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alheri (f)
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@gridlock. Thank you jare. I told him, you don't need to have your own biological kids to love them or know how to take care of them.
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nikinash (f)
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if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.
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Free (f)
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if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it. i agree with ya 100% |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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third that  if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.
people sometimes use protection but you know condoms can bust |
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Idekeson (m)
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@nikinash
I hope "definitely live with it" is not forcing an adult to have the baby if they choose not to. For me, it's OK for them to make a choice and live with it. It's unfair to eliminate choice based on morality, which is often subjective in every society.
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nikinash (f)
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@nikinash
I hope "definitely live with it" is not forcing an adult to have the baby if they choose not to. For me, it's OK for them to make a choice and live with it. It's unfair to eliminate choice based on morality, which is often subjective in every society. if you can't do the time don't do the crime! |
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Idekeson (m)
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F***king is not a crime, last I checked.
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Free (f)
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F***king is not a crime, last I checked. hahahaha  oooh shiit |
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nikinash (f)
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F***king is not a crime, last I checked. it becomes a crime when you don't give a hoot about the consequences. |
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eveseh (f)
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the man decision,i think
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allonym
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how is it the man's decision?
He is not married to the woman, her body is under her control. It is only WHEN the child is born does he have a say over his/her future.
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kimba (m)
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@poster
After having "Expected Sex(protected, unprotected, hidden or open, whateva)", then you begin talking about "Unexpected Pregnancy".
As long as Rape is not in the picture. There is nothing like Unexpected Pregnancy.
Its all a matter of responsibility.
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Even those who are married, after like 7kids, husband and wife still claim they werent "expecting" the 8th child. im like duh!
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Free (f)
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@the person above me and your point is?? lol |
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kimba (m)
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@Free If after all ive said you don't get the point, then im speechless!!! heres my reply again, shine your eyes and read it properly.  After having "Expected Sex(protected, unprotected, hidden or open, whateva)", then you begin talking about "Unexpected Pregnancy".
As long as Rape is not in the picture. There is nothing like Unexpected Pregnancy.
Its all a matter of responsibility.
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Even those who are married, after like 7kids, husband and wife still claim they werent "expecting" the 8th child. im like duh! |
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IBB Fan (m)
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@kimba Free got your joke.  |
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Idekeson (m)
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it becomes a crime when you don't give a hoot about the consequences.
The consequences can be remedied by a simple medical procedure called abortion, if all concerned allow their head to rule over their heart. |
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sammyjl (f)
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Exactly, you are damn right. But if the stupid guy aint around after the girl tells him that she's expecting, than who is to make the decision, the girl ofcourse. And besides the girls always have to suffer in the long run.
The guy might tell the girl to keep the pregnancy saying all them sweet words and when the baby is born he'll be nowhere to be found. So don't give me that nonsense of the boy and girl should get involved. They all should be involved in the whole thing, from the start to the finish, but do you see that happen, hell no! 
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Busta (f)
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I believe its the decision of the girl.
she is the one to go through the nine months
the one to breastfeed and wake up midnites
the one who buys more stuffs for the baby
the one who changes the diaper
put everything on hold to prepare for the baby.
my 2 cents!
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