Casual Sex: Good Or Bad For Ladies?

 Me neither.

My Dear Sis,
    Na wa O! Only your name- "Man -eater" if taken literally will scare all the Guys away!(Just joking). The truth is that it's bad. However we're all humans, weak and feble in all ramification. So this brings about double standards in our hypocritical society( Nobody talks if you keep "The Eleventh Commandment" i e Thou shalt not be found out! May God have mercy!. All Dogs eat shit but only those discovered or seen doing it are labeled. That way only God can judge because before him there is no one that is perfect! The only advice I have is to play safe! Control that libido because it could blow up in anybody's face if left to go wild.
You also complain about guys seemingly geting away with doing it. Well, The world expects you ladies to be more reserved and self controlled than us guys! Remember the Biblical story of the woman caught in the act of adultery? Why didn't the crowd bring the man along? or was she doing it solo? It ain't fair - life.Think on these things. Cheers!

@ poster
ASHAWO! 

c'mon girl, you're better than that, u got more dignity than that, what if this guy u fling wit later knows your intended hubby, be sure you're gettin a poor recommendation, and life's more than that, haven't u any plans 4 a great future, if u do that is certainly not the way to go, believe me if u can't rein yourself in marriage is not going to help u to. so put a leash on yourself

Considering the fact that if all men stoped wanting casual sex, women would stop having casual sex.

It takes two to tango and these women don't hammer themselves. Men do You people should spare the poster critisism.


If i remember well a study in Germany revealed that over one million men, the vast majority of them married use the services of prostitutes daily

PLS READ THIS RELIGIOUS ADVICE
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If we r to put Marriage into consideration, every single person needs to abstain / flee from lustful desires. God is against such act. He forbids anyone to do it. FOR MARRIED COUPLES, STICK TO UR PARTNERS and apply every ingredients to make it successful and lasting

Dear poster, if you're single asking this kind of question it means u're devils workshop. im sorry for d embarassment. but if married, u need to fine tune d topic aiight?

Not because we r under grace everyone tends to live carelessly. Law of God is not made 4 d righteous man but for lawless and sinners. Evil deeds are on d increase in d generation we are in, instead of lookin out 4 d solution, we enjoy making it more difficult for others tryin to come out of it (sin).

Although not a regular contributor in this forum, i feel motivated by some members. I think michelin89 has on various occassions played what i might say is an objective intercepting role in some threads. Otherwise, i might be wrong to think that she(?) has changed her username from man-eater to michelin89 (just a joke ).

Personnaly, i think its ok for people to express themselves in ways that seem beneficial to all: ask questions that appear weird / strange or even stupid; make contributions that people could learn from; and also delve into areas where, before now, were considered taboos.

The poster made a bold enquiry and, for Christ sake, we need not crucify her calling her all sort of names. Let's thread cautiously when giving out advice.

Please all this noise!!!!  Sex is casual until you are married!!! So please get a grip!!!!

cbjonstage

Rather than read maneater's original post, you started preaching, in a casual sex thread of all places!

BTW, the religious forum is that way ------------>

@Man Eater------------it's ya thing---do what you wannta do!!! I can't tell you, whose opportuned!!! Auhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!

its good and bad, it depends on the angle you approach it. Above all try to play safe

Morrally, I think casual sex is wrong, but I think this lady knows what she is upto. What about other's who are doing it without saying it? Sex, we all know is a legitimate need that MUST be fufilled one way or the other. Here in the west, most women in all age brackets, (even married women and women in relationships) have sex toys, why?, they have to satisfy their sexual desire anytime they want, man or no man. In Africa, sext toys is probably a taboo, so in other to satisfy your sex needs, you have to improvise, hence casual sex, for all single people out there and even for people in relationships. We are all guilty of it.

So between GOD and man, if you know, you are not guilty of casual sex at all, then you probably have the right to criticise man eater and US, otherwise shut the F*** UP

i think having casual sex somewhere o.

And you dare use those stinky fingers of yours to type "hypocrite"?

Listen, pastor, if there is one in this thread, it is you.

You get am? Fine! Now carry your holyself out of here. We don't need a moralist.

And if for real u are xtian, why are u judging? Don't you know this is a job reserved for your god?

You had better not arise his anger.

it eases alot of Presure u know

Is that a question? Would your mum be proud of u if she knew about your intentions? Better change your ways or u are doomed for real.