My Boyfriend Still Has Feelings For His Ex

hey girl if you mess ur man well well he no go look at the ex girl again believe me my girl keep talking about his exboy 2 but when i mess her like 4 times in a day she give up ) everyone if u need more addvise send me mail to felix_weah02@yahoo.com my way of advise people no be for mouth na God gift

hey girl if you mess your man well well he no go look at the ex girl again believe me my girl keep talking about his exboy 2 but when i mess her like 4 times in a day she give up ) everyone if u need more addvise send me mail to felix_weah02@yahoo.com my way of advise people no be for mouth na God gift

Ouuuch!

I think your boyfriend still loves you and that is why he summoned the courage to tell you about his ex- so give him a chance and cheer up :

hey girl, i read ur story and facing facts ders notin like he has found out "he has rily strong feelings for u since he started telling his ex about u" n he still has feelings for his ex?,  doesnt mk sense 2 me, its eida he wants u or her,  let him tk his pick,  its difrent when ur second best unknowingly than when u knw that ur second best n ur com4table wit it,  C'mon girl, 

  the only thing i think you can do is to let him know that you love with all ur heart,
and also try and do thing that make him to forget his ex. because in as much as you don't treat him right
he will still be having or even remembering the thought of his ex. which might even leads to having feeling to his ex. the real truth is this
make sure you treat him right to extent that he will forget the past feeling between him and his ex. thankx\

Well, it happen some time when we feel for our past love. For ur gay to hv told u that it mean he love you. just seat him down and talk to him in a language he undrstnd. And try to kwn ur bearing in his heart, that will also help u to kwn if he love u more them his ex-g. Not to quite because u might still win his heart.

Sorry about that but that was the best for u.
U know what, he probably needed you for some time anyway.
What u need to do is forget about him he doesnt deserve u even for a second.
As far as am concerned he never liked u,he was just been intelligent enough to work on ur emotions and predict who u r and ow he can dish u in all ramification.
He was not been truthful at the instance but feels u worth more he does so he decided to voice out to u.
Anyway forget him and move ahead .
If u still feel for him,please occupy ur time with lots of work load and stress yourself such that within one month hes out of ur mind completely.
don't give room to be alone get ur friends,outings and read books on relationship and woman empowerment books that will prove ur worth for u.
Build on yourself and u will find flock of men at ur doorpost because u r very confident and don't care if they exist
Cheer up and remain good but prayerful
Byeeeeeeee

Gurlfrnd, truth is this, we people knw how to make noise n say leav him, dump him, u deserve mor n crap like that, but when we r faced with d same thing we can't or  wouldnt just walk away. i want to believe u love this guy, its gd u talked about it so it to make u feel better but deep inside u u knw what to do, u guys can work it out, ur d one in d drivers seat not d ex ok, when ur no longer der ul knw n u wouldnt need anyone to tell u to leav.
all d best.

hi,Real love is not just something we feel.It is characterized and defined by action not sentiment and i believe that  the first step toward loving anyone is to take in knowledge of that one.

What's with all these "EXs" ? So hard to let go, huh? 

Amabel, you had better leave now before he says things you never want to hear.

Case 1: Telling you that might be a stunt to avoid u suspecting that his still seeing his ex.
Case 2: he loves you so much that he can't lies to you.
Case 3: He is considering leaving you!

All 3 cases have 2 things in common 1.he is still attached to her.  2.You have a direct and strong competition

Questions to be answered:
How far had they gone before the y broke up,? why did they break u? why can't they come back together? ^{If he should be able to tell you all that.}
Then
What does he plan to do about the feeling ^{(love or lust)}

Frankly tell him your stand. If he's response to that  doesn't sound convincing enough then stay preparing your bags. If he is being real and has or _{had hopefully} a strong past with the babe he would fall on her laps easily _{even when he doesn't mean to}.

DON'T:
            Try to force out of the idea *u will become the enemy
            Start to compete with the girl *she would outshine u if they had more good times than u currently have
            Try to use any form of reverse psychology like "i don't care" * he will believe and act on that.
            Hold on too tight * so you don't fall too hard

You really don't have a solid  reason to leave him yet.--Watch, pray, and be prepared basically. 
"Hearts" games are not controllable more so, the ball is in his court not yours!











_{Where did all that come from?}
 

Yea I used to do the same but I've been working on it. It's a horrid tendency.  All in the name of "not wanting to hurt the other person's feelings" while staying in an unsatisfying relationship. TOH comes first now 

As well as what kind of girls you hang around? 

@TOF
Nice hair! you look nice.

Yeah i'm starting to work on that problem too, putting others ahead of me needs to stop. I also tend to force my self to feel things that are not there. Sometimes i say things with hope that i'll start feeling it sooner or later. I need to let things have their natural progression. I honestly wasn't feeling this guy like that but WAS WILLING to MAKE myself feel something.

Mostly the case. It almost never works out. Move on.