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k0be
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Ummmwhy would I lie about it?
Geez k0bejust because you don't agree with something doesn't mean you shouldn't understand where they are coming from. You better learn or it might happen to you i don't agree with a foolish act, and no i can't understand it. if it happens to me, I told you I would dump her, it's that simple. I don't value a girl on her Pussy. a guy you're dating asks you if you're a virgin and you lie that you're not on assumption that he needs a virgin, and you expect me to "understand" it. |
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k0be
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and please provide your reasons behind it other than "it's what society wants" maybe it's what society wants, but it's not what every guy wants, serious guys don't build their relationships on virginity. You're right. The girls that lie are just as badbut at the same time, they are only reflections of what the society is asking for. since you asked for proof. you said the girls that lie are just as bad but it's okay since that's what society is asking for. |
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PTBNaija (f)
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A girl lies because she feels that a guy likes her betterand her chances of getting married would be better. I mean, can you seriously try seeing it from both sides instead of only thinking from your point of view. I don't think it would kill you. You don't solve things by only thinking about it from one side. and please provide your reasons behind it other than "it's what society wants"
maybe it's what society wants, but it's not what every guy wants, serious guys don't build their relationships on virginity.
since you asked for proof. you said the girls that lie are just as bad but it's okay since that's what society is asking for.
Society wants a virgin girl. Check out the threads on Nairaland alone. Are they not reflective of the Nigerian society? All these guys posting that they want to marry a virgin. Or that girl that posted that "Last Virgin in Nigeria" thread. Threads about "am I still a virgin" to see if they can still lay claim to wait our society seems to think is a high priced jewel. And any thread when anyone asks for practical advice on how to deal with their boyfriend or gfsand sex. Everyone says "wait until you get married" or about how it's wrong to have sex before getting married. I forget who wrote the thread, but think back to who wrote the thread on "Is Casual Sex Good or Bad for Females." See how they crucified her for that? So tell me what do all of these threads imply? Because if the Nigerian society thinks otherwisewhy is it not reflected in the threads. Or are "all those men that think differently" deaf and dumb? And yesyou posted a quote of mine. And if you interpret it as me saying it's okay, then I'm sorry but you have mistaken. When someone says "but at the same time. . ." what does that mean to you? |
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k0be
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i hope you're not expecting me to say, it's okay, go ahead and tell him you're a virgin, he'll like you better. next time this happens, don't' go about blaming guys for objectifying women, she dumped it on herself.
i have examined it from both sides, and your best response to me is that's what society wants. a response i can't accept.
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PTBNaija (f)
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k0beyou seem to be making statements based on emotional sentiments, rather than looking at facts.
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k0be
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what facts? bring the facts. this is not an emotion laced exchange, rather one that's trying to figure out why you would say "she can lie if she thinks that's what he wants to hear."
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PTBNaija (f)
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I would be lying if I don't say that you are beginning to irritate me. I will say this and repeat it for the last time in plain and simple English so maybe hopefully you will get it this time. If you chose to keep thinking that I said something else, then I will seriously end this discussion with you because then I will know that you are not properly reading what I say. I do not agree with girls lying about their virginity. It is wrongand deceitful. And I DO NOT AGREE WITH IT!!! But I can understand why they do it.
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k0be
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lol so it is you who is becoming emotional but you accused me of it? just calm down it's an open conversation, don't get too emotional. you can take your leave if you can't keep going. there's usually a reason behind every lie, i know this.
i'm not saying you should never lie, that would mean i'm being unrealistic, but if you want to lie determine which lies are worth it. if you tell your man you're a virgin will you stand by that lie for as long as you both shall live? if you reveal the truth and he leaves you, then you deserve it.
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PTBNaija (f)
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lol so it is you who is becoming emotional but you accused me of it? just calm down it's an open conversation, don't get too emotional. you can take your leave if you can't keep going. there's usually a reason behind every lie, i know this.
