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k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #160 on: August 22, 2007, 07:17 PM »

Quote from: PTBNaija on August 22, 2007, 07:14 PM
Hahawhat does my virginity have to do with anything on this thread? Is it on trial now? Cheesy Besides, whether I am or am not, I would/have never lied about it.

Anywaysback to the topicand staying on topic.
what's hahaha answer the allegations stop curling. your virginity i'm sure drives your response, that's why you're getting irritated and emotional talking about vendetta.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #161 on: August 22, 2007, 07:19 PM »

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I see why they feel the need to lie yes, it's because they can't break the chain of living in fear in this male-dominated society

So you do get it, that's good.

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but nevertheless, you cannot deny the strong effect acceptance and approval of society has on our behavior as human beings.

It is neither justified nor acceptable, but it is understandable, due to the warped thinking of both men and women, and a general hypocrisy when it comes to such as issue as this in Nigerian society/circles in general.

Here's hoping he has finally gotten it now that a fellow male has replied.

kobe, please promise me that you will now be done with this whole topic. I don't even want to see you type out the "v-word" anymore.
tnaidaR (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #162 on: August 22, 2007, 07:20 PM »

Quote from: k0be on August 22, 2007, 07:16 PM
aww,  Cry Cry you actually took the liberty of replying, I never thought I'd see this day. the ones that have been lying are fake chics that fear men?
radiant, it's girls like you i'd like to meet. i like your idgf attitude.

And what would have stopped me fom replying if not banned?
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #163 on: August 22, 2007, 07:21 PM »

k0behow old are you that you are acting so immature? So that when anyone responds you have to attack them with completely unfounded nonsense. So anyone that has responded is a fake chick that fears men. That's interesting, from what I see why would replying in this thread mean that we fear men?

Anywayswhat about you. You obviously have a reason for starting this thread because it did not come from nowhere. What gives you the impression that all girls (which official implies) lie about it.
Jackal (m)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #164 on: August 22, 2007, 07:25 PM »

@ k0be,

Why do u keep beating a dead horse?
In this manner i can stake ma mortgage that u got played by a fake Virgin.
************************************************************
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I can play it in me head.
U met this girl, She told u she was a V and u believed.
because u believed her, u couldnt touch as the both of u were waiting for the appoited wedding night.
Somewhere along the line . . . . The girl met a playa who was shagging her brains out while u were thinking ur babe is still CHASTE.
You found out about the covert kizzack and all HELL broke loose. Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Get over it, son.  U win some. ,  . . . . . U lose some.
please do me a favour, lay off these gurls . . . . .they have not LIED to u they are what they are not.
Stop this bickerings and ur multiple erections for VIRGINS For mess's Sake . . . . . .
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #165 on: August 22, 2007, 07:25 PM »

kobe, you're now becoming nasty and disrepectful. What's the bullshit you're yarning to PTB? wetin concern you with her personal business?

"I bet you;re not even a virgin, how the hell do you know and how is it any of your own business, what does that have to do with the dicussion. you're acting exactly like the small minded morons of NL. They think they know the game of reverse psychology when they don't know jackshit.

sho ri pe o ti bimi ninu now.
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #166 on: August 22, 2007, 07:26 PM »

ptb, what's with your wayward statements. . . acting immature, having vendetta, tic tac toe, stay on topic, stop digressing will you. provide my unfounded nonsense please? while you're at it provide where I stated that your replying in this thread means you fear men? you see, if anyone is making unfounded statements, it is you because you have not much else to say.

with that said, you still have not answered my question.  did you happen to have lost your virginity and it upsets you that you will have to lie about it to your potential husband?

i started the thread after reading the article which followed it, does that answer your question, lmao
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #167 on: August 22, 2007, 07:28 PM »

lol toh you're so cute when you're upset. reverse psyche won't work on this thief, it's beautiful we're having this discussion because it shows just how narrow-minded our girls can be when it comes to worth.  we should refer them to radiant for some lessons on female independence

i wouldn't have gone that route with ptb until she brought up her vendetta rubbish.
herdey2tu (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #168 on: August 22, 2007, 07:29 PM »

why the holaballoo about virginity anyway?

