Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?

A Member? Please Login  
type your username and password to login
Date: October 11, 2008, 05:46 AM
248613 members and 147156 Topics
Latest Member: Lopsendeaps
Nairaland [Nigerian Forum] Home Help Search Who is currently online? Login Register
Nairaland Forum  |  General Discussion  |  Romance (Moderators: mukina2, debosky, iice)  |  Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
Poll
Question: Should a girl leave her boyfriend if she discovers that he's been cheating
Please Login or Register to cast your vote and view the results of this poll.

Pages: (1) (2) (3) Go Down Send this topic Notify of replies
Author Topic: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?  (Read 1248 views)
mobzy205 (f)
Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« on: February 15, 2006, 05:42 PM »

90% of men cheat everyday because they just can't help do you think u should continue with a relationship when your man is cheating on to you. most people say men will always cheat even when married what do think Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry
smartsoft (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #1 on: February 15, 2006, 11:45 PM »

The thing is, don't judge the book by it's cover, why not catch him life,  then you can now react to that.
alheri (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #2 on: February 16, 2006, 11:07 AM »

Its your decision. Personally I love my husband and I pray he never cheats on me. But if it happens, I guess it depends on the situation. If he's sorry and has stopped, we'll work things out. If not, yawa go gas. I will show him red hot chilli pepper! And might just probably leave.
Viper (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #3 on: February 16, 2006, 11:25 AM »

mobzy let him cheat,  Cheesy
glodave (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #4 on: February 16, 2006, 05:09 PM »

men? men can stop cheatin, so the best thin ' just let them'. Huh
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #5 on: February 20, 2006, 04:47 PM »

if ur man cheats on u, LEAVE HIM!!!!!!
Seun (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #6 on: January 13, 2007, 02:37 PM »

Why?
ima1 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #7 on: January 13, 2007, 06:17 PM »

Quote from: Seun on January 13, 2007, 02:37 PM
Why?

Because no matter how much he begs, he is still going to do it again because he automatically assumes that if you forgave him the first time you will again, if he wants to cheat then he should remain single.
okwanuzo3 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #8 on: January 14, 2007, 01:31 AM »

Quote from: ima1 on January 13, 2007, 06:17 PM
Because no matter how much he begs, he is still going to do it again because he automatically assumes that if you forgave him the first time you will again, if he wants to cheat then he should remain single.
Nail on head!!
Macgreat (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #9 on: January 14, 2007, 02:21 AM »

@topic, i say let him till he stop cheating but you have to keep showing love ;)infact increase the amount of love you show him,that is when he will know their is a great difference between a wife and a night stand,but if your not married to him forget it,it's the same  Cry Grin No offence but SAME NI Grin
jerseygurl (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #10 on: January 14, 2007, 03:43 AM »

he might love ya and still cheat on ya Smiley
caffinehi (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #11 on: January 16, 2007, 03:26 AM »

Cheaters never quit! ,  or was that winners? I f'ing don't remember.
belle4u2nv (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #12 on: January 17, 2007, 09:32 AM »

It's the 'man' nature. It makes him a man.
So just pray it dosent get out of hand.
But cheat? Men always do, if not 2dy, it'l be 2morow.
okwanuzo3 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #13 on: January 17, 2007, 11:21 PM »

Quote from: belle4u2nv on January 17, 2007, 09:32 AM
It's the 'man' nature. It makes him a man.
So just pray it dosent get out of hand.
But cheat? Men always do, if not 2dy, it'l be 2morow.

if he accepts that i could cheat someday as well i  he can, that'll make sense
Seun (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #14 on: January 18, 2007, 12:22 AM »

Quote
It's the 'man' nature. It makes him a man.