I was not getting emotional, I was getting irritated at you saying things I didn't say.
i'm not saying you should never lie, that would mean i'm being unrealistic, but if you want to lie determine which lies are worth it. if you tell your man you're a virgin will you stand by that lie for as long as you both shall live? if you reveal the truth and he leaves you, then you deserve it.
Finally something I can agree with  |
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k0be
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irritation occurs as a consequence of a particular emotion you were feeling. now don't bring up skin irritation, that's different. I was not getting emotional, I was getting irritated at you saying things I didn't say. Finally something I can agree with lol, |
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PTBNaija (f)
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irritation occurs as a consequence of a particular emotion you were feeling. now don't bring up skin irritation, that's different. ;Dlol, Ohhhyou want to talk cause and effect again now?  |
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acidrop (f)
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well just for d records, sometimes i do lie about my virginity, especcially when am with my friends at the club, i tell them that am not, while i still am
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Jackal (m)
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@ acidrop, Oooooooops. . , . . . . . . . , .Thats STRANGE. Thats a reverse schitzo. But what CAT are ya? |
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acidrop (f)
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shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii t, what da heck is that on ur profile
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Jackal (m)
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@ acidrop,
Thats a LIGER.
Some idiots crossed a LION and a TIGER to produce that CAT.
Weighs 1000 pounds plus it stands 12 ft . . . , . . . . . . . . . . How sick is that?
Anyways . . . . . . . . . . . .u didnt answer ma question.
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acidrop (f)
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woow, maybe i should croos gorilla with human beign and c what will happen, lol
what was that ur question again sef?
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Jackal (m)
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Haha
Now u r trying to be evasive.
If u go to the 1st page . . . . . . .I listed the many categories of Vs
So what category would u say u are?
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acidrop (f)
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can u summarise it again please
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Jackal (m)
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U know what . . . . . . . . . . . . . I will assume instead of summarising. U are erm, erm, erm, the EXV Category.  |
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acidrop (f)
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since i don't even know what that means, i wont argue with u, but it is not wise to assume, don't u think?
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Jackal (m)
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Go to the 1st page and read. Sometimes we humans don't have a choice than to assume. When other options seem to be in a log-jam u have to assume and forge ahead. I might not be accurate but i am sure i would be close. Go to page 1 and read the EXV Cat type. |
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acidrop (f)
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EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW, u are soooooooo wrong  , u know am out of here, datz the biggest insult i have heard 4 today |
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shakira
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@acid
have u ever been to a club?
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acidrop (f)
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yesss, y? aint into that shit bro, i know it 4 sure. but u can believe whatever u want to, i aint gonn try to convince u, datz 4 d try hard wannabez peeps |
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Jackal (m)
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@ acidrop,
Its all good.
Better to be evasive than lie needlessly.
My biggest pet peeve is chics that lie when they don't even need to.
It makes me want to PUKE.
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acidrop (f)
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DDDDDDDDUDE, me arguing is not a lie, i just don't argue, if there is any liar here its u, abeg waka sef, i no get time for peeps like u, who come here 2 judge whitout precednce
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shakira
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DDDDDDDDUDE, me arguing is not a lie, i just don't argue, if there is any liar here its u, abeg waka sef, i no get time for peeps like u, who come here 2 judge whitout precednce
u still never answer my question,,between no mind the dude, his profile name is the real definition of his personalty |
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Jackal (m)
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C'mon. . . . . . . . . . . . . .Read between the lines.
I said i prefer your option of being evasive than to LIE needlessly.
Babes, i didn't accuse u of lying. Dayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyum.
Why would i say u are lying when i don't even know you?
Nairaland can be something else sometimes.
@Shakira,
Why don't u shut ur stinking mouth?
When did u become acidrop's loudspeakers?
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acidrop (f)
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but y did u say am so call EXV or whatever, when u dodnt even know me
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acidrop (f)
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u still never answer my question,,between no mind the dude, his profile name is the real definition of his personalty
i answered u, i said yess, y? |
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Sexytruth0 (f)
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Get a room people @ Topic Girls lie about virginity, but guys lie about sex related stuffs as well  |
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