No Other Place To Search For Help Except Here,please Help Me

am a member of nairaland and will like to reach out to all members and relate my problem to them and hope anyone could assist me.am a student with one of the eastern universities ebsu to be precise and all this while my parent have been taking care of my studies until a sudden tragedy happened to my them and they are no more,no relatives to assist and i was let with nothing even the little one my parent left have been snached by my uncles.i need to pay my school fees worth about #40,000.please in the name of God any body that will like to help should please reach me through 08059217024 or e mail me at masetinted@yahoo.com.i really anticipate your replies.bye

After getting 40k to pay your fees. How do u hope to see urself thru school (acc,feeding etc) and for subsequent years. Misplaced priorities here. Definitely not the kind of help you should be asking for.

Every problems has solution. Don't quit school. Don't lose hope. Sometime, it is easier said than done. One problem would kill a man while the same problem weak others. I feel you. It is really a hard choice for a responsible guy to beg. We lives in a strange society. Crooks abound begging for fun, and making a profession out of begging. This had made our fellow men to distrust one another. People with genuine need for help are erroneously rejected. While most dream had been derail. If you are real, the mercy of God won't be far from you.

If you are a brilliant type, I suggest you apply for scholarship at any of the Foundations offering hunanitarian services, UBA, BAT etc. You may however be disappointed as a result of Nigerian factors. I think someone in nairaland may truly bail you out.

You must also note that this may be the begining of a struggle. Like a comrade had pointed out, how do you finance the education after paying tuition? Anyone who love you would ask you that question. Luckily, options abound. You would never walk alone if you flow with God.

Thanks for the advice. Just know that I am well equipped for such matter. In fact, I know a lot about people sleazing others. However, I had learn from experience that Nigerians are the major casuality of their own invention. That is why we are backward. There is no doubt that in making general conclusion, we exposes the needy to negligence. There are ways of identifying fake from real needy, we can help the outside world have positive impression of us. If we Nigerians do not have mechanism in place to check the rascals among us, the outside would (and had already) cast aspersion on the whole populace. They would reject your business proposals, subject you to humiliating experience, and would not help the needy among you since they don't know how to identify those with clean hands.

Rather, than condemn everyone who come to us for help, we should encourage them to work out solution to their problems. If they are real, they would try it. And they would eventually find someone who would lift them up to higher glory.

Every rich man, you see that claim he is self made is a liar. Check it out. Nobody had ever truly suceeded in a honest undertaking with the help and support from another person. Please prove me wrong.

It is for this reason I don't jump into conclusion when someone cry to me in need. If I won't help him, I would not discourage him either.

Yoruba adage said 'TI A BA NI KADIJU KI ENI BURUKU KOJA, ENI RERE NAA A KOJA'  If we decide to shut our eyes against evil men, we would miss the good one.

My advice is he should keep praying. If he is real God will bring helper to his way.

Rhinno, you have got a wonderful advice! As if you read mind. That is in my view the best way nairalanders interested in helping him should do. If he is real, he won't have any problem with that. Then, the kind hearted men and women can then arrange how to get the fund for him. Maybe seun could help in leading the cause. If we discover him to be a yahoo style, we would disgrace him and remove him permanently from nairaland.the donated money would then be refunded to the donors. It is simple. If the albinos in europe had been doing this, maybe yahoo boys would be incuring loss in their business.

Again Rhinno, may your head never lack ideas. God bless.

Amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn in jesus' name ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Aik.mamah, you get it. That should have been the motto. Just like liverpool: YOU WILL NEVER WALK ALONE!

People are sharing problems, getting jobs, securing education, brokenhearts are mended, no boring moment,  etc just by coming to nairaland. Thanks for that. Thanks to Seun.


By the way where is the owner of this thread? I expect him to at least check this thread in a week time. If he is truly in need we shall see.

Make una take am easy on the guy, but Let it be a kinda law here

"Don't take Nairaland for Play"

because we be Naijains and we know we we anywhere so nobody should come here and yarn nonsense

as for helping if im school account no dey No problem with me.

goodmorning sir
                        i saw all the replies and thank you for the understanding and words of advice honestly even at the end of the longrun and no body helped me,i won't feel bad anymore why because your advice has really encouraged me and for the school account i will send it with every other necessary document.thank you and God bless