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pixie (f)
Have I Lost Him?
« on: August 11, 2007, 11:05 PM »

I have this friend, a guy, we've been friends since our school days, later we started dating. All seemed well and was ok until he told me he was a free thinker. told him to give me a break to think things out but i knew i couldn't date him no more, didn't want to lose his friendship and i've called him to apologise on different occasions but he would say it's ok and he'll call back but never does.

what do i do as i really miss his friendship.

please advice.
simply_me (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #1 on: August 11, 2007, 11:08 PM »

u have lost him to a pot of soup. Simple.
Imani (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #2 on: August 11, 2007, 11:12 PM »

Quote from: pixie on August 11, 2007, 11:05 PM
I have this friend, a guy, we've been friends since our school days, later we started dating. All seemed well and was ok until he told me he was a free thinker. told him to give me a break to think things out but i knew i couldn't date him no more, didn't want to lose his friendship and i've called him to apologise on different occasions but he would say it's ok and he'll call back but never does.

what do i do as i really miss his friendship.

please advice.

Maybe he just provided an avenue to get out himself of the relationship.

Dont get guilt ridden. You have apologised like you claim and if your friendship means anything to him, he will call back. Or maybe he also needs to think things through as well.

mamaput (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #3 on: August 12, 2007, 11:11 AM »

Seems that he is not a free thinker after all
pixie (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #4 on: August 12, 2007, 09:54 PM »

@ Imani,

that was what a friend of mine thot too, if that's the case too bad. I'm not guilt ridden far from it but i someties think if things could have turned out different.

@ simply_me
Quote from: simply_me on August 11, 2007, 11:08 PM
u have lost him to a pot of soup. Simple.

Imao na for your pot he land?  Shocked Shocked Shocked. no be small thing o.

@mama put,
maybe he ain't truly.
N-joy (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #5 on: August 12, 2007, 11:09 PM »

He ain't calling because you're no longer on his mind, he's moved on to another free thinker.
Roadblock
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #6 on: August 14, 2007, 10:55 AM »

oju imale ko kuro loti Grin Grin Grin
crazykid (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #7 on: August 14, 2007, 03:08 PM »

You mustn’t force yourself on him. If he promised to call you and later broke his promise, that simply means he has less interest in you. Just let him be.

Cheer up there are still nice guys out there ok?  Wink

pixie (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #8 on: August 14, 2007, 10:51 PM »

Quote from: Roadblock on August 14, 2007, 10:55 AM
oju imale ko kuro loti Grin Grin Grin
@ roadblock
lol which oti? pele o imale.there are many otis so imale in this case is not addicted to one oti  i just want to make peace with that oti, i might still need it ok?

@crazykid

thanks but don't gtit twisted i'm not forcing myself on the guy no reason to i'm just someone who will raher have more friends than enemies as they say keep an eye on your friend but a closer eye on your enemy. Wink
otokx (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #9 on: August 15, 2007, 06:37 AM »

free thinker ke?
tpia
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #10 on: August 16, 2007, 04:38 AM »

what crazykid said.

If he said he'll call, and doesnt, he's obviously probably into something else.

not that you're forcing yourself on him, but that's how it could look to the guy.
jintujinta (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #11 on: March 14, 2008, 06:49 PM »

Does it mean that all through your friendship, you never knew he was a free thinker before you started dating?
Sweet T (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #12 on: March 14, 2008, 07:33 PM »

@Poster

I think the brother has read your book titled " Wishy washy".
ifyalways (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #13 on: March 14, 2008, 08:04 PM »

Quote from: tpia on August 16, 2007, 04:38 AM
what crazykid said.

If he said he'll call, and doesnt, he's obviously probably into something else.

not that you're forcing yourself on him, but that's how it could look to the guy.
So true !
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #14 on: March 14, 2008, 10:17 PM »

@ Topic,

Looks like at the time the "ship had sail" Shocked

At this time "more passenger/s" must have boarded the ship,. ,  .  ,  . . ,  .

Sorry,  Embarrassed
big father (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #15 on: March 14, 2008, 11:32 PM »

why was the break in the first place ? And you shouldn't have dated in the first place since you knew you were going to take the candy away from the child . Undecided
Scopium (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #16 on: March 16, 2008, 03:49 PM »

If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you it's yours but if it doesn't I guess you know the rest
lamidebaby (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #17 on: March 17, 2008, 12:01 PM »

Quote from: Scopium on March 16, 2008, 03:49 PM
If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you it's yours but if it doesn't I guess you know the rest
YES. . . . if it doesn't, . . .  hunt it down n' kill it. Tongue
Busta (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #18 on: March 17, 2008, 01:56 PM »

Quote from: Scopium on March 16, 2008, 03:49 PM
If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you it's yours but if it doesn't I guess you know the rest

Word!

Give him a break, stop calling him . . .maybe he'll come around later.
frannie
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #19 on: June 02, 2008, 03:53 PM »

I think you've lost him.he's no good for you Sad
shylladear (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #20 on: June 02, 2008, 06:45 PM »

Just let him be.
if he realy cares for u even if he doesnt love u at least if he cares for he will come back
if not as your guy then just as a friend.
so be cool  Wink.
Godalone (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #21 on: June 03, 2008, 11:17 AM »

Your guy is not a free thinker as he claimed,i am sure he does not understand anything about free thinking.
baloolaspo (f)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #22 on: June 13, 2008, 02:53 PM »

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otokx (m)
Re: Have I Lost Him?
« #23 on: June 13, 2008, 02:59 PM »

Which one be free thinker abeg? Are you a slave thinker?
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