i really enjoyed reading the different aspect of sex authoured by jackal Grin

some men just ask for it( the lies), i know a friend that enjoys having only anal sex, one of her reason is because her father/ husband would kill her if on the wedding night the tranditional white cloth does not come out crimson red! Shocked
so is she a virgin or not?
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #169 on: August 22, 2007, 07:29 PM »

ptb, please ignore him and his idiotic question. I now know that Radiant was right. Dumbo indeed.
Jackal (m)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #170 on: August 22, 2007, 07:30 PM »

Is this k0be a geezer or a chic.
Fucking Hell . . . . . Lay off this topic.
Whats ur business with anyone's hymen on a public forum.
don't turn this into anutha boxing bout . . . .Forget about it and take ur MISOGYNISTIC views out of here.
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #171 on: August 22, 2007, 07:31 PM »

You are acting immature. So because I don't agree with you, and can understand why some people lie about it, that suddenly has to do with my virginity? And now your saying that I would lie about it's presence or absence? Is that not unfounded? And your talk about us being fearful of menis that not unfounded?

And I assure you that I have plenty to saymore than just resulting to personal attacks that have nothing to do with the original purpose of the thread.
debosky (m)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #172 on: August 22, 2007, 07:31 PM »

k0be slow your roll, if she is going off topic when she mentions vendettas, you are going even more off topic by trying to pin her position on the issue down to her virgin/otherwise status. Don't let this otherwise polite and engaging discourse descend into name calling and personality bashing.

I am very confident PTB will not lie about her status, her posts only show an understanding of the woman's point of view, which you, a little arrogantly and hastily, quickly dismissed as just being 'narrow-minded' and 'nonindependent'

if you are to have an intelligent discourse you will have to admit/allow the views of others even if they are contrary to your strongly held opinions


Jackal (m)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #173 on: August 22, 2007, 07:32 PM »

Herdey2tu,

Thanx for the compliments. Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
It was a well-thought research.

The girl u know is not a VIRGIN.
She's done anal sex so she doesnt equate to a virgin.
I can say she belongs to the EXV Cat(Experimenting Virgin). Grin Grin
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #174 on: August 22, 2007, 07:32 PM »

jackal, my view is misogynistic? explain that to me i'd like to know, because i don't see where I said "women must be virgins" don't make clouded statements and expect them to fly.
now that you lots have ran out of things to say, can we start with the ad-hominems? toh already joined the game with dumbo, what else is new? didirin, oponu, ashinu, were.
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #175 on: August 22, 2007, 07:34 PM »

rolling on the floor.
Quote from: PTBNaija on August 22, 2007, 07:31 PM
You are acting immature. So because I don't agree with you, and can understand why some people lie about it, that suddenly has to do with my virginity? And now your saying that I would lie about it's presence or absence? Is that not unfounded? And your talk about us being fearful of menis that not unfounded?

And I assure you that I have plenty to saymore than just resulting to personal attacks that have nothing to do with the original purpose of the thread.
saying you would lie about its presence or absence is as good as you saying i have a vendetta against women, see it now?
being fearful of men is founded because you let them dictate your response, that is sooooo founded.
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #176 on: August 22, 2007, 07:36 PM »

keep playing victim now. You are the one that turned this discussion into personal insults.

You can't accept the fact that some people can understand why others would lie, so that means you must bash people? Did either of us say we'd lie? AGAIN just because we understand something doesnt exactly mean we agree with it or we do it ourselves. Quit being an asshole or thinking with it anyway.

shio.

were alaso ankara
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #177 on: August 22, 2007, 07:36 PM »

i know i shouldn't have asked about her virginity, I let that fly due to her personal attacks against me, but since it hurts her so much I take it back, don't cry.
Kiss
Jackal (m)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #178 on: August 22, 2007, 07:36 PM »

@ Debosky,
Thank U very much.
K0be has turned this decent discussion into a WORLD WAR.


