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nikinash (f)
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If my wife to be can't cook, I will send her to catherine school! why catherine and not ngozi?  cooking is very easy, any woman who wants to retain her man will learn because lets face it you can't eat out every day and somedays you really want to be by yourselves in the house so the cook thing may not owrk plus my man just has not had a proper meal until he eats mine  |
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ocho (f)
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If my wife to be can't cook, I will send her to catherine school! why catherine and not ngozi? lol lol |
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pluto04 (m)
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I can eat anything in as much as it is not salty. That my wife will not like cooking at all, not even occasionally? That one no go work o! Cooking is not as important as love in marriage but it sure is one the things that keeps it going. If she doesn't know how to cook, then she must be ready to learn. I'll be very happy to teach her. I won't buy it if she says she doesn't want to cook at all. Make she make bad meal. We go chop am like that.
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Free (f)
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If she doesn't know how to cook, then she must be ready to learn. I'll be very happy to teach her. why all you guys sayin i will be happy to teach her, so all ya'll know how to cook??? am guessing!!! |
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nikinash (f)
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why all you guys sayin i will be happy to teach her,
so all ya'll know how to cook??? am guessing!!! my husband cooks and my father taught me how to make amala |
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asanga (m)
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I will take her to my mum who is one of the best cooks around and we will live happily ever after.
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Free (f)
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I will take her to my mum who is one of the best cooks around and we will live happily ever after. da end!!!  |
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Seun (m)
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That will be the beginning of trouble, because your mom will make the wife feel so worthless because she can't cook so well, and at the end of the day she will move in with you and drive away your wife!
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Skidoc (m)
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There is no skill that cannot be learnt except if the learner is not willing to. I will simply teach her because me, myself and I am a good cook.  Ladies, I invite you to my house for a treat and you will bite your tongues. |
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luridguy (m)
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That will be the beginning of trouble, because your mom will make the wife feel so worthless because she can't cook so well, and at the end of the day she will move in with you and drive away your wife!
 how now, what kind of mother is that , then ill send her to her own mother at least her mother will know how to cook by the way is there any lady , woman, female or mother in nairaland who cannot cook  talk now so we can give you online cooking lessons  |
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Skidoc (m)
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Yeah you better talk. I the naughty chef will teach you some skills. While you are learning how to cook, we can also open the door to the next place beside my kitchen to learn some bedmatic skills.
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ocho (f)
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kaiiiiii!!!!! |
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Queenzy (f)
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cheiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii |
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raldsfield (m)
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Well it is simple, good food will bring your man home.
So wifey go to ebay and get a cooking book, i want my wife's food
to taste different from the one i, my mother, my sisters cook oh. she needs her own style.
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Seun (m)
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Well I think I am tired of meeting women whose education really doesn't go much beyond the kitchen. I want to meet finance ministers now. |
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ocho (f)
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useless?  c'mon now!
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Dark_Night (m)
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Well - she will learn as i will teach her, I don't think its too big a deal, unless she no wan learn, na there yawa go start. |
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Fimmy (m)
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well if she can't cook then i do the cooking and she simply learn from me
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IAH (f)
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Dozie, na wa for you o. I'm not surprised sha because your name says it all. I already know that's how you guys from that side think towards women. |
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IAH (f)
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Seun, I feel you but I believe there are still very intelligent and ambitious young women who still understand the simple principle - make your husband happy.
And one of those ways is to provide good meals for the family, it is just a natural process that can't be over-emphasised. I don't fault your philosophy about eating out and having chefs, but you will need more than chefs when your wife can't cook - I am sure she also won't know other things and you will need a housegirl which in itself is a risk. Housegirls lure husbands, though some don't fall for the trick but they can also be bad influence on the kids. I prefer my house to be strictly me and my nuclear family. And do you think men are that lazy - no some of us are domesticated and believe me if we also want to leave our responsibilities like making sure power supply is in the house, keeping the lawn mowed, fixing all sorts of things, then we will have to hire a retinue of workers in the house.
For me, I will marry an intelligent, goal-getting babe who is also domesticated and I will make sure I help her in chores and do mine too. Some things are for men to fix in the house, period! Wow! Hayo is a nice man! |
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Seun (m)
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My problem with most "intelligent and goal getting babes" is that with all their education the only goals they have are:
- To look good so men can admire them.
- To get married to a succesful man.
- To have children for the successful man.
- To cook food for this successful man.
- To take care of the house and children for the successful man.
- To regularly manipulate the successful man into helping her with this boring, boring dry ambitions!
I'm asleep.
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kimba (m)
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if my wife-to-be-can't-cook, that wont be a problem to me, u know the days when a food-cookable wife is necessity is major requirement is far spent and gone.
with the presence of Mr Biggs and a few others, fast-food for me is the order of the day. of course, i need to have the money anyway.
On the other hand, i think my wife will love me more if i teach her how to cook, especiallly the fact that I'm a professional in egunsi soup.
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DivineOke (f)
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Seun,
U be correct guy. I dey trip 4 ur philosophy. keep it up
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love11
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I can cook, i'm a Nigeria girl who can cook very good.
If a woman can't cook is not good. example your husband or boyfriend came home for work he willing to eat something, and you tell you can't cook sad.
I think any woman that can't cook should learn for mom or go to cooking school. With this your man will love you more.
Very women should cook in their homes.
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Free (f)
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Very women should cook in their homes. tell it ma sista |
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kajad (m)
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i go marry all of una wey sabi cook! i got enough love to go round! |
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buckeye (m)
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for me oo, i cann cook but i don't like to cook, so if my wife to be can't cook at least she, should be willing to learn, if not, na yawa oo. with the presence of Mr Biggs and a few others, fast-food for me is the order of the day. of course, i need to have the money anyway.
i dey pity u while shaking my head |
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Grizzly (m)
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My dad cooks as good as, if not better than my mum
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