Wetin Dey Worry Our Girls Nowadays?

I broke up with my chick some 9 months ago through no fault of mine, she listened to rumors and dd not care for my own side of the story (i guess she was feed up or wanted to xplore a brand new territory[ we went out for 6 years 2000-2006]) because i ve grown used to her i chose to remain on my own since then and go into r/ship only when i an ready for marrage, but the koko now be say these daughters of eve is branding me wicked and heartless, they say i don't have human feelings ( but to me i think i just don't have feelings for them, any way they r humans). This is the story:

The first among them is some 1 i served with during the NYSC stuff, now we r in the same area and this chick is doing every thing for me from buying stuff to calling long hours on phone giving me direct and indirect signal that she wants me. i ve done every possible to let her know that we can only be but friends, now she is saying i am not caring, infact she said i am heartless

the other one told me she is a virgin ( good for her), she open her mouth to tell me that she wants to give me that impeccable gift if only i assure her that the r/ship will lead some to somewhere. i tell am say i no fit assure anyone of anything now, then she too branded me a heartless animal that has no feelings for people. For Christ sake this chick is 25, if she kept that stuff for 25 years only for me to tear the rubber and walk away( that will be heartless), i mean i don't have that courage, and i don't see the r/ship leading to some where, that feeling is just not there

then the other called me from enugu and told me she is coming for a wedding in Ph that she will like to c me. good and fine, i waited, true to her words, she came we play small as person wey never tidy for 9 months + now i say my i collect, she say no problem but first may i assure her say i go marry am then on top come wed am for Anglican, unto say her papa na pastor for  Anglican, for my mind i  say shooo! i never gree to marry u don begin tell me where we go wed,i tell am say e no work make she come dey go, she say ok may i collect but may i promise am say i go think about am ( see me see trouble whats there to think about my brothers, u know a ripe corn at fight sight for christ sake u no need think wether e ripe abi e no ripe. Abi?) i tell am say e no still work say make she come dey go. she reach home call me say i dey wicked. make una see me see trouble ooo

now i have resolved, i am coming out , wetin them want i am now ready to give, i am just saying all these for your information , make no man ( or woman) try discourage me because my mind is made up, i am tired of being wicked and heartless, with no human feelings, i am just tired

I agree. . .you aren't being heartless if you are being true to the fact that you are not ready for a relationship. Why enter into a relationship to make someone happy, but meanwhile hurting yourself?

i wonder too thats y i posted   and this is with all honesty. Allah

  some times i look at myself and see nothing, i only think those daughters of eve are being so desperate
what is there in marrage that they will all desire desperately like hell (sorry heaven)

Aik.mamah,
sincerely, I know a guy in real life who had had similar experience as yours. His case was compounded by the fact that he kept quiet. He was hurt, humiliated and badmouthed by the lady's friends. Incedentally, those friends were the one that started the stupid rumour which lead to the breakup. The guy, unlike you however wanted to forgive and win back the lady. This gesture took him through path that lead to his losing his job.

Like in your case, he opted to stay off deep intimacy and in the process, the daughter of eve begin a new attack, heartless, idiots, impotent, etc! They even tempted him with anything. Unlike your case, one stupid virgin suceeded in getting to his bed and after months of seduction, she LOST HER PRECIOUS POT. That began another trouble for him. The lady insisted he must marry him. He was adamant. placing the blame on her raging cunt. He insisted he signed no such agreement verbally or otherwise.

The girl came with another game plan. TO GET PREGNANT! The man had to give her the boot when it became obvious trouble looms. Naturally he was branded HEARTLESS! I wonder why. Yet ladies keep troubling him!

He solve the problem at least temporarily by getting a steady companion he trusted. So when daughter of Eve come calling, he made a show of his new heartthrob. Today, he is talking seriously about marriage with the lady. It wasn't a smooth journey, but it brought him a peace of mind.

My advice is simple, FIND SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST AND STICK TO HER AS FRIEND. Some ladies like that type of relationship. Ladies don't like rival. Once they see you are with another lady, they would make a retreat, at least temporarily. And you can find sometime to profer permanent solution.

It may be a cock and bull story to you. Try and believe for once that it had happened, is happening and may happen again, and again until somebody learn from others. The story I presented above is real. I know because, I am close to the fellow. He may not be a member of Nairaland, he is certainly reading this with me and laughed at your unbelief. See?

My guy na wah o, just try & be ursefl. You dont av to lie to girls!!!

O'l boy!!

Girls dem wahala toooo plenty

infact e plenty pass water wey dey   Ocean


But some of them make sense sha!

Hmm. . . .
Guy! Make u shine ya eye wel-wella even if eye dey pinch u.
@iice, i knw u'r brain. . . .never mind,i just like your ID and free's too.