Help My Sister's Husband Wants Me To Ave An Affair With Him

Hiss

'truth is elastic, don't strech it
otherwise it will fly back and sting you'
 
there are two sides to every story

for all those that insult osereka, thank you.!

You did a good thing by moving out. In this world of so much immorality, it is nice to see decent girls.
However, the issue of silence to save your sisters marriage I don't support. Forget the marriage, save her life, Her husband could be having unprotected sex outside his Matrimonial home and bring some nasty illness to her. Save her life please, If he wants to repent, fine if not but don't hide something like that to protect your sisters marriage, you will do more damage by keeping quite.
Good luck and May God gudie you in your decision.

If you were married and your husband kept trying to fondle  your sister, would you want to know?


I would tell my sister, because I would want them to tell me.

@mazaje and mamaput, you guys will eat humble pie when you hear the man's side of the story. Remember, there are TWO sides to every story. So let's withhold judgment until we hear the man's version.

I have heard stories of some horny girls coming to seduce their sister's husbands. That might sound incredible to most people but it's true. It's more common than you thought

i guess you have been enjoying it since, now you want to quit but don't know how, all you could say is how to tell her or u want the man yourself talk true.who u wan deceive here

thats what men say that rape girls.even men that rape 3 year olds

don't say what you can not prove, 3 years for where.

Commonsense make me believe this lady with the thread

Secondly, I think the girl shoud speak to her father first, and get him to use wisdom to summon meeting of mother and big sister.

In order for the big sister to believe, they have to set a small trap for the man so that they can catch him making passes at younger sister without being prompt like video camera.

They should have him seriously reprimanded and either agree to be faithful to his wife  (if he can't to at least use condom outside)

Since her sister is in love and she think she is happily married, she may not believe her at first and believe what her husband could do.

It takes a lot of being a good man/husband and love and discpline to have a grown up girl living with you  especially if her dressing leaves out some 'inner area'. but that should mean not able to control yourself, where is love in the first place ? Is big sister looking after home? is she paying attention to her husband and his needs?

If she give him a good Sex regularly, then the man would be an animal to be looking for something extra.

Notwistanding, it is  not an excuse to be unfaithful especially to the wife's sister. such a man is not only very disrepectful but reckless propably outside.

It will take the special grace of God for the marriage not to break as the man is too much into lust that can't even control himself towards his wife's sister.

Is the big sister not giving him enough, a lot of question needed answers to? and they do need counselling for the man to be put straight if there were to be future in the marriage.

Once the inner circle of the family has trap him and find him out, they should tell him that no other members of the family would know and that they should do medical test and seek counselling with their pastor if they are christian.

Things can still be salvage except that the man will have to change his ways because he might end up infecting the poor woman with something from outside.

So the best way for everything to resolve itself is for the lady's father to start the ball rolling and keep it within the family. I am sure you will be glad you did, otherwise the man is a time bomb that will catch something and give it to your sister.

Once it is resolved, on no account must you go and live with them even  for one day.

Time is a great healer, the test of their marriage will come and pass that way. You are helping your sister in her marriage today, it may be your turn tommorrow. And somehow God will send helper to help you as well. Your marriage test may not be a cheating husband but something else. We all have our challenges.

Good luck an may GOd grant you more wisdom and me and my family.

lol, people dey pray to snatch husband, na wa oooo.

Na wah oo. Pray to see if her sisters husband is hers. Good advice.

ha! amaikama,
 haba, make she slice wetin?
  nna you wicked o

Osereka! then make the shameless man respect him self na. watin e dey find for the poor girl side when e don marry the sister all ready. him no no say now another man wife him wan chop clean mouth?

Mamaput- he won't even dare touch her when he sees her with a knife in hand. he knows what he want to do is forbidden and he let his thing to get the best of his stupid brain.

Let her do what i say and she will see changes i tell you.