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gentledove (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #32 on: April 11, 2008, 01:52 PM »

@ poster,

i do miss him.  we were together for 7 years before we broke up.  i love my guy so much now but cant stop thinking about my ex once in a while.  till date, anytime he passes and i dont see him in the crowd, he has a way of calling my name that is distinct.  anytime i hear the whistle, i know its him calling me.  it happens - whether by a flash or deep thought or when you are about doing something and you remember the way he used to do it, you just smile.

God have mercy!  like a poster said, first impression last longer.  once he is your first love,  his memory remains indelible in your mind no matter how you guys broke up. Cool
abawa (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #33 on: April 11, 2008, 01:58 PM »

Quote from: chukz4real on April 11, 2008, 01:39 PM

Your Theory "shared" risk taking"  baffles me. Are sure you know what you want?
If you truely hope to be out of "remain re-cycled damage goods" soon then i bet you start learning
to go into r/ships with clear heart.Be determined to succeed. Am with you in prayers too.

[b]4 my ex's cos they are ,  yes though married now, i still occassionally have cause to chat them up. Thats all [/b]
almondjoy (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #34 on: April 11, 2008, 02:11 PM »

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
chinda3
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #35 on: April 11, 2008, 02:22 PM »

miss wetin?infact e be like say i don forget d person name sef Cheesy
jkpretty (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #36 on: April 11, 2008, 02:42 PM »

If we check within ourselves there would be something about our ex that we miss. Was there nothing good about him/her at all? What were the things that attracted u in the first place? Have everything simply wiped away simply because of an unforgivable event that caused the break up?

I miss for different reasons because there is something good about every human.

But when i walk away from a relationship, i weigh all options and know that i won't be tempted to get back. It is natural to remember & miss a part of someone, except he or she was not human. 
chukz4real (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #37 on: April 11, 2008, 02:57 PM »

Quote from: jkpretty on April 11, 2008, 02:42 PM
If we check within ourselves there would be something about our ex that we miss. Was there nothing good about him/her at all? What were the things that attracted u in the first place? Have everything simply wiped away simply because of an unforgivable event that caused the break up?

I miss for different reasons because there is something good about every human.

But when i walk away from a relationship, i weigh all options and know that i won't be tempted to get back. It is natural to remember & miss a part of someone, except he or she was not human.

I second your theory in part Sister Joke.
There are situations that despite your weighin all available options, you still find ursef going back. Take for example. Meeting a guy for the first time and he happens to be your first love. And after sharing some beautiful moments as teenagers (probably still in secondary school). Afterwards, due to either of your parents job( maybe transfered to another part of the country or so), u parted ways and suprising met again while still single and ready to tangle. What do u do then if he proposes?

Am all ears Sister Joke!
izeek (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #38 on: April 11, 2008, 03:10 PM »

she was like my goddess and i tot it was all i ever cud ask for, guess what she prooved otherwise.
we broke up, and all i cud remember about her was all the 1derful sex we had. but i found out that i was not the only 1 she gave the priviledge.
soo much for my goddess.
asabi (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #39 on: April 11, 2008, 03:17 PM »

if u really love your ex b4 breaking UP i do believe, ones  ex will be missed whether 4  good or bad
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #40 on: April 11, 2008, 03:21 PM »

My ex was the love of my life Sad,
i met him at a point where i had been jumping from relationship to relationship because i did not know how or was afraid of being by myself.
we were friends and he showed me how to be strong in myself and that i didnt need anyone to be happy.
we fought all the time, he cheated, i cheated, we survived so many things, even long distance. we were constantly drawn to each other, and couldnt stay away but it was doomed. he was horrible at being a boyfriend, good mate tho, I just couldnt see us getting married.
we had to break up 3 times for it to be final,,,,
we finally accepted it wouldnt work but i miss him loads.  Sad
we try not to keep intouch (we still call each other on birthdays), but we've both moved on.
its hard trying not to ring him when I'm having a difficult time but c'est la vie!  
somze (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #41 on: April 11, 2008, 03:25 PM »

No I dont, I'm a completely different person this year and it's all about me.

Wish other guys can have the wisdom to be like me.

Miss ke?
HR.hotness (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #42 on: April 11, 2008, 03:30 PM »

I suppose tho, it depends on the kind of relationship u had and the reason for break up
u definately wont miss someone u were miserable with or who broke your heart will u?
somze (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #43 on: April 11, 2008, 03:34 PM »

Miserable - yes
Broken heart - Pluueeaaase, I aint that sentimental.
jkpretty (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #44 on: April 11, 2008, 03:40 PM »

@Chukz4real

Helloooooooooooooooo! What ever gave u the impression that my name is Joke?  Huh

I have an ID, Use it, Thank u sir  Angry
kateflow (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #45 on: April 11, 2008, 03:53 PM »

yes i sometimes miss him and wish i could
turn back the hands of time
,but some time i hate him  for what he did
chukz4real (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #46 on: April 11, 2008, 04:08 PM »

