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danniyi (m)
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it is possible, but only by the grace of God. Some ladies are out there just to sleep around with married men, but men with a serious conviction and dtermination not to sleep around. I STRONGLY BELIEVE IT IS POSSIBLE
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N-joy (f)
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@ Danniyi Yes you are so right, it's possible by the grace of God.
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N-joy (f)
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@ His_grace
I have never being MARRIED, but from what I hear, read most married men can't help cheating on their wives. My man once said the smart ones don't get caught.
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olanajim (m)
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Most guys, NOT all guys. I can tell you that you can find a clean guy.
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jazzyking (m)
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It's very possible for a MARRIED MAN to be TOTALLY FAITHFUL to his wife, I've been married 14 YEARS this august and I've been faithful all the time. Trust me I played the field in my younger days, but by the grace of GOD I was changed. I have about 3 other friends who are faithful to their wives and we go on boys outting together, watching out for each other. The fact is that there are temptations every now and then, but the consequences of the fling/affair whatever you want to call it might cost you more than you bargain for. I'm not claiming to be so strong in my own strength to remain faithful, but with the HELP of the HOLY SPIRIT, there has been times when I'm away on a business trip and one has been chased by the opposite sex. Brothers, you need to know that infidelity will costs you more than you're willing to pay, I have a very close friend who had a brief fling(did it twice) and there's no a baby and a broken marriage! Women should also do their utmost best to satisfy their husbands sexually, PLEASE SISTERS, stop using SEX as a WEAPON and pray continuously for your husbands that they will not fall prey to SHARKS! Enough said, will continue another time.
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moondust (m)
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well it's notpossible
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Zandra1 (f)
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Ive seen a man that has never cheated on his wife and vice versa. @poster, my answer to your question is yes and it is done by the grace of God, love, respect (for your spouse) and will power. Coming to the issue of women doing anything in their power to satisfy their men so as not to cheat; its baloney. Some people cheat on the most loving and caring spouse so is not all about satisfying the cheater.
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JustGood (m)
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would you like to post that on a new thread? basic ruth - if u treat your woman right she wouldn't leave you for anything if your man is perfectly happy at home, he wont cheat on you
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babeluv
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Hi house, I believe its possible to find men dat does nt cheat on their wife arn but its very hard. D ? is wat is d definition of cheating? Women too cheat on their husby like a yoruba adage says 'it is who d dawn meet dats a thief.
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$$Rhino
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It is hard to find a man that will not cheat, but i will make sure that i dont cheat on my woman, cos when the women finds out it is devastating to them, and ti is a commitment to the woman and God, also, i think that is why it is better for teh woman to have tried all toys be4 getting married, so that after marriage, no toy will thrill you, and make sure you marry the woman with most facinating toy to you, I will love my wife too much to hurt her
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N101
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Yes it is possible, there are not just a few out there but A LOT, they rarely blow their own trumpet.
The temptations out there are the same as in years gone by, just with different clothing.
Some of you seem to hold men to low standards, which is sad. What standards are you setting for your sons/nephews if this is how low you think of your gender??
How about YOU being the difference rather than looking at what other men are/aren't doing?
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Outstrip (f)
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A whore a whore and it does not matter if he is married or not. Some men will not cheat and even if it happens it is not something that they are proud off or see as the norm
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Fhemmmy
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Yes it is possible . . . but is it common to find one that don't cheat? I am not sure, cos most men seems to enjoy the extra activity
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N101
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Yes it is possible . . . but is it common to find one that don't cheat? I am not sure, cos most men seems to enjoy the extra activity
Yes it is possible, I've met quite a number of them. That's not to say they haven't been tempted, they just don't take the risk or want the hassle.
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Fhemmmy
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Yes it is possible, I've met quite a number of them. That's not to say they haven't been tempted, they just don't take the risk or want the hassle.
We saying same thing . . . .read what i say well.
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laudate
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Men who cheat are those who have no respect for their bodies and lack any commitment to their relationships or their marriages. If you are truly committed in your heart to your wife, girlfriend or fiancee, why would you cheat? The minute a man starts exchanging phonecalls & text mesages with another woman secretly and cannot share such information with his better half, he is setting the scene for infidelity. Men who do not place any value on their relationships, or place any premium on their own promises and vows are those who find it easy to joepardise such relationships by cheating on their spouses or girlfriends. Otherwise, if you hold something in high esteem, why would you want to jeopardise it?  If you loved someone with your entire being, why would you want to embark on an odessey of deceit that would cause them pain? If you had any respect for yourself & your body, why would you give any third party such cheap access to it? 
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Winnergal (f)
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yes, it's very possible . . i'm married to one . . .
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nicola c (f)
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I really hope it is possible as i am married and really hope & believe that my husband would never cheat. Nice to see some reassurance from some of the men on here though!
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My Valli (f)
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Men who cheat are those who have no respect for their bodies and lack any commitment to their relationships or their marriages. If you are truly committed in your heart to your wife, girlfriend or fiancee, why would you cheat? The minute a man starts exchanging phonecalls & text mesages with another woman secretly and cannot share such information with his better half, he is setting the scene for infidelity. Men who do not place any value on their relationships, or place any premium on their own promises and vows are those who find it easy to joepardise such relationships by cheating on their spouses or girlfriends. Otherwise, if you hold something in high esteem, why would you want to jeopardise it?  If you loved someone with your entire being, why would you want to embark on an odessey of deceit that would cause them pain? If you had any respect for yourself & your body, why would you give any third party such cheap access to it?  I humbly urge you and anyone else reading this discusson not to be quick in judging others. Infidelity may not be your torn in the flesh but beleive me it is for many others, thus it should be given utmost caution in order to prevent making pple in the act feel worse than they already are- there could be a rebound effect . A good number of the men/women that cheat on their spouses really do not want to hurt them(not like am supporting them, but let's go easy to cruxifying them but gently guide them to saftey). It takes strong will power, and God grace ultimately to stay true to your patner, no logical reason suffices.
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My Valli (f)
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ummmmmmmmmmm

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cridbak (m)
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very possible, i intend to do it sometime wen im married. 
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