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feelgood (m)
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I'm not saying it is wrong or trying to be racist; but couldnt help noticing the increase. Even my boy says he would marry a white when he grows up - he is 14. Dont know where he got the idea/influence from. Was not very common in my younger days. Are white girls wisening up to our preferences while our girls are abandoning the same.
Sure would like to hear your views please
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Ivvie
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My Nigerian friends made this clear to me. Nigerian girls are fake and they never tell the truth. Always pretend to be what they are not. They are also narcissist and dirty. Some of my female nigerian friends don't agree to marrying nigerians.
Not like I care and I am not attracted to whites. Whites are more of women in personality and character and Nigerians tend to bond their feminine appeal.
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Red_Lips (f)
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any reason why you are looking to mingle with us dirty people on our forum
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Ivvie
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@Red
I did not mingle anyone with dirty people. This was the same question I asked my friends in May and what I posted what the summary of what I got from everyone of them. I made no conclusion of my own and haven't decided on any either.
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Red_Lips (f)
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then what was the idiotic remark you made about Yoruba girls in some other thread
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Ivvie
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It wasn't limited to yoruba girls.
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Red_Lips (f)
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Everywhere I go, Yoruba girls are dirty and indecent. Is this not you? |
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Ivvie
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I'll have to go make corrections to that post. My intention was to portray is at generalisation. The sentence is incomplete. I meant "Everywhere I go, everyone says"
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naija_diva (f)
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My Nigerian friends made this clear to me. Nigerian girls are fake and they never tell the truth. Always pretend to be what they are not. They are also narcissist and dirty. Some of my female nigerian friends don't agree to marrying nigerians.
Not like I care and I am not attracted to whites. Whites are more of women in personality and character and Nigerians tend to bond their feminine appeal.
i believe the starter of this thread said black boys prefering white girls, not nigerian boys prefering white girls. |
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Ivvie
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@naija diva
Excuse me for implying what wasn't intended. I don't know about black boys or men. I don't think they buy the idea. I've spent half of my life in Louisiana and it's a sensitive issue seeing the two races getting together in a relationship. Loose or promiscous couple get into such in for an unserious relationship. It doesn't mean that there aren't but it isn't common. It's different up-north. Personally, I have no answer for the topic.
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WesleyanA (f)
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Because it used to be illegal (forbidden fruit). If some black men risked their lives (lynching) to be with them during the jim crow days, it makes sense that they will increasingly prefer them now that it's completely legal. lol My Nigerian friends made this clear to me. Nigerian girls are fake and they never tell the truth. Always pretend to be what they are not. They are also narcissist and dirty. Some of my female nigerian friends don't agree to marrying nigerians.
well your nigerian friend is racist/prejudiced I guess his mom and sisters are fake and dirty as well. |
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Ivvie
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Because it used to be illegal (forbidden fruit).
If some black men risked their lives (lynching) to be with them during the jim crow days, it makes sense that they will increasingly prefer them now that it's completely legal. lol
well your nigerian friend is racist/prejudiced
I guess his mom and sisters are fake and dirty as well.
Do not go around insulting people that you don't know. If you respect your parents and siblings, you won't go insulting others. When people conclude nigerians are rude, you prove them right everytime you manifest their conclusions. They may be racists in your own mind, I believe they spoke the truth and there's plenty more to it too. Hearing the same testimony from more than 15 people should have a degree of truth in it. Well, the thread is under Racism, Tribalism and Secretianism. That is why this opinion is open and clear on this thread. If the thread chooses to be sexists, no one should criticise. It was their opinion and I take it as true to a far degree of truth. They are entitled to their opinions and I respect them for that. The generalisation was with respect to nigerian girls and not blacks in general. Do you know the reason behind marriage certificates? Who told you blacks risked their lives to be with female blacks? ROOTS doesn't depict the old times as it was. If you are basing your understanding on that, then you're so not , |
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Hero (m)
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Perhaps the starter of the thread should of said African guys and not Black guys, because when it comes to African-Americans that far from the case. Other than a fling-thing once or twice if at all, the vast majority of African-American guys place white chicks as a last place preference along side Asian girls when it comes to a longstanding relationship. Most of us Black-Americans aren't really all that in to the looks and mannerisms of most white folks.
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almondjoy (f)
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Nobody really cares. Happiness is where you find it.
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Hero (m)
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correction; perhaps you may not care, and you aren't everyone to assume that everyone thinks as you do. Based on my life experience (and I can assure you that my life experience has been multiple time more intercultural and racial as yours) many more people actual do care about such distinctions and live their life by it, weather consciously and or subconsciously so, just interethnic/tribal are in Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
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almondjoy (f)
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Well, like you said--it is just my opinion. You have your principles to guide yours. Let others marry and date eskimos or appalachians if it pleases them. Let others be! Most people I know shoot for collective intergration of all peoples--which is healthy. You Hero, on the other hand are still in this "nation of Farrakhan" teaching boondox! I wish you well brov!
