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mary777 (f)
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I want to know what to do concerning my decision about my life partner who I just find out that is a gay
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Gridlock (m)
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Shyte. Run like hell.
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Seun (m)
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Were you married already?
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Maxflame (m)
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WTF!  |
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chrisd (m)
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Great to know that, but frankly who cares.  |
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Grizzly (m)
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@ Maxflame, r u guys yabbing da girl or what? because i took a look @ HER profile but dint see no pic or has she removed it?,
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Maxflame (m)
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No chrisd is yabbing me. @chrisd, stop hating.  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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if he's gay, then basically you can't get married
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cheekee (f)
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that's so sad derar  but if your married to him you can just try seeing a councillor (both you and him but especially him.)maybe he'll be able to change but if not then try separating for a while to give him time to give it a second thought,if he can't completely stop,then you guys might as well just get a divorce even though it's hard  if you are not married pleeeeease i beg you don't try marrying him,you'll punish yourself while there alot of straight guys who need ladies like you, wish you the best |
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cheekee (f)
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that's so sad dear but if your married to him you can just try seeing a counselor (both you and him but especially him.)maybe he'll be able to change but if not then try separating for a while to give him time to give it a second thought,if he can't completely stop,then you guys might as well just get a divorce even though it's hard if you are not married pleeeeease i beg you don't try marrying him,you'll punish yourself while there allot of straight guys who need ladies like you, wish you the best |
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alheri (f)
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If youre not married yet then I guess you know what to do and if you are  , I really don't know what you should do. Goodluck though, may God grant you wisdom on how to handle this. @papermoon. The kabiyesi's son you were talking about, was his wife from the north cause I think I know who youre refering to. |
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chrisd (m)
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If you're married divorce and get most of his money.  Will teach him a lesson, will serve him good. |
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desiree (f)
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All i will say is run!!! run!!! like hell out of the relationship after you had time to catch your breath, you should get tested for STDs especially if you've been having sex. Be strong and don't ever blame yourself.  |
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smartsoft (m)
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You ain't married, so i don't think he his your life partner accept you guys are happly married well you just have to run oooo, your younger brother could be the next target |
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Dauda (m)
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Run, run, run to a far away land. You don't need to be with somebody who does not have the same sexual orientation as you. Run.
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cammax7 (m)
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Run. If you don't have the strenth to run, drink lucozade. run like that dude the cheetah was chasing. come to think of it, he's gon be cheating on u with men not even women, thats weird and then he's gon come home and give you maybe AIDS
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Shannon (f)
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I would say try to maintain some sort of friendship but the relationship has to end. It's unfair to both of you to try and maintain a relationship with that in between you. Obviously you two had some sort of feelings for each other so I wouldn't suggest just cutting him off completely. Maybe it would be better for both of you if you separated and lived your lives as friends. My sympathies, that's upsetting and I know what it's like.
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babymine (f)
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@ Shannon- Friendship ke? No oh, the babe should find her way n fast too. It's not right to be friends with deceptive people. What's the point of getting married when you know you're gay? Why is this world filled with so much evil? |
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stormz (m)
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nigger, that is sum hot thang goin on!
boi, if your a christian u'll no that homosexuality is a sin n so, livin wid one, is jus as bad, dnt even start talkin about GETTING MARRIED TO ONE!
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Shannon (f)
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@Babymine
He may not have intended to be deceptive, he may have just not known. Many people who are gay live in denial for years, even decades. Many of them truly try to live a heterosexual lifestyle in order to meet societal standards or in order to have a family. I don't believe that they are purposely being deceptive, they are simply trying to live life as society would have them live it.
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kellygirl (f)
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run ooooo my dear,because " NO TIME TO SAY NO TIME".
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sputty
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wow. ure strong girl. wot re u still waiting for.really i sympathise with u in a funny way.ut if ure nt dumb u know u don't av a way there.kip looking girl.wish u luck
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ofunne (f)
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i feel so srry for you,but am glad u found out on time,my dear girl dnt thnk that u will be able 2 change him or counsellors or watever will change him,nuthin will, so d best 2 do is take off fast before its 2 late and u have 2 strt fastin and goin 4 unecessary night vigils.
good luck.
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Free (f)
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Try and turn him straight, lol |
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SweetnSour (f)
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abeg find your scores else where.
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stormz (m)
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if that person is your "life partner" y r they gay?
or y r they your life partner if they'r gay?
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Grizzly (m)
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Like its easy, break away,  |
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babymine (f)
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@ Grizzly What's your own advice? |
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