My Girlfriend Is Older Than Me Is It Proper

Is it right for to have a girlfriend who's two years older than you.cos I think I have a problem with dat. 1 she doesnt know about it and 2. if her family knows am in trobs

you have a problem with the age thingy? then why are you dating her? why are you hiding such crucial issues from her?_{God knows what else you are hiding!}

 her family must not know? is her family paying your bills?  or do you have a reason/motive for dating this girl ? are you after her family's wealth? 

its obvious you don't love her, please free the girl and let  her go! shio!

and why is that?
Aaliyah sang "age ain't nothing but a number 

yeah i kno "age aint nothin but a number" but not like dating a gurl who is older than u. i feel its nt right

It isn't a crime bros

Older could be 3 mnts - 2years.And again their love is skin deep

So long as there is no profound physical factor that makes her less appealing to her younger counterpart,I don't see how it really matters. I think that the maturity/stage of life thing is more important than the age number, really. Some people act like kids even through their 30s these days .

it might not av been an issue if she knew from d start but 4 d mere fact that  u lied and u r still lying about your age is enuf reason 4 her to dump your arse.

to me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. it simply a mentality we nigerians have cultivated for no just reason. as a matter of fact, my gf is older than i am, don't ask me how old. what matters is love and mutual respect.

There is nothing wrong with it. But you needed to be honest with her.

Even if Aaliyah no sang am
che na age you chop ni abi happiness?
na wah for those shallow minded pple sha

@NLs

To me, i believe its not right for wife to be older than her hubby. They may be happy together and all that, but what about the sexual aspect

At 70, a man can still be active sexually but can u say that of a woman at 60 Just my own thought o.

@poster,

Lies in relationship can be very bad and dangerous. Be warned

If its just your girlfriend i dont actually see anything wrong with that, but if u are planning on getting married then thats where u have a problem. Mind u we are blacks not whites.

Theres no problem with dat.What if d girl is 5 yrs older than d guy,for me I gat no problem with dat

If i may ask, what has Age to do with relationship, if both of them realy love and respect each other.
Afterall Age is just a number,it only whom u tell your real age will know.

Where exactly do you see this relationship going to? If you aint gon marry her oboy enjoy while it last, but if you are ready to marry/settle down and wanna marry her then  you shouldnt have a problem with the age but if you do?bro find someone younger.personally can't marry someone older than me though but no problem if its just a relationship

@essentialB> truth is, it no longer seems to be an issue of proper or improper cause it really has to do with the mindset and level of maturity of both parties.

From the poster's tone he seems to be insecured and so i'll advice he steps out of the game. If he eventually goes thru with it every single move of the wife (if they get married) makes him look like the haunted