Marriage Or Staying Together?

Hey Guys, how are you all doing, hope you are all chilling, the weather, where am at now is cloudy, looks like its going to rain anytime soon. But i just want to know, which way is better, because things are changing rapidly in this world we live in? Are we copying the Whites or are they trying to copy us? Now. The issue is this, i see so many young girls carrying pregnancies about and some under 18 already have 2-3kids(With all due respect to those,who got pregnant by mistake and not with the intent). This wont be an issue to me if they are married, but you find out that most times, some lazy ass guy just put them in the family way and they seem to enjoy it too. But guys i know marriage does not have to happen in the church or mosque, but for God sake, we have the traditional way of getting married, if i am not wrong 40% of so called "couples" are not married either way Traditional or church/mosque. So these days you find out that guys/girls just live together, have sex  , make babies and live together thereafter. Is it really right and is it the best way? What are they scared of? paying the bride price for the Lady? Which is better, getting "married" or "Staying Together"

I think you are have said it all Omoge, its just not right, when you know you aint ready to be responsible, for God sake, use your head, use a condom, don't make a girl become a mother!

You are right man, but sometimes, its really the guys that are at fault!!!! So which kind marriage u go want? church abi backyard own? lol