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bolaoni (m)
Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« on: February 21, 2006, 04:28 PM »

A cousin of mine was telling me of what transpired in church last week.

A lady that was wickedly infected with HIV by her husband  Shocked was brought to share her experience with everybody in church
and what she said was that the whole world has turn promiscuous. That no lady can be trusted any longer (mine excluded sha), she now made the statement that all the ladies are doing it, even those in church  Shocked And that those that that claim to be descent would have slept with like 3 men! I was shocked to hear that  Embarrassed

My first question was where she got the statistics from. Though I have been taught not to trust anyone but I know some descent ladies who have NEVER tasted it before talk less of been laid by 3 men  Shocked

What do you think guys? Do you think there are still ladies you can vouch for? if you are lady what do you say to this?
Skidoc (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #1 on: February 21, 2006, 04:53 PM »

I can vouch for my lady. She is pure.
bolaoni (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #2 on: February 21, 2006, 06:38 PM »

congrats man 4 your lady. You should be very proud of her!

My regards to her  Wink
nonny (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #3 on: February 23, 2006, 10:28 AM »

i don't believe the statistics at all and it should definitly not be accepted. There are still some very decent ladies out there, all people need to do is look. Not that hard to find tho
Seun (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #4 on: February 23, 2006, 12:48 PM »

Instead of her to knock the head of the husband that infected her with HIV she is complaining about the women that slept with him.  Typical of women, they only love to attack their own kind.
alj (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #5 on: February 24, 2006, 12:43 AM »

i agree with seun why this woman attacking the other woman, it was her husband that strayed and she that did not keep her man happy. why blame anyone else?
chinani (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #6 on: February 24, 2006, 06:10 AM »

true--->women are so CRITICAL of each other. and that woman is SO incorrect. i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' US. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!! it's safe to say that a majority (or large minority)  of NAIJA women wont ever make it to 3 bed partners!
teju oso (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #7 on: February 24, 2006, 11:50 AM »

 yes there are still girls out there you can trust, in places like nigeria(deeper life girls) but i'm not sure about UK girls. as per the HIV woman i think she's suffering from anger or anxiety, does she know the meaning of decent at all, even if she thinks her opinion is true she shouldn't say that in church. people in da church will be like ta lo koba e
bolaoni (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #8 on: February 24, 2006, 12:40 PM »

Quote from: chinani on February 24, 2006, 06:10 AM
i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' US. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!!

I also know a gang of them. So this statement took me unawares. I wonder what my reaction would have been if I was in service that day.

Learnt the woman has started something like a campaign. That is why he is saying all that.
chy (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #9 on: February 24, 2006, 12:51 PM »

Ladies a u dear mine i can vouch 4 myself u no
I'm no sey na oly him no be sooo
is only a sex freak that can be guilty of these am not bordererd Cool
nikinash (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #10 on: February 24, 2006, 05:14 PM »

Quote
Instead of her to knock the head of the husband that infected her with HIV she is complaining about the women that slept with him.  Typical of women, they only love to attack their own kind.

actually watched oprah the other day where women were discussing their husband's infidelity and one of them actually said it was the "other" woman's fault. its really baffling how some women don't like facing up to realities. Huh

anyways, this woman is being so unreal, how did she get the figure?
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #11 on: February 26, 2006, 05:07 AM »

she musthave slept with 3 men 2 diz one she tend 2 know such thingz and who knowz whether itz really her hubby that gave it 2 her Tongue that one na story, people 2 dey talk
reniks (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #12 on: February 27, 2006, 11:06 PM »

I agree with hotstepper,d woman might av been speakin from experience n she has slept wit at least 3 men.So she thinks she knows best n can cook up some statistics 4 d church members 2 swallow in faith.It s jus like sayin everyone is doin n thr aint virgins.I av 4 beautiful friends[2 r models]whom i cn bet my life on dt they r pure n we r in a schl dts acclaimed 2 av d most indecent girls.If she's going to point fingers let r do dt 2 r husband n mayb r ex-partners
IAH (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #13 on: February 27, 2006, 11:27 PM »

Quote from: chinani on February 24, 2006, 06:10 AM
i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' US. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!! it's safe to say that a majority (or large minority) of NAIJA women wont ever make it to 3 bed partners!

Quote from: bolaoni on February 24, 2006, 12:40 PM
I also know a gang of them. So this statement took me unawares.

