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Janeesa (f)
Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« on: July 28, 2007, 10:45 PM »

A friend told me that when she went to nigeria(she was born here) everyone just stared at her and people could tell
she was frm america, and also her cousins start trying to talk like her, any other nigerian-americans experience this when they go to nigeria?do nigerians in nigeria see amer.born nigerian kids as americans first before nigerians?
n-guage (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #1 on: July 29, 2007, 05:37 AM »

that happened to my friend.  if you have earings on or your hair is in braids, it is very likely to happen.
My cousins don't get embarrased, they could switch accents so fast!
muchbabe (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #2 on: July 29, 2007, 05:54 AM »

best thing when your in naija behave like a naija chic so u don't get hassled
Janeesa (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #3 on: July 29, 2007, 07:23 AM »

that happened to my friend.  if you have earings on or your hair is in braids, it is very likely to happen.
My cousins don't get embarrased, they could switch accents so fast![b][/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]so people couldnt tell they were americans?[/size][size=8pt]
MP007 (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #4 on: July 29, 2007, 11:34 AM »

 Grin Grin Grin Grin, u don't want to know Grin Grin, soo embarrasing
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #5 on: July 29, 2007, 10:30 PM »

I didn't really have that experience. When I talkedof course they can tell. But as long as you don't go there stuck up or anything you'll be fine. My cousins didn't try to talk like usthey tried to get us to talk like them  Tongue I don't know if we really had people starting at usbut we did get suitors! haha  Wink
Seun (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #6 on: July 30, 2007, 09:48 AM »

Coming back to Nigeria when you've spent your childhood abroad is a big mistake.  The best time to return to Nigeria is after you graduate from college.  Nigeria is good for business but bad for higher education.
iice (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #7 on: July 30, 2007, 12:05 PM »

Quote from: muchbabe on July 29, 2007, 05:54 AM
best thing when your in naija behave like a naija chic so u don't get hassled

Word! although its hard if you didn't grow up there so don't know how you'll pick up the behaviour lol.
YOUNGDICE$ (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #8 on: July 30, 2007, 01:52 PM »

THEY  don't even let me speak english in my grandma house I try that one day they whoop my ass.
naijaway (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #9 on: July 30, 2007, 11:31 PM »

@seun, the Nigerian secondary school system with all that corruption is way disciplined, better in terms of theory, and advanced intelligence than most countries including the US. The US elementary and university schools are better especially their universities because of their extensive research, lack of cultism and praticiality.
 And if the person wasn't born in Naija, it will be an advantage for the child to connect with the country, the people, and have a diverse mentality if the kid attends his/her high school in Nigeria because if u come after college u can't feel connected to the place and the society and every good businessman knows that such traits are bad for business excerpt the person decides to see naija as another place where they are not connected to. If the person decides that route then they have to have a lot of cash and can't run for public office and all kinds of barriers.
 I know Nigeria is bad now but that doesn't mean that people who have their kids outside Nigeria shouldn't get them connected to their father's land just because they feel comfortable now. Is better in my view that the kid be integrated into the society and when he/she sees the society they can either feel obliged or not to assist in their own small way in helping the country. People should be careful before they breed another lost generation  this century just because things are going their way now, because it could back fire big Time.
Janeesa (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #10 on: July 31, 2007, 03:13 AM »

whether the child was raised abroad is irelevant.if the child was born in  nigeria they will therefore be more accustomed to everthing there (unless they left real young) but i'm talkin about kids born and raised here in the US.i don't see why others in nigeria view them as american or black american.yes we r american by birth but we are also nigerian, we are not totally american or like we don't know where we are from!
ph4life (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #11 on: July 31, 2007, 03:25 AM »

i know some naija guys that live abroad, these guys attended secondary school in naija but supposedly are so accustomed to the way things are run abroad they don't even want to think of going to naija for even a week. everytime you bring up topic about naija or going home, they get really upset. what a shame!! i can't even imagine how the 1's that were not born or raised in naija would fell/./
iice (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #12 on: July 31, 2007, 05:14 AM »

sadly being raised abroad is not irrelevant!  yes you are considered nigerians but with a touch of 'jandedness'.  A nigerian born and bred in naija behaves differently from one born and raised abroad.  Society's influence and all that
Janeesa (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #13 on: July 31, 2007, 06:40 AM »

it really is sad isnt it? if nigeria is were u were born and raised why not embrace that and stop tryin to pass for somethin your not.I hate it when i see all these nigerian kids tryin to pass for something they aren't.some come from nigeria, and stay here so long and they SWEAR up and down they are only american! this is what is happening to my mothers friends son.he was born in nigeria and his mom brought him to the US. (idk what age) and since then the boy swears hes not african or nigerian for that matter.he doesnt like african/nigerian girls he thinks they r crispy black and ugly he hates the culture(food,trad.clothes) he really needs help, its sad too-- i mean for a kid BORN in nigeria to turn his back on it.
anyway i'm gettin sidetrack'D a little bit, [color=#990000]what my quest. was if nigerian-americans visiting nigeria can be easily spotted by other nigerians and if they
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iice (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #14 on: July 31, 2007, 12:45 PM »

Speech mos def gives one away.  I remember my bro telling me, that when he was in school, there were these two guys who came from the US and even when they tried speaking pidgin it came out with an american accent Grin  Nwayz needless to say after one term (semester) they quickly picked up the accent and all.

