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dakmanzero (m)
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@man eater
I hope you have learned the REAL lesson you'll learn from this thread.
Some things are ok to do, but must NEVER be said.
And 99% of the holier-than-thou's advocating 'honesty' are merely hypocrites. THEY DO what you say, but always have an excuse for it in their heads. The virgins give blowjobs and take it up the arse, the guys have casual sex without thinking, the non-virgins claim their casual sex partners are their boyfriends even though they clearly know what they are doing.
Of course, if you have had sex outside marriage already, die hard holiness is out of it 100% so you shouldnt feel guilty about giving your casual sex partner the dishonesty he deserves. Even sef, you can put on a show of crying and heartbreak when 'he' finally decides to jump ship and go elsewhere even though his 'escape' was orchestrated and planned by you. At least then:
(a) His male ego will be satisfied
(b) He will say you are a 'good girl' when talking about you in the future (ie he wont say 'that one? she's a ho. i don chop am tire sef')
'tis simple. The world has a double standard directed against women. Don't fight it. Bend it to your will.
Many good girls have had their names smeared because they failed to play the system. Many bad girls are held up as paragons of virtue because they knew not to rock the boat. Choose which one you will be.
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abohrandy
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hey i am loving casual sex though for a while now i have been zipping up. well let me get back to skul,
so man-eater,
such things are necessary to make the other party realise that this world is full of many pussies n dicks. well go ahead. u have a one ma army to back you up.
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bennygee (m)
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the world is your oyster
you can do anything you want to
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BlkRaven (f)
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Is it any wonder that women are reluctant to post on such controversial topics? The OP asked the ladies for opinions, NOT experiences. The ladies gave their opinions so how is that hypocritical? If you think women here are hypocrites then by all means, post a topic and let's have a proper debate on it. I'm always ready for a good debate  |
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Gamine (f)
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Shes a Man-Eater
Make u work hard
Make u spend Hard!
Make u wish u never met her at all
Man Eaterrrrr!
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crazyp (f)
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Please can someone tell me the difference btwn "casual sex" and prostitution i need to know  |
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deezzle (m)
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prostitution, u do because of the pesos casual u do because its fun!!!!!   |
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Fitty (m)
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I love your name Man Hater Where do live I think I'm right for something like that Wanna fcuk someone? I want to too Lets hook I promise You that your name's going to change To Man Eater Cos You going to want some more Believe me Hola back 
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sobaas (m)
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And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication,
Check from history to confirm the consequences of what you intend doing. I will advise you to repent and pray to God to give you a godly husband and have a godly home so you can get to heaven. It is very bad and destructive. While I agree that there are millions doing it but that does not make it right. By God's grace there are also millions who keep themselves until marriage.Sex is not just for pleasure, there are strings attached to every act of sex. Don't listen to people who themselves lack inner grace to keep themselves for a godly relationship. The attendant problems we have in the world all stem from moral depravity such as this. God help you and remember he loves you.
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gabongee (f)
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baby girl casual sex is BBBBAAAADDD!!!! u could get what u never bargained for,besides its just a 3-5mins thrill,don't let it jeopardise what u already have,please have a consience
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adrian5 (m)
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Got a piece of info for ya. If u want to go serial-screwin' keep in mind that chicks have a much much higher chance of contracting STDs than guys. Think about it.
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kingPINN (m)
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hi man eater
As long as u can deal with your conscience, the deal is up to u. its a free world, and remember that all casual sex are not always casual.
Just look very well before u take that leap.
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babyosisi (f)
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man eater wrote Dear all, I have taken time to read everyones contribution and would like to put certain things straight:
Becos i said casual sex doesnt mean i'll "sleep with anything" as alot of u have put it. This person in particular i have known for about 2 years, he's cool and smart. He is a dear friend i have always been attracted to but i know i can't date someone like hm. We have joked about it alot but we never got together.
What is wrong in hooking up with someone u are really attracted too but not expecting too much from the relationshp. I think that way no one gets hurt. I don't want to sob all day on why he didnt call me today, or he's checking out that girls arse or any of that bull crap u lovers worry about. I see it as unneccessary headache.
i get tested every 6 months for precaution. Mind u all sex is not the only way of getting HIV. My mum used to fuss alot about we girls taking our own needles to salons to fix our hair because i'm sure alot of ladies will agree with me that thers a chance of been pricked with a needle when getting your hair done.
Even when with my boyfrend i used to use protection, i just feel better getting tested anyway. So my dear all, thank u for your contributions.
As they say- Only God can judge me. And ladies, if your a bit more open minded and don't kill yourself over guys alot, maybe the heartbreak rate will reduce drastically.
you already have a good grip on the subject,why are you asking then? Go ahead and "eat" the man you're bent on eating which one "consine" me Thank God all my brothers are now married,there's no chance of them ending up with a professed public toilet like you. In the name of liberation,you're beginning to sound like a street walker in Las Vegas. Shame on you and that thing in between your legs. |
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Is it any wonder that women are reluctant to post on such controversial topics? The OP asked the ladies for opinions, NOT experiences. The ladies gave their opinions so how is that hypocritical? If you think women here are hypocrites then by all means, post a topic and let's have a proper debate on it. I'm always ready for a good debate Is the double standard thing not amazing in this world. Not to talk of Nairaland? When you are asked your opinions or experiences, you do so, but guess what happens? You are crucified for it. When a guy comes out and says all the shit in the world no one say a thing. But one called "maneater" has voiced her opinions and now everyone is on her case. I wonder why I log on to Nairaland sometimes. Sheer joblessness I believe. Time to stop--no satisfaction here at all!!!! I think I should go back to watching my Nigerian home videos. I had more satisfaction then. This judgemental holier-than-thou attitude of most Nairalanders suck!!! Thank God for where I live. I have really learned to respect people regardless of what they say or do, since I did not create them! You guys should take it easy with your insults!!!!! If you do not like what is being said, just move on! There are threads like: "Iice Can I Meet You" "I Want To Meet Mukina2" Super clean threads on CHILDSBOARD to make you feel at home. Why come here and insult people?  ? |
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Siena (m)
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True words, Babeelove. I don't agree with Man-eater's theory, but it's her choice. You don't have to agree with her decisions, but you've got to respect and admire her honesty!
