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Shosvegas (m)
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Please nigerians I need your advice on my girl that had too hot temper and i'm tired of her, everyday I'm correcting her on one thing, and we been dating for years i don't know what to do anytime she got an angry she dosnt mind her speech wit me at all, the one she did last, we are arguing on one thing next thing she said was that i should go to hell. and thereafter she will be beging me. should i forgive her or what.? please help, this is the girl that i love wit all my heart wil been dating when she was a kid for years.
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angola_g (m)
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@Poster
Have you tried talking her out?If not do and tell her that her recent atitude is making you sick.Though be polite when you tell her this but don't pick quarrels.But if after these she persist then I sense she could be tired with the relationship gurls act like that some times when they fedup with rlaships .So talk her out nd tell her u are not finding her atitude funny.
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iice (f)
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Pray tell what has virginity got to do with your post? 
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tpia
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Pray tell what has virginity got to do with your post? thank you o. sounds like females are now automatically divided into virgin and non virgin these days. maybe I should put something like "Guaranteed Virgin" in front of my name, mba? |
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debosky (m)
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maybe some people believe virgins are stubborn, so he is expecting us to say 'ah! no wonder! its because she is a virgin, disvirgin her and she will become putty in your hands'Seun should an the word virgin from nairaland for a week, make we hear word! I no know that they can guarantee virginity o!  by tomorrow afternoon someone will have posted a thread 'How can I Confirm/Identify a Guaranteed Virgin?' |
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olanajim (m)
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I think, he is relishing the joy of meeting a virgin. He believes virginity is absolute purity, both sexual and moral so he got stuck to his precious catch.
His mindset go like someone who believes virgin can't be morally corupted. That is a great error!
@ poser, a temperamental lady (perharps you'd exaggerated her action) is a dangerous creature. If you can't cope with her during this period, I think you should think deeply before marrying her. Your home would be on fire. I bet she would be jealous type too. If my thinking is correct, do something now before it is too late. Dialogue, sensible communication, persuasion, You need it all.
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Hazel-eyed (f)
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maybe some people believe virgins are stubborn, so he is expecting us to say 'ah! no wonder! its because she is a virgin, disvirgin her and she will become putty in your hands'Seun should an the word virgin from nairaland for a week, make we hear word! I no know that they can guarantee virginity o! by tomorrow afternoon someone will have posted a thread 'How can I Confirm/Identify a Guaranteed Virgin?' THANK YOU OOO |
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dezhi (m)
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I think you better forget about this girl before its too late. used to have a girlfriend like that, though not a virgin but she always wants to be the one thats right at all times. she never wants to lose an argument, i think ladies like this have some complex of been dominated, so guy you better face the facts and leave this girl for someone else it has nothing to do with virginity.Its her nature, except you want to endure, Goodluck.
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iice (f)
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sounds like females are now automatically divided into virgin and non virgin these days.
It would seem so from the various threads popping up on the land |
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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maybe you really should go to hell. Na "go to hell" that pain you so? I swear some guys are mere babies. lmao. tpia, it's becoming quite embarrassing really. |
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tnaidaR (f)
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lmaowhatever dude!
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crazykid (m)
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Now I can’t call what you just explained love. A girl who uses bad and abusive words on her man isn’t the ideal girl for marriage. I mean why force yourself on her if she doesn’t give you the kind of respect you need?
Most guys get themselves emotionally trapped to someone who doesn’t even give a damm about and they claim they’re in love. Don’t be one of them. The girl is already showing you signs of rudeness all you have to do is to keep your eyes open.
If it’s because of her virginity that is keeping that relationship, then find a way to deflower her. You’re a guy do it and go your way. He he he no be me talk am o!
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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I used to have some respect for you before crazykid, now I know you're merely a dog.  omo jati jati ekeji aja. |
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iice (f)
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Most guys get themselves emotionally trapped to someone who doesn’t even give a damm about and they claim they’re in love.
My sentiments exactly |
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tnaidaR (f)
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I mean why force yourself on her if she doesn’t give you the kind of respect you need?
More like the kind of respect that he deserves  . Guys tend to want stupid "respect" from ladies |
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crazykid (m)
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@Theifofhearts.
Am only giving him a piece of advice. Don't get me wrong; that girl doesn't love him. And we all know that so why should he keep the relationship? I mean it's not worth it.
That's why I recommended that he uses plan B which would be of great interest for him even if the girl leaves.
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olanajim (m)
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I recommend he start flirting small small if the lady keep flaring her flaming temper. She would see the handwritting on the wall. She either lose you or lose out.
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presido1
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Disvirgin her the temper go cool down instanta. Once done next time when she wants to talk to you she will first check how much remain for her air time.
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olanajim (m)
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Presido, that is too harsh oo. Irreparable damage.
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$$Rhino
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i will advice to stay with her, i will only advice you to let her go when she is being violent,
Anytime, she says Go to hell, tell her that you wil go to hell, as long as she will go with you, and i am sure she will laff, if she say u are stupid, tell her only a stupid man could be with you, just try and be the peace keeper,
Do u say, she is a virgin? i am sure by the time she started getting lukcy, she will be less frustrated,
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olanajim (m)
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$$Rhino was right. Why not try from there before you call it quit? It is a step by step process.
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dezhi (m)
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michelin89 you are a real Ishan chickk,  |
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moondust (m)
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well it appears u're her opposite in temperament otherwise u would've dumped her ass. opposites attract, so there's a chance it'l still work between u two
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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crazykid, your plan B is freaking gross and disrespectful. If he can't deal with her, he should leave. telling him to sleep with her and run is idiotic and immature.
Rhino, I like you jare. your examples of how he should reply her outbursts are definitely the way a cool and confident person would.
all these babies sha, shio
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hot chic (f)
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My sincere advice,is that you should ignore the fact that she is a virgin and be straight,don't let that be an issue in deciding,
Has she been doing this tsuffs before and you ignored it or she just started,if she just started putting up this attitude,then she might be tired of this relationship or you are doing sumfin wrong and that's the way she can revenge or something,
If she has been doing it before and you have ignored it,i think its high time you let her know that you don't like it and you will like her to stop it,
Either way,you need to talk to her about it and listen attentively before you make your decision.All the best,
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hot chic (f)
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One more thing,don't disvirgin her in that faith.
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crazykid (m)
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crazykid, your plan B is freaking gross and disrespectful. If he can't deal with her, he should leaving. telling him to sleep with her and run is idiotic and immature.
Alright end of argument. I shouldn't have said that. Are you satisified now? |
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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No. The fact you would even suggest such says alot  |
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salsera (f)
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i suppose his statement about her being virgin is just to say that
since she's a virgin he would not want to let her go as par virgin na scarce commodity
I have no gripe with virginity its male hypocrisy that i have probs with.
Anyways
about this matter
She obviously has a quick mouth, I doubt it has anything to do with whether she loves you
With family and friends insults dey fly anyhow she just needs to control her tongue because she's using it as a weapon to hurt people.
Break up with her, let her see what she can lose when she doesn't bridle her tongue
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ThiefOfHearts (f)
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and hopefully she will find a better guy during this breakup that isnt so childish.
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