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ladydibia (f)
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When a guy tries to know about every movement his babe makes ,what do u think he is up to?
Please help me out.
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Easybaby (f)
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lol . . . . . . . . . . . . . . that is for security reason  
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drrionelli (m)
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What is he up to, you ask?
No good is what he's up to! He's either being insecure, untrusting, paranoid, controlling or a fair dollop of any--perhaps all--of the above.
Be VERY guarded against this type of man, ladies!
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d-thing (f)
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it's either of three things -
1. he doesn't trust the babe
2. he has heard certain things about her
3. he has been deceived by hi ex- and is probably takingg steps to ensure it never happens again
for whatever, reason, it is abusive. it is simply not a healthy way to keep a relationship
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CrazyMan (m)
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Nope I think it’s either of these three.
1 . He loves you so much and doesn’t want to loose you.
2. He gives you everything you ask him for yet you are not completely honest with him so he feels you’re cheating on him
3. He must have heard about all the nasty things you’ve done in the past so he decided to be on his guard.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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He's up to NOTHING!!! he has no life. pathetic looser
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iice (f)
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Every move? Possessive freak!
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iice (f)
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What a question! Duh!
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Easybaby (f)
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what an answer Duh! . . . . . . .but you said it on the previous post  . . , . .why do you dump your ex
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iice (f)
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Get a clue already man. . .my post answers itself. . .hence no use for a question. Duh! Yes i used this word and i'll keep using it. . .
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Macgreat (m)
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Duh!
Wat word?
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iice (f)
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And they come
Toodles haven't stocked up on panadols!
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drrionelli (m)
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Please re-read what d-thing says, for she is correct: It is abusive behavior he is exhibiting!
I note, crazykid, that you suggest he simply doesn't want to lose her because he loves her so much. With all due respect, sir, that's not his decision, and he's trying to be too controlling in that case. The woman has her own volition and free will. She is not his property to keep or lose. You say he feels she is cheating. Again, that is mistrust. If he's been deceived by his ex, and is simply trying to assure that such deception doesn't happen again, that, too, my friend, is mistrust.
These things do not bode well at all for any relationship. I suggest that any woman involved with such a man, run (don't walk) from him! There are many other better men out there who are far more worthy of your time and attention.
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$$Rhino
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@NaJa, u mean ohhhhhhhhh, kai, "he is a pathetic looser" kai, your tongue sharp jare, i fear u, but u said it the way it is sha.
@ Poster, not all times that men wanna know the movement of the babe does he have something up his sleeve, sometimes, might wanna know just cos he cares, though, some men think cos he has sent you some recharge card, now you belong to him, just take it easy and let the guy know that yu are have your own mind, biko
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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thanks $$Rhino.
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ladydibia (f)
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I really do appreciate wat u all responded with, i know the guy very well but wasn't too sure and that was why i asked,but will really want to say a big thank you to both [b]crazykid and $$Rhino [/b] for giving mature respond, pls keep it up.And pls to the house whenever a question is raise handle it decently and in a mature way,because these things go a long way.Give advice like u will always do to your sisters and brothers,because i believe that is wat we are.Once again i say thank u to u all.
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McDoe (m)
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I really do appreciate what u all responded with, i know the guy very well but wasn't too sure and that was why i asked,but will really want to say a big thank you to both [b]crazykid and $$Rhino [/b] for giving mature respond, please keep it up.And please to the house whenever a question is raise handle it decently and in a mature way,because these things go a long way.Give advice like u will always do to your sisters and brothers,because i believe that is what we are.Once again i say thank u to u all.
ladydibia, I hope you will make good use of these both negative and positive advices? |
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sanrima (f)
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may be he is feeling insecure or he is trying to guard against wat happened in a past r/ship. i think u should discuss it with him, let him know how u feel, reasure him of your faithfullness, and pls handle it with wisdom so dat he doesn,t get hurt.
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