Quote from: jkpretty on April 11, 2008, 03:40 PM
@Chukz4real

Helloooooooooooooooo! What ever gave u the impression that my name is Joke? Huh

I have an ID, Use it, Thank u sir Angry

Hmmm, I can't remember when last the "Thank u sir" was ever mentioned to me. Big Sister JKPretty, thanks 2 for reminding me that am up to the Sir's
The Sly
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #47 on: April 11, 2008, 04:14 PM »

Quote
If we check within ourselves there would be something about our ex that we miss.
After thorough examination of myself. . . .i am sorry but i found nothing worth missing about me ex(es)
I dont miss nobody!  Cool
They aint worth missing!. . . . . . .  Cool
carlton (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #48 on: April 11, 2008, 04:20 PM »

 Embarrasseddon't ever make the mistake of letting a good girl slip off your hands or you'll spend the rest of your life comparing every other girl to her.it's an advice forget Macho
Mr. Pataki
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #49 on: April 11, 2008, 04:32 PM »

Probably a guy is on top of her now screwing her as I am typing this, yet I will want to punish myself by stating am missing her? Undecided

God forbid! From the moment, she left my house in Nigeria, that was the last time I spoke and saw her personally one-on-one. She is not worth my time. Not even talking of thinking about missing her. I have better things on my hands to do than sit and be punishing myself over a past relationship.

Life moves on to better things abeg.
Sweet T (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #50 on: April 11, 2008, 04:35 PM »

It's not always easy to forget someone you once loved. Even when both are married. A lover becomes like a family member when the love is still good. When the love turned sour, it's like losing a distant cousin.  Cool
bussylove
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #51 on: April 11, 2008, 04:41 PM »

you can only miss your ex if u had wonderful times with each other and somehow somethings came into place that seperated u but if he wasnt good to you during the relationship,forgetttttt.
Sweet T (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #52 on: April 11, 2008, 04:44 PM »

@Poster


Check this out and it will help you deal with the thoughts of the one you missed, 


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_59ttb5tug
jkpretty (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #53 on: April 11, 2008, 04:46 PM »

Quote from: Mr. Pataki on April 11, 2008, 04:32 PM
Probably a guy is on top of her now screwing her as I am typing this, yet I will want to punish myself by stating am missing her? Undecided

God forbid! From the moment, she left my house in Nigeria, that was the last time I spoke and saw her personally one-on-one. She is not worth my time. Not even talking of thinking about missing her. I have better things on my hands to do than sit and be punishing myself over a past relationship.

Life moves on to better things abeg.

For u to have thought of her now, she made a mark!
Mr. Pataki
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #54 on: April 11, 2008, 04:48 PM »

Quote from: jkpretty on April 11, 2008, 04:46 PM
For u to have thought of her now, she made a mark!
Tongue Tongue

Was just responding to the topic. Grin Grin Tongue
ThoniaSlim (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #55 on: April 11, 2008, 05:40 PM »

Miss ko, miss ni. abegi the past stays past.
buchio7 (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #56 on: April 11, 2008, 05:48 PM »

yes sometimes i miss my ex, mamalicious  if your reading dis sometimes i miss u.
chinda3
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #57 on: April 11, 2008, 05:50 PM »

Quote
yes sometimes i miss my ex, mamalicious  if your reading this sometimes i miss u.

your words are so romantic,u make me cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry
uspry1 (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #58 on: April 11, 2008, 06:03 PM »

No, I don't miss my exs who broke my heart or gave me miserable.

Only i miss my platonic male friends, who leave me behind, on fond memories!!! Suddenly surprise to reach me alternative communication to catch the lost we had. Shocked
albridge (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #59 on: April 11, 2008, 08:12 PM »

dated this wonderful girl not too long ago. she is a nurse. we got along like near perfect. never met anyone like that before. we would have gotten married but we had a small disagreement and the was too proud to say sorry and so was i. the relationship ended but i think of her almost every day. it almost a year now.  believe i will get over her when i meet someone i believe is better than her. for now, i have to bear the burden of missing her.
Sam Milla (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #60 on: April 11, 2008, 08:58 PM »

yes
buchio7 (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #61 on: April 12, 2008, 02:47 PM »

Quote from: albridge on April 11, 2008, 08:12 PM
dated this wonderful girl not too long ago. she is a nurse. we got along like near perfect. never met anyone like that before. we would have gotten married but we had a small disagreement and the was too proud to say sorry and so was i. the relationship ended but i think of her almost every day. it almost a year now. believe i will get over her when i meet someone i believe is better than her. for now, i have to bear the burden of missing her.

Nna guy this is deep yarns, deep,  I feel u real good. Sorry, ehhhh!!!! dont mind dem chicks u will get someone who appreciates and values your romantic nature.  Sad Sad Sad
whitelexi (m)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #62 on: April 12, 2008, 03:43 PM »

Yes, but moving on will make it much easier to forget the past. Once again it feels good to be in a position to say NO to a woman and feel good about it Cool
Cadet (f)
Re: Do You Sometimes Miss Your Ex (boyfriend Or Girlfriend)
« #63 on: April 12, 2008, 04:18 PM »

hehehe. When someone better is there, all you want to do is forget. But I miss one in particular, my first ex, loved his name, maybe that's why. I miss his troubles but love his name. Ife  Grin
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