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shockreaction (m)
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maybe she does but she just doesn't like to speak it out,where i live there is a concept that if you tell a boy i love you he'll become to proud and mistreat you,maybe she also has the same concept What the F u c k?! @OP: Maybe she just "really likes you", not "love", talk to her about it. Communication is essential to all sorts of relationships. |
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Chxta (m)
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I have/had a similar problem, and I talked to my mother about . She said, follow your instincts. If your mind tells you that she really loves you, then she does. Just be patient. There are no rules in the love game, and that she doesn't say I love you doesn't mean that she doesn't.
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SweetItua
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Cherish
How long have u being with ur girlfriend and how many times u told her u love her . Do u know man come first to tell their woman he love her, before the will say it back to the man.
u said something that is not right as a Africa man, u said this three word I LOVE U is not for Africa because love doest exist in Africa. well I don't know what part of Africa u came from, in Africa I came from Know love exist. Are u a ghetto man.
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okewole (m)
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I am not taking about my girlfriend here but my wife,she is not use to saying "I LOVE U" but she is best of everything ve ever met and loved,she loved me the most .
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Queenzy (f)
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wow
thats nice
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nightrider
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The truth is women can't hold themselves back, Once they love you they'll say it. If they don't say it then they don't love you. They probably like you very very very very much.
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jayvinnie (m)
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she is wait for u to tell her you love her
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beyonce1 (f)
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I am a lady who believes you must mean it when you say " I love U " from my personal experiences I've dated guys with an average of 2yrs each and never said those three words , While I only dated one in a shorter period and actually did, you really need to reach into her to know what she actually feels about you , mind you a girl's heart is mostly the deepest, so' people say,
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cabali (m)
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thats not true, the girls heart is as deep as paper, and i maintain, a guy should not expect the girl to say it, i don't because i prefer it in action, if the actions are right fcuk the words and thats it!
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stormz (m)
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FOOL!WULD U RATHER SHE SED IT N NOT MEAN IT!?!?!?!?
well she'll say it when she feels d time is rite, n if she thinks ur ready to hear it
sumtyms us guys think we want our girls to love us but sumtyms we hear it n we get scared,
n d fact that ur questionin her feelings for u tells me ur not ready to hear it because u'll take her for granted
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cabali (m)
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FOOL!WULD U RATHER SHE SED IT N NOT MEAN IT!?!?!?!?
well she'll say it when she feels d time is rite, n if she thinks your ready to hear it
sumtyms us boys think we want our girls to love us but sumtyms we hear it n we get scared,
n d fact that your questionin her feelings for u tells me your not ready to hear it because u'll take her for granted
this is not talking from experience, what do u mean the guy is not ready, the girl can't say it means she does not love him, simple! what will make a guy ready to get it? rubbish, if ur own girl doesnt say it to u, u wont say this post out to yourself would u? |
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Fluffy (f)
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Nowadays men say I LOVE U even if they don't mean it, just to get a girl in the sack.  So why should we girls even bother to say I love u ?  So I say a guy has to see for himself wether I love him or not and I will only say it to ,my husband one day and if he says it to me I will know he means it. Some people even start saying I love you after dating for just a week!!?!!?!?!?!  that can'y be real. |
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raldsfield (m)
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Well love is love. that is what i will always say. My girl friend tells me she loves me but she doesn't mean it. There no passion in her voice when she says it. Whenever she says it, I tell her she doesn't mean it. I have had people love me, they didn't to say it for me to know. MY girlfriend now is something else, I confused her being nice for being in love with me. Now am hooked. The Guy wey dey look for chic wey go tell am I Love you can you come to my rescue. You go hear I Love run.  |
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Rhodalyn (f)
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why don't you break up with your girl then when you know she doesnt love you i mean i guess it hurts to know she doesnt love you and that she only says it for saying sake  |
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raldsfield (m)
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She is in Nigeria, am here. i do not seen her, but i feel things are wrong.
she just sent me a text saying she is missing me. But i don't believe her. i don't
want to hurt her, don't know if she will be hurt. I just want to give her time to
break the relationship herself. I have bad history in breaking up.
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venice (f)
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@Queenzy
i agree with u, action speaks louder than words, if you feel it deep down inside of you and you show it, i don't thing u have a reason to say it everyday.
Cause in anycase *LOVE* is just a word, a word that anyone can shout out to you on the street, but the point is there has to be a meaning!
Chau!
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venice (f)
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@Fluffy Hi, i can see u are also from Namibia, it's really great to see that Namibians are taking part in activities, like the Nairaland, welcome on board fluff, i think we'll work great together as a team! from which part of Namibia are u, i'm from Windhoek!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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seunmii (m)
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women are led by their feelings no matter what.some have learnt to say it the "guys" way and some still keep those word sacred.
whatever,insecurity is what is runing in their blood.i think you have a girlfriend that is being sincere to Umayb your girlfriend still don't feel secured in your love.do what really makes her feel loved and let her know those words frm her would mean this much to you, but be smart.
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Fluffy (f)
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@ Venice Hi I'm from Swakopmund. I accidently came across Nairaland while searching for more information about my favourite sopie, and still loving it here.  |
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cabali (m)
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this has now evolved into a waste of thread.! we have all said things in circles
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whoknoxluv (m)
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I have been through this experience before but i will love to say that after i understand the reason 4 keeping it to herself i wish a lady never tell me this because as a man you will misbehave when you hear these very expensive words
but once in a big gap a lady shld express this it is important
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stormz (m)
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cabali, ive had a girl tell me i love u 64 tyms a day, n guess what? turn out she was seein someone else so if u wana talk about xperience, u beta think twice
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raldsfield (m)
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Infact when a girl says she loves you. Find out what she loves about you, maybe it not really you, if you know what I mean. A girl say I love you 63 times a day to you, I don't think she is missing words. She knows what she is saying. Still trying to figure out why my girl was saying she loves me. |
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Kave (m)
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Hey gee.I had d same prob. I almost broke up wit my girl but i came to realise i should just give her time.2me she was just been childish.And d day she told me i was floatin i mean i cud sense that sincerity in her voice."distance lag/jos
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eveseh (f)
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she don't loves you,case cloes,lol |
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jayvinnie (m)
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If your girlfriend loves you, I think you'll know irrespective of wether or not she tells you.
I think, if you tell your girl that you love and she is unable to come back with a rejoinder telling you she loves u, then she probably doesn't love you. If the rejoinder "I love you too comes", it still doesn't mean she loves you, but looking at her eyes. The easiest way to find out is to ask her. You'll get your answer from the reply+tone+expression+body language and these four are not mutually exclusive.
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babymine (f)
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Maybe she has other ways of saying it. |
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allonym
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Perhaps that is why she is still your girlfriend. I did not know it was a requirement that a girlfriend "love" her boyfriend.
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jojoe2000 (m)
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d phrase means nothin to me.u know we lie bout a lot of tins  i bliv her reactions toward me will says it all. |
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