I can't judge her, or anyone else, because I'm not qualified to do so.
Bigotry really does suck.
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michelin89 (f)
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you already have a good grip on the subject,why are you asking then?
Go ahead and "eat" the man you're bent on eating which one "consine" me
Thank God all my brothers are now married,there's no chance of them ending up with a professed public toilet like you.
In the name of liberation,you're beginning to sound like a street walker in Las Vegas.
Shame on you and that thing in between your legs.
Sorry maybe that's what she sounds like to you, but as for me I don't see her as a professed public toilet. Please keep your "holiness" to yourself and answer the question. You weren't called here to judge anyone because I am sure you aren't better than her. Peace! |
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BABEELOVE (f)
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Please Maneater, like some have advised you to do, learn from this lesson and since you know what Nairaland is about--- just zip it, play the holy game and talk to only your "God" about your fantasies and "things to do" in this life time!!!! You are not going to deal with "openminded" people that you called for!!! It is not worth the insults from people who do not know you, just because you want to interact with your brothers and sisters from Nigeria. I have studied this website before I decided to log on. I suggest that others thinking of logging on here should learn a few tricks or two!!! Take care!!!
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angelchi (f)
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your choice girl.
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doyenn (m)
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I like casual sex alot because it's great and sweeter than the best sweetner ever produced.My fair is the disease asociated with it and i am a type that doesnt use protection because i think it's great when flesh touches flesh.
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babyosisi (f)
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Sorry maybe that's what she sounds like to you, but as for me I don't see her as a professed public toilet.
Please keep your "holiness" to yourself and answer the question. You weren't called here to judge anyone because I am sure you aren't better than her.
Peace!
woman eater ? abeg you no see me lai lai . you want me to answer a question and yet want to censor my speech to suit your views. why am I even wasting time answering someone who can't even cast a vote in a fair election |
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Siena (m)
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woman eater ?
abeg you no see me lai lai .
you want me to answer a question and yet want to censor my speech to suit your views.
why am I even wasting time answering someone who can't even cast a vote in a fair election
Not censor your views sweetheart, just be a bit diplomatic about how you do it!  It's not nice to insult anyone, just because their views are different from yours. |
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k0be
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constructive criticism is what you want right? simply because you can't handle the bitter truths.
man-eater you've heard what people here have to say, it's now up to you to make the final decision. Let us know what you're going to do.
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BlkRaven (f)
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woman eater ?
abeg you no see me lai lai .
you want me to answer a question and yet want to censor my speech to suit your views.
why am I even wasting time answering someone who can't even cast a vote in a fair election
Babyosisi Maneater has the right to express her views without being referred to as a professed public toilet. Your comments were very unkind. |
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angel101 (f)
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@ poster
I feel u girl. by all means go for it. It does not make u a bad or immoral person. forget all these goody two shoes on naira land. a lot of them do unprintable things behind their computers and then come here name calling! very un called for if u ask me.
people please air your opinion if u have one and if u are too repulsed, please move on to the religious board. for christs sake let others be!
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babyosisi (f)
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Babyosisi
Maneater has the right to express her views without being referred to as a professed public toilet. Your comments were very unkind.
If this girl was your younger sister sleeping around with men that turned her on,you'll probably beat her senseless. the girl said What is wrong in hooking up with someone u are really attracted too but not expecting too much from the relationshp That is a perfect definition of an "everywoman" A "wait and take" The reason Nigerian woman have such poor reputation. Opening their legs for even monkey . you men can sound understanding all you want,I'm, pretty sure man eater is not the girl you hope to take home to your mother. She made the claim herself by her behaviour,I only gave it a befitting definition. |
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BlkRaven (f)
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If this girl was your younger sister sleeping around with men that turned her on,you'll probably beat her senseless.
Maneater did not say she was sleeping around with men. She only stated that she was considering having casual sex with one guy that she has known for two years. She made this clear in her post that resulted in you posting those comments. |
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babyosisi (f)
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I guess she has supporters.
Oya man eater call up the man and go for next AIDS test afterwards
when cricket dey burn e think say e dey produce oil
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k0be
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since when did this turn into a competition between men and women to determine who can sleep around the most?
when something is bad be stern, don't be afraid to let people know it's bad, don't say it's okay to do so because others are.
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BlkRaven (f)
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I guess she has supporters.
Oya man eater call up the man and go for next AIDS test afterwards
when cricket dey burn e think say e dey produce oil
Whatever you say. Let's just agree to disagree. |
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blackracle (m)
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My dear Man-eater,since it's just casual sex and no strings attached,i believe u can engage in it.moreover we guys do it all the time.issue is u just got to be careful not to turn it to a regular thing.it's just an urge to satisfy your present need.
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