Ladies Whats Your Criteria

he he he he he he!

Go and watch "Grease"  Starring John Travolta and Olivia Newton John---one of my favorite movies ever made about teenage life in America

_{---without black peeps of course}

you ladies of nairaland

are just darn Incorrigible!!!

pick from the listed criteria_{.*******groans******}

@airblaze

u shouldn't have bothered replying oracle's comment.

@ ariblaze

yes, i think Naja is very correct, lets ignore him & continue having fun

i like cool-headed, hardworking & humourous guys

crazyP

am inclined to agree



now back to business (hope the frown worked)

i cant take the listed criteria’s 

they are not listed, please pick from the listed


@easybabe

_{were is the jero zooming to}

From the list: Hot, Loving and Intelligent

My list: Man of God, Understanding, Extremely sexy, Down to earth. (oh by the way he must have a potential to make money at least. _{*u no what i mean?*}

@olanajim


over here

Hmmm. I am here!

good point we can always edit the topic to include both genders

You know how it could be for someone who don't poke his nose into ladies' business?    
I had to take time to read the whole contributions.

First, you stuck to your criteria. That show you are a man of sound ideology and strong commitment to cause. I LOVE people with that traits!

Vivasimple, had said my view on this matter. Everybody had a criteria that is proportional to circumstance and individuals. For instance, a lady's definition of a caring man may mean someone who spoil her with gifts. We all know that our minds work differently. Nevertheless, we all have minimum criteria we look for consciously or subconciously.

Since you insisted we stick to your rule. My criteria (from your list) :

Intelligence: (this doesn't implies she has to be an academia).

Caring.


Love is a cripple! It can't stand alone. So I don't rely on it. With the two criteria above, anything is possible, even Love!

If you ask for my own criteria, you already know one of them. A woman of consistent value! Good or bad, I must know my woman. That way, I would know how to handle her when the case arise. The other two are as stated above.
INTELLIGENT, CARING.

Like I said, love is a cripple; a child of circumstance. I don't use it as a criteria. If fact, I may choose to love my enemy, must I marry her?

Ariblaze,

Loveless marriage is a product of ignorance and neglect on the part of the couple. Love being a cripple is an illustration of it dependency on other factors. Tell me, what is LOVE without TRUST, CONVICTION, CARING and DEVOTION? All of these are the wheelchair upon which LOVE derive it mobility. Without them, what you get is nothing but LUST, INFATUATION that lead straight to heartbreak. Please prove me wrong, Ariblaze!

Real Love is BUILT on conviction. Have you ever thoughu of why there are so many 'cracked' love?

When you begin to understand the mystery of Love, you would realize the truth underlying my statement.

No, I won't have a loveless marriage if I stick to the creed. Why, because Love blossom out of a CARING heart. An INTELLIGENT man or woman would know how to build a solid foundation with a strong conviction. Upon all these, a fertile ground is prepared for Love to germinate and bloom unrestricted for ages.

Ariblaze,

Loveless marriage is a product of ignorance and neglect on the part of the couple. Love being a cripple is an illustration of it dependency on other factors. Tell me, what is LOVE without TRUST, CONVICTION, CARING and DEVOTION? All of these are the wheelchair upon which LOVE derive it mobility. Without them, what you get is nothing but LUST, INFATUATION that lead straight to heartbreak. Please prove me wrong, Ariblaze!

Real Love is BUILT on conviction. Have you ever thoughu of why there are so many 'cracked' love?

When you begin to understand the mystery of Love, you would realize the truth underlying my statement.

No, I won't have a loveless marriage if I stick to the creed. Why, because Love blossom out of a CARING heart. An INTELLIGENT man or woman would know how to build a solid foundation with a strong conviction. Upon all these, a fertile ground is prepared for Love to germinate and bloom unrestricted for ages.

Don't misunderstand me. Let me clarify.

It is like builing a mansion. You first select a site, then have a plan and design how your dream house must look like. Then you lay a foundation, get workmen and build your dream home. Thereafter, you give it a good outlook. You Paint it. People don't see the foundation or the work input you have invested on the building. They don't see the composition of the building. Just the painting and it beauty. When the storm visits the building, a building with weak foundation and substandard materials, no matter how beautiful, would colapse like colapsed Lagos buildings.

A  building with strong foundation and quality materials, no matter how ugly, would stand.

That is the way it is for me. Love is just like painting that make your relationship complete. The criteria Ariblaze was talking about are like the materials use to lay foundation for the building. People who fail to grasp this ideal would always have a tale to tell of love. Love is nothing but emotion. Like anger, you can control it or let it control you. The choice is yours.

That is the logic behind my stand.

As for being disappointed, I cannot be disappointed by love again. With what I had seen, heard, and known, my disappointment would not be from love. Maybe I need a really wicked babe to prove me wrong. I am waiting! She would end up on the other side!

Read my post again. I didn't insinuated anything. I said I won't marry for Love and I mean it. Love is not that sacred.

Believe me. When you learn to see what I am seeing, you would never question my creed. For your information I don't have loveless relationship. You don't even know whether I am into one or practicing celebacy. You have the benefit of imagination. One thing I can tell you is that, I have never found myself in a loveless situation. I am always surronded by love and lovely people. Though it takes me long to recognize it.

If you live in water, you would not need to fear the river.

this is quite amusing

you seem to chastising me

the last someone tried that

i was in a military school
 it seems the post got to you

meanwhile  u can marry for love

but you are in a loving relationship

_{******simply doesnt add up******}


part 2




i really beg to differ

your mirrors have you confused here

love is very much sacred, extremely selfless, the most the typical here in nigeria is the parent to child

\maybe you had a typo

and you meant to type lust , which i quite agree is a dime a dozen

but  love is very sacred

saw this somewhere


15 Things You Probably

Never Knew or Thought About



1. At least 5 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.


2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.


3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.


4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.


5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.


6. You mean the world to someone.


7. If not for you, someone may not be living.


8. You are special and unique.


9. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.


10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.


11. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.


12. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, probably, sooner or later, you will get it.


13. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.


14. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much better when they know.


15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.


A Minute



They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.

Send this phrase to the people you'll never forget and remember to send it also to the person that sent it to you. It's a short message to let them know that you'll never forget them. If you don't send it to anyone, it means you're in a hurry and that you've forgot your friends.

Take the time,  to live and love.