Yes Nigerian Americans can be spotted don't know about easily (haven't been home for a while and am numb to many things). . .something about aura they exudecould be the dressing, the mannerism, their looks (piercings/tattoos - some of those things that are seen in society but not exactly all out there, if you know what i mean Undecided)
Ezinwannem
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #15 on: August 10, 2007, 03:25 PM »

not really your speech but even da way u look, oh, u look so fresh, i made a mistake i said I wanted WATERMELON, cheiii, come and see eye and plz can u repeat it again, lol,  Naija is fun
iice (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #16 on: August 10, 2007, 05:39 PM »

LOL na wetin you suppose call am? Melon?

My own, i ddnt even talk, they no gree say i be naija till i open my mouth Grin
lolly1815 (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #17 on: August 10, 2007, 07:11 PM »

well,  welcome to the club i guess. i will never forget my first time coming to nija. it was so hard for me to cope.the beggars and hawkers on the road really scared me .when i started going to my secondary school i can remember crying everyday after school. they even made me repeat a class for starting school late. it was real depressing. i can't remember how many times i cursed my parents for making me come here,but that was 3 and a half years ago and i got over it i'm glad i came. the experience has been amazing and i'm going back to st.louis after i graduate next year. peace
ormis66 (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #18 on: November 19, 2007, 04:31 AM »

I guess everyone has a different experience. I was born in the states but raised in Nigeria Secondary/Primary School. When I speak English fellow Nijas cannot tell I am from Nigerian until I pull out my you de yan Okpata or which ones na, then people realise that I am from Nigeria. Personally, I leave English behind when I hit the Lagos airport.
presido1 (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #19 on: November 19, 2007, 06:58 PM »

Quote from: his_grace on August 10, 2007, 07:15 PM
Oga Seun - u are a mistake to Nairaland - and to Nigeria - how can u say that? I have friends and family abroad who will never want their kids to grow up anywhere but Nigeria - na wao.
As Yoruba people say - its a bastard who uses his/her left hand to point to his/her fathers house.
Big Mistake and Disgrace as well,
Quote from: ormis66 on November 19, 2007, 04:31 AM
I guess everyone has a different experience. I was born in the states but raised in Nigeria Secondary/Primary School. When I speak English fellow Nijas cannot tell I am from Nigerian until I pull out my you de yan Okpata or which ones na, then people realise that I am from Nigeria. Personally, I leave English behind when I hit the Lagos airport.
Correct Yawn, opata no be small.
spoilt (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #20 on: November 19, 2007, 10:52 PM »

why would they stare at her? was her butt crack on display?  Grin
lindabong (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #21 on: August 07, 2008, 09:06 AM »

yeah I could so relate to that.
I went to Nigeria when I was eight.
As soon as I got there, they all just looked at me kind of funny or whatever.
Then they would all kind of mock me in a weird way and they would talk about how I did my hair and the clothes I would wear and how I sounded funny.
But we were only supposed to stay there over the summer, but we ended up staying for six months and me and my mom came back just in time for Christmas.
Anyways, the whole time that I stayed there, I kind of adopted their customs and ways of doin things so when I had came back to the US I kind of had to readjust to everything back here and also explain why I had started to school here in the States like four months late.
Just being there had opened my eyes to a whole nother side of my ethnic background.
But just thinking about the whole thing about my family over there kind of saracastically making fun of the way I said things or the way I acted, it kind of makes me laugh!
But it was then that I realized that I'm not just an Amercian, but I'm also of Nigerian descent, so therefore that makes me a Nigerian.
bebure (m)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #22 on: August 07, 2008, 10:39 AM »

It's not neccessary a bad thing. In my secondary school in Nigeria, (which was in a town called Offa in Kwara State) there were quite a number of Nigerians who grew up in the US and the UK who came there for their high school education and I personally think it is the best thing a Nigerian parent in diaspora can do for their kids because it enables them to learn more about their own culture, teaches them the value of respect and just generally helps them to better understand and deal with their Nigerian brothers and sisters. Of course these kids (along with many of us who lived in Nigeria at the time) all went abroad for our university/college education. What this does is that it gives the kids that flexibility in future after their education, they would be more flexible in making a decission as to where they want to settle down as they would have a relatively good understanding of both culures. Just my two cents.
Outstrip
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #23 on: August 08, 2008, 03:06 AM »

I was born and raised in Nigeria for the most part but when I went home to visit in 2002 after I had been here only 8 years I wanted to go for a ride with an uncle of mine just to do some site seeing and see if I could remember anything from when I lived in Nigeria. He told me that he had to stop at the market and I could not follow him because I looked American. They were afraid that theives would follow us back home. Na wa.
naija_diva (f)
Re: Nigerian Kids Born In The US Going Back To Nigeria
« #24 on: August 08, 2008, 03:41 AM »

Quote from: Outstrip on August 08, 2008, 03:06 AM
I was born and raised in Nigeria for the most part but when I went home to visit in 2002 after I had been here only 8 years I wanted to go for a ride with an uncle of mine just to do some site seeing and see if I could remember anything from when I lived in Nigeria. He told me that he had to stop at the market and I could not follow him because I looked American. They were afraid that theives would follow us back home. Na wa.

that's what i kept hearing before i went to nigeria to visit that the thought of going to nigeria actually made me scared but i got over it really quick.
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