I;m So Hrt Broken

I think you are just attracted to guys that are wrong for you. If you change what you are looking for in a guy, and stop over pampering him. Maybe you are doing so much that they take advantage of you.

I;M NOT TOO YOUNG WAY ABOVE 20YRS
AND I KNOW I;M PRETTY  ENOF TO HOOK ANY GUY
I;M NOT TALL 5FT6

BUT I THINK ITS NOT ABOUT THE PHYSICAL

Go for the guy that love you and not the one you LOVE.

Trust me,  you will see the difference, and in turn you will learn to love him.  And he will love and appreciate you for allowing him doing all the wooing.

 1. u r being the "man", when u r the one to bring all the money and buy all the gift, then u r playing the "man" . men like being men in a r/ship

2. they see it that u r forcing your self on them so when they eat the forbiden fruit, they wait for the next avialable victim/prey

3. with the way u r going men see u as  being cheap. take my advice, we men dont value cheap thing esp cheap chicks, let the man be the one to do the "chasing"

hook up with me , and i bet it you would thank anyone who introduced nairaland to you cos u will never be dissapointed

i deliver's like reggie

Wonderful! You said it all. I hope she got it, especially area that advised against letting her heart rule her head. I think rhino sound real. Try him but, beware of him. If you fail him, i am sure nairalanders would read your story. Eh, I am not doing PR for him. I just suggest. Just in case, 

@post,

i think u are playing the man's role and they get jittery that u may become possesive and try to control them, i know u are trying to care for them but what u are doing for them according to your post is not your duty at least for now. ok.

let the guy do those things even if u have every thing,  dont show or try to proof that u are self sufficient, a man alwys wants to be a man.

Be ware of emotions, it kills fast. d mere fact that a guy says i love u does not mean u shd run head and tail about and after him, just beware. u are too precious to be rideen like dat, ok.

 - dont be desperate.
 - know what u want from a guy and a reelationship, infact define it before anytin starts.
 - i think u shd also pray for Gods best, after all said and done. 

Now note this   - i want u to rule out any tin like a curse or badluck,   just becareful, beware, watcha nd pray.

My dear, it is well. God will help you out.

I hpe there is noting else u av kept from us that may be helpful

girlfriend wake up from your infatuating slumber and be real.

You can never buy a man's love with money,Body(Sex) and gifts.

With all due respect please how do you make your money,ie are you working,schooling,or your parents give you money frequentely? are you homely,hardworking,unassuming,patient,truthful,neat and friendly?

be honest to your self by looking deeply into your attitude.if there is pride put it far off from you because men dont like such. stay away from any form of relationship for now by looking upto God through prayers to direct to your path the right man he has destined for you and pls dont go to any white garment church,alfa,prophet to help you in praying,do it your self cos you also have the liberty to approach God 4 help. maintain a positive attitude that you would get the right kind of man that will love you sincerly.

hope to hear from you concerning the questions i asked ,so i can assist you where i can.

One love!

eeh ya! Pathetic Story!

Sowie u hear,,,,,,,,,,

I fear u oh,,,,,,,,,,**

@2lonely

Hmmm, you must be an Ijebu girl (apologies to those from Ijebu). There's only one reason to it,  YOU EXPECT TOO MUCH

1.   because u allow him "straff" u within 2weeks dont mean he'll give u 100%
2.   because u go the extra mile to please him dont mean he'll be there for u always
3.   etc

Slow your row girl, u rush in, u rush out, take your time. He who runs slowly, will surely win the race.

One love