Why Do I Keep Comparing My Girlfriend To Other Girls?

Maybe you don't love her that much.  That's why you are still noticing other babes.  When the love is clouding your mind you will not be thinking of how she compares to other babes.  When you're in it for the sake of being in a relationship at all costs, then you'll be thinking about how to get a "better model". 

So you are obviously not in love, but does it matter that much for a successful long-term relationship?

if i were your girlfrien, i would dump you right away cause you don't love me!!too bad she doesn't know this!!!tame yourself man be appricieative with what you have,,,you know that saying you don't treasure what you have until you loose it!!think about it

lol kind of funny Disney

It aint my mind that's rovin'. It's them eyes    can't seem to help it, am a guy. And guys NOTICE things, i hear. Not that i don't preciate the girl, nah.

I don't quite agree with u seun. right now she has a place no othr girl can take. xcept she steps, that is.


Aint tru. Ah, seun, try living/working among cuties u actually have a small trace of liking for.


Actually, what happens is i be thinking of how to make her a better model so i don't have to _drool 

Uh oh. maybe i am not. I like the girl to the point that i have made up my mind that no matter how mad she makes me or how bad she gets, i wont let go of her. I am terribly psychologically and spiritually committed to her. Maybe my definition of love is wrong then - i am not "tripping", like guys wd say. or feeling mushy. But I love her presence and it makes me feel like there is a light in my world, makes me feel like taking care of her 4eva.

@Rhody:
If u were my galfriend, there'D be nothin u cd do bout it. because guys never stop lookin'. She actually gets my undivided attention, until a "showstopper" babe happens by. And i have to remind myself that "your mind is made up". But it never stops me from wanting her to look like that

@cheekee:Opps, good thing u aint because that wuz rather harsh! I always rmember that my body duznt ctrol my mind, its vice versa. But if sth is meant to CATCH your attention, and you a guy, it WILL. The thing is, you don't HAVE to do anything about it.  I always end up asking myself what i can do for her to make her look THAt good and make me stare at her THAT much. About the love part, well - maybe i don't actually know if i love her, because i don't feel butterflies in my stomach when shes around; instead i feel a kind of peace and completeness. What name do we call that?

I wonder at myself. I really do. I must be twisted.

@gridlock so sorry i didn't mean to hurt you or be rude but rather any womans insinuation

its totally normal to look it just the unfavorable comparisons that are unhealthy, if you are in love or falling in love then this will stop, not the looking that will continue your whole life until your eyes or libido gives out.

and do not feel to bad i can assure you your girl is looking to we're just sneakier.

your name says it all. your greed is locked n that's y your girl remains #1 for you. as my guy, i'l jus put it 2 u like this. if there r things u kno u can uz 2 upgrade her 2 standard n r within your capacity, get it done fast 2. 1 thin remains 4 sure, fyn girls no dey finish 4 this lyf. jus focus on your baby.

so if u go look, no VAT. but when u proceed, u mus pay full price!!






*whisper* (e b like say gridlock dey vex as I'm babe no gather enough amenities)

U beta carry blame alone IBB

you can't get 100% of everything you want in a relationship
if its up to 60% manage it and make up to the rest  by yourself

If she did, i'D be glad if i never get to know. Somewhere deep inside of everybody, theres a selfish little fellow that cries "surely theres a beeter option", or "the grass is greener somewhere". What we crave is now what differs from person to person.

I admire my girlfriend and i don't regret being with her - i mean, she's got a great bod, guys trip over themselves for her, she's got a lovely character and she's in love with me - and we have similar life goals, but i wont pretend that i don't get these thoughts sometimes. I just wanted to know if it was normal.

For instance, how many of u guys will say they have seen a movie/pic of a very lovely chic and thoughts like "if that chick were mine, " or "if my girlfiend liooked like that, " NEVER came to their heads?

well, it's only natural. same way no guy would feel comfortable if his chic started comparing or wishing upon a star for a "better" guy.

by the way grid, could you put a pic of your girl up so that a brother like me can give more tips on how to keep you relationship steady without flipping.

well for one looks is not everything, so far u only notice other girls appearance but u don't notice their habits or their personalities. your girl is your girl for a reason which is not looks so u r obviously trying to see how u can make her better. you can't do that by comparing, just look for her good characteristics and improve on that.