Be careful of what and who you believe. I also thought I knew a gang of virgins until my eyes saw and my ears heard. Shocked Shocked Shocked A lot of girls lie about it.
Onyibaby (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #14 on: February 28, 2006, 12:01 AM »

l would think that the reason she said  it  in the church is for people to learn from her mistakes and stay away from adultery and fornication.
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #15 on: February 28, 2006, 12:05 AM »

ah! whether church or school, i hate when people generalize things and don't know why in diz century people would be lying of been a virgin, if u r not, noone is going to cut of ur head, I get pissed when people lie about that,
Onyibaby (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #16 on: February 28, 2006, 12:07 AM »

And again i would not vouch for them girls in Naija, not all of them sha , majority of them can do anything  for money .
Onyibaby (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #17 on: February 28, 2006, 12:10 AM »

True to that Hotstepper, but then the church is where u get your soul fed and all that . i think it'
s a good ground to sound such alarm  for people to abstain from adultery  and sort.
Hotstepper (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #18 on: February 28, 2006, 12:17 AM »

yea, true onyii
bolaoni (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #19 on: February 28, 2006, 12:03 PM »

Quote from: reniks on February 27, 2006, 11:06 PM
I av 4 beautiful friends[2 r models]whom i cn bet my life on dt they r pure n we r in a schl dts acclaimed 2 av d most indecent girls.

UNILAG i suppose  Cool

I run my biz in Unilag, Consult, U can holla @ me anytime.

 Cool  Cool  Cool
reniks (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #20 on: February 28, 2006, 12:36 PM »

Bolaoni u guessed right.Wow!Lag's got a reputation o,i didn't even av 2 mention d name.Anyway its really not as bad as people think.please remind me where Unilag consult is again,av spent 5 years in d schl n i keep 4gettin places.
bolaoni (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #21 on: February 28, 2006, 01:01 PM »

Unilag Consults is like an island. It is the building facing ISL, UC, It is also on the road to Educations, from the second gate.

I'm in the UNIDO Office at the top floor.

between, what course are you studying?

Cool
reniks (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #22 on: February 28, 2006, 05:33 PM »

English Language/Arts
bolaoni (m)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #23 on: February 28, 2006, 05:39 PM »

OK now!

I do come to the Arts dept to meet a lecturer in the geography dept.

Do you know Dr. Kemi Lawanson? Think she is in art as well Huh

Hope to see you one of these days.
reniks (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #24 on: February 28, 2006, 06:51 PM »

I don't know r,maybe she's in a different dept.       U kno yr 3 n 4 r on hols now,we'D probably be home 4 2-3 months.
flower (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #25 on: February 28, 2006, 06:58 PM »

First off it's no one's business how many men a woman has slept with unless she's in a physical relationship.  Even then the number is not necessary, only the papers saying that she is free and clear of diseases.

Secondly, this woman is focusing on the wrong problem.  The problem is that her husband was unfaithful to her and not only that, but he was irresponsible enough to have unprotected sex with a woman he didn't know.  I use the term didn't know because he did not know her health condition.  Why would anyone sleep with someone without protection is beyond me.

Why are we so busy wondering what someone else is doing?  We seem to look so hard into someone else's life, we can't see the leaks and holes in our own.  Sad.

@};~
Mystique (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #26 on: June 29, 2006, 04:57 PM »

Since when did 'DECENCY' become a function of how many men u've shagged??? Embarrassed
Nia
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #27 on: July 02, 2006, 01:41 AM »

Quote from: Mystique on June 29, 2006, 04:57 PM
Since when did 'DECENCY' become a function of how many men u've shagged??? Embarrassed
Abeg, help me ask am o.

And I still don't know any woman who goes around telling the world how many people she's slept with. That's something between you and your partner, IF you choose to reveal it to them. People should learn to mind their own business. 
That woman is sufferring from a disease that is too common in Naija/African women. Like Seun said, she should deal with her problems (and her husband) and stop putting blame where it doesn't belong.
Janeesa (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #28 on: August 16, 2007, 03:05 PM »

I say that lady is right but there are still some ladies who are pure.In a society where everyone is jumping from one partner to another and not thinkin twice about it--its hard.Teenagers on almost every part of the globe are becoming promiscuous and all their parents have to say about it is"use a condom" or "I knew u would be having sex so i bought you some condoms" what type of shit is that?Huh???even parents of the christian faith are saying stuff like this to their kids, my uncle even asked me if my brother had a girlfriend-- when i sed no he sed my brother should be carryin condoms with him!!!! this guy is my aunts husband,talkin like this! so with this attitude why wouldnt kids be having sex? I'm a teenager myself and I'm happy to say I don't do typical teenager stuff like have sex/do drugs/drink, i intend on saving my self for marriage, no matter how sex-crazed society is!
yogun (f)
Re: Even Decent Ladies Sleep With At Least 3 Men?
« #29 on: September 06, 2007, 04:50 PM »

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