Your boyfriend gave you that bullshit as an excuse for his misbehaviour and you accepted it?
ima1 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #15 on: January 18, 2007, 02:37 AM »

lol Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

who would be so stupid to believe that. its a man's nature. it makes him a man, that's just bullshit
belle4u2nv (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #16 on: January 18, 2007, 04:41 PM »

@ Seun and Co.
If its not in you men's nature to cheat, then tell me why you guys cheat.
Seun (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #17 on: January 18, 2007, 08:22 PM »

Can a man commit adultery if another woman doesn't make her **** available?  Women cheat as often as men.
It is in the nature of certain men to cheat, and those men are always surrounded by gullible women because they tend to be very charming. Before you fall for a great player, ask yourself how he became so good at toasting.
okwanuzo3 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #18 on: January 27, 2007, 04:08 AM »

if he accepts that i could cheat someday as well as he can, that'll make sense
big_bumper (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #19 on: January 27, 2007, 04:29 AM »

If he does it the second time.
mobzy205 (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #20 on: January 27, 2007, 07:54 AM »

y should a man even cheat in the first place. can't he keep his privates in his pants
Macgreat (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #21 on: January 27, 2007, 05:02 PM »

Always in it's pant but some external forces makes it pop out Grin  Just like magnet "it will always attract no matter where it's Hidden"
desiree (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #22 on: January 27, 2007, 05:13 PM »


If your partner cheats on you, you shouldn't just dump his cheating ass, kick it as well!!! Angry

No cheat deserves a second chance in my book, because they always think they've scored one.
Free (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #23 on: January 27, 2007, 07:40 PM »

I almost agreed with ya desiree


but i think dey should be givn a 2nd chance
if it happnds again then U leave em' Grin
desiree (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #24 on: January 27, 2007, 07:51 PM »

Quote from: Free on January 27, 2007, 07:40 PM
I almost agreed with ya desiree


but i think dey should be givn a 2nd chance
if it happnds again then U leave em' Grin

I understand what you are trying to say, but if you give them a second chance, believe me, it is most definitely going to happen again. It is like waiting for the expected to occur.You can never give him that trust again, there is no point staying with a man you can't trust
Free (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #25 on: January 27, 2007, 08:00 PM »

yea maybe they will do it ovr again

i may not trust him 100% but
i will give that chance just to see wot will happnd Grin Undecided
Busta (f)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #26 on: January 28, 2007, 04:03 AM »

@topic.

leave em!
fellow (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #27 on: January 28, 2007, 08:39 AM »

Simple no way. Why would you leave him? Do you think a man would be able to withstand the schemings of a wandering woman? Best bet have a mindset about him having the tendency to do such but then pray to GOD to give him a strong mind to withstand it.
Chiori (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #28 on: February 12, 2007, 10:08 PM »

If you're already married, please don't leave him. If you do he'll die. If you are in such a situation, contact me and I will show you how to get your husband back to you.
edmondo (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #29 on: February 12, 2007, 11:59 PM »

is  women world before dey get married  bt afta gettin married  is men world!!!
so,all the ladies in the hse,welcome to men's world!!! 
Chiori (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #30 on: February 13, 2007, 01:03 AM »

kpod
alabiyemmy (m)
Re: Should We Leave Our Men If They Are Cheating?
« #31 on: February 13, 2007, 01:11 AM »

I have seen married womenwho cheats - so - it is 50 - 50. But I don't think you need to leave your man if you find out he is cheating, if you leave then where next?
 Ladies No Man Will Respect You  Flesh-to-flesh Action?  What does a woman wants from a man   Page 2
Pages: (1) (2) (3) Go Up Send Topic to Friend by E-mail Reply 
Google
 
Web www.nairaland.com
Sections: TV/Movies (2) Music/Radio (2) Celebrities Job Talk Jobs/Vacancies (2) Career Talk Romance Books Politics Sports Fashion Travel
Health Schooling Religion General(2) Business Webmaster Programming Computers Phones Cars & Trucks

Links: Page1 Page2 Page3 Page4 Page5 Page6 Page7 Page8 Page9 Page10

Nairaland is owned by Oluwaseun Osewa
Nairaland Forum | Powered by SMF 1.0.12.
© 2001-2005, Lewis Media. All Rights Reserved.