriage go hard o.Lets not do to others what we won't want others to do to us shekina!