@ k0be,

You keep missing the points like a free-throw shot.
I understand where u are coming from and all the girls here agree with u but PTB and others are only trying to highlight the reasons why women do lie about it.
It doesnt mean they support the motion but they are letting us MEN know why some women do it.
Whether this goes well with u or not is another issue but there's nothing u can do about it.
Unfortunately, even with your rantings, huffing and puffing, 1,000,000 gals are lying about their VIRGINITY at this very moment.
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #179 on: August 22, 2007, 07:38 PM »

victim of wetin jare, bullet wounds, personal attacks, what? victimization on a forum won't harm me, that's why I've stayed on topic despite you and your colleagues attempts to begin an insult-laced tirade. point remains, girls should stop lying about being virgins. nuff said. not all girls do it, although a large majority do and I can admit that.
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #180 on: August 22, 2007, 07:39 PM »

jackal, I know what the point is: some can understand why the girls would lie, and I can't understand it because it's invalid.  I guess it's because i'm living in a western society.
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #181 on: August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM »

Quote from: k0be on August 22, 2007, 07:36 PM
i know i shouldn't have asked about her virginity, I let that fly due to her personal attacks against me, but since it hurts her so much I take it back, don't cry.
 Kiss

Crying about what?  Huh  Wink

Quote from: k0be on August 22, 2007, 07:39 PM
jackal, I know what the point is: some can understand why the girls would lie, and I can't understand it because it's invalid.  I guess it's because i'm living in a western society.

Ummmk0be, you realize that Jackal, TOH and I are all living in a western society. . . Grin
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #182 on: August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM »

Yea I'm sure your rants are going to make them stop. how about you tell your brethen to stop making non-virgins feel so low with their crass names then maybe some of these girls wouldnt have to lie.


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understand where u are coming from and all the girls here agree with u but PTB and others are only trying to highlight the reasons why women do lie about it.
It doesnt mean they support the motion but they are letting us MEN know why some women do it.

So simple.
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #183 on: August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM »

toh shut up there, you're using the reverse psychology you accused me of.  did i bash people, or was I bashed? Tongue
herdey2tu (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #184 on: August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM »

Quote from: Jackal on August 22, 2007, 07:32 PM
Herdey2tu,

Thanx for the compliments. Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
It was a well-thought research.

 :)you are very welcome.

The girl u know is not a VIRGIN.
She's done anal sex so she doesnt equate to a virgin.
I can say she belongs to the EXV Cat(Experimenting Virgin). Grin Grin

well it actually depend on the husbands view of virginity u know, because the clothe actually came back crimson red! Grin

anyway this virginity noise is starting to get a tad personal, quite a couple of colourful insults
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #185 on: August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM »

ptb crying about me asking about the virginity of course, duh

toh, I see what you quoted, but you're one of those people that doesn't like the female denigration in african society, how do you expect that to change if we keep putting societal pressures on girls to be virgins?
ThiefOfHearts (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #186 on: August 22, 2007, 07:42 PM »

saying that she is not one because she says she understands them is a personal attack. You're making up lies. ie SLANDER so yea you attacked her.

In the way i would expect from the usual moronic NLer, you disappointed me, dude
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #187 on: August 22, 2007, 07:43 PM »

I'm not going to cry about some online stuffsyou don't know me, and I don't know you. Tongue
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #188 on: August 22, 2007, 07:44 PM »

that's not why i said she's not one, i wrote on the top of this page why i said she's not one. stop with the moronic comments already and exlain to me where i made up lies, i'm yet to see one.
PTBNaija (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #189 on: August 22, 2007, 07:45 PM »

Quote from: k0be on August 22, 2007, 07:40 PM
toh, I see what you quoted, but you're one of those people that doesn't like the female denigration in african society, how do you expect that to change if we keep putting societal pressures on girls to be virgins?

So are you finally admitting that there is a pressure on girls to remain virgins?
herdey2tu (f)
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #190 on: August 22, 2007, 07:45 PM »

[I understand where u are coming from and all the girls here agree with u but PTB and others are only trying to highlight the reasons why women do lie about it.
It doesnt mean they support the motion but they are letting us MEN know why some women do it.
Whether this goes well with u or not is another issue but there's nothing u can do about it.
Unfortunately, even with your rantings, huffing and puffing, 1,000,000 gals are lying about their VIRGINITY at this very moment.
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Gbamm!QED
k0be
Re: Is it Official: Girls Lie About Virginity
« #191 on: August 22, 2007, 07:45 PM »

toh see your womanly bias? you disappointed me.  like the basic hot-panted nler you refused to look at her insults towards me, you've taken her side because you agree with her views  Undecided  Cheesy
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