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dudu-bobo
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integration my yansh
u are trying to integrate with people whose only sign of a desire to integrate is in words and never in deed?
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almondjoy (f)
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whether you like it or not--the world is a becoming a "melting pot". Cannot do anything to stop it. Glad you know we can only speak for ourselves and not for others. People are free to make their own choices. Deal with yours for I am sure you have a full plate. Do not worry about others.
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Siena (m)
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Because it used to be illegal (forbidden fruit).
If some black men risked their lives (lynching) to be with them during the jim crow days, it makes sense that they will increasingly prefer them now that it's completely legal. lol
well your nigerian friend is racist/prejudiced
I guess his mom and sisters are fake and dirty as well.
Why insult a poster's parents / siblings? They're not even posting on here! *sighs* |
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Ivvie
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That was just so-o wrong.
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younghoodi (m)
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not really,the black people i know like to marry dominicans the people from dominican republic are hot i wish my wife is from there.
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n-guage (m)
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I really don't understand this topic. You must back up your statements with a good reference. Your son is just 1/1,000,000,000 black men in this world. I don't prefer white girls and I don't prefer Dominicans either(a lot of them live in Yonkers.)
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younghoodi (m)
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dominicans are pretty for real.
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Hero (m)
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 You say Dominicans, like they're a whole nother race of people when most are nothing more than a bunch of Spanish speaking blacks. Slutty ones at that.
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almondjoy (f)
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You say Dominicans, like they're a whole nother race of people when most are nothing more than a bunch of Spanish speaking blacks. Slutty ones at that. Hnmmm! Please what race can they be classified under? |
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Hero (m)
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Hnmmm! Please what race can they be classified under?
I find it sad that you even had the need to ask such a question. To be Dominican is a NATIONALISTIC term, not a RACIAL same as the situation is with the term American. When you say Americans do you think of one particular race in doing so? I hope you are bright enough to at least know not to answer in the affirmative in regards to this question, and thus I will go on to say that, in the same way that you hopefully don't think of any one particular race in regards to the title of American, you should do the same with Dominicans in that there are strait Negro ones, white ones, Asian ones and more and then there are those who are generationally mixed like many Americans are, though the MAJORITY of them are BLACKS with generational mixture comparable to that of African-Americans. |
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naija_diva (f)
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most spanish people especially those in caribbean sea are black. once you have a drop of black in you, you are black. also some of them are original native americans that just speak spanish and they consider themselves spanish. spanish people are never, and will never be white unless they are the real espaniards from spain.
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chiogo (f)
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Hnmmm! Please what race can they be classified under?
Hispanic. over here, they're called spanish 'cause they speak spanish and were colonized probably by spain but d real spanish folks are people from spain. dominicans and puerto-ricans are hispanic.well, i call them spanish too, what do i do, that's what they're called. just like they think "african" is a language. haha
Most dominicans look like black for real, d ones at my school have dark skin but puerto-ricans always have the pale skin. They are "hot" and whatnot just 'cause of their curly hair,that's d only thin' i like about them. i know some really ugly "spanish" folks at my school, so not all of 'em are hot.
@topic, u're right, that applies to african-american dudes not black in general 'cause they're d main blacks anywayz. That's exactly why i can't marry an AA dude. he'll leave your ass for a white girl after usin' their AA girls. i wonder if they think white people are classier or what just 'cause they're white?/ now, that's mental slavery on your own people. anywayz, that's AA girls' problem. |
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younghoodi (m)
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dominicans are still the best,my girl is from the p-r but she ain't got nothing on girls from the d-r them chicks are maaaaaaaaaad horny too,I don't like puerto-ricans at all niggas are mad anoying they talk too much.
@CHIOGO:I HAVE SEEN A HOLE BUNCH OF DOMINICANS MOST OF THEM ARE BLACK AND THAT'S WHY I THINK THEIR PRETTY,I KNOW A COUPLE DOMINICAN BLOODS THAT LIVE ON UPTOWN HARLEM THEY ALL BLACK.
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chiogo (f)
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yeah, your chick looked puerto-rican to me too, idk, i can differentiate between them, PR got white, pale skin but DR got yellow skin.They're prettier than PR.that's what i noticed.
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younghoodi (m)
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yePPPPPPP now u know dr rocks and they mad sexy too see me on the block doing that solja boy they be like papito tranquilo i be like me tranquilo?kogno.
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raphy (m)
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hi all1 as 4 d topic i think white girls knows how 2take care of a man than black girls  white girls are always clean n sexy ;)they know d meanin of true love |
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