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mjsroxs (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #32 on: March 02, 2008, 07:29 AM »

Flirting is just human nature,

Girls obviously lead on guys with flirting, even if they don't like them.
It's just a fun game that most like to play.
Girls and Boys.

Guys also do it, flirting and hitting on girls they find attractive.
Obviously lol.
But it's not cheating.
almondjoy (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #33 on: March 03, 2008, 08:45 AM »

Because there are way too many women to flirt with. Kiss
tommyex (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #34 on: March 03, 2008, 09:20 AM »

Quote
2 different things:

FLIRTING - Women do it more than men.

She smiles at u in a sexy way
She tickles you even though she doesn't want you
She calls you sweetheart even though another guy is banging her.

That is FLIRTING and it comes more naturally with women than men 'because women are more touchy- feely than men.
PLUS, they do it so subconsciously but we are TOO aware of it.

CHEATING- Aha, for that one, men have it wired into their genes.

Much as we try,
We live in a male-oriented world, there are more women than men,
It is kind of a challenge on how many women you can bed,
WE JUST CAN'T HELP IT!!!
IT IS A GAME FOR US!!!
Something we can boast to the other guys about 'because they are the competition.
It's TESTOSTERONE induced!!!

PLUS it is our natural response to all the women FLIRTING with us everyday 

Maybe not every man or woman is like this, but this thread is generalising anyway and that's the way it is for the majority

 
 
 

Very good post Sir,well done

We all flirt,its not just the man's fault,at least a man flirts/cheats with another girl.
I am not surprised with d response of some girls ere though
iceblue (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #35 on: March 03, 2008, 09:40 AM »

abeg some of these replies have been  Shocked Shocked for want of an apt word.

for the record - flirting is not the same as getting laid. the 1st may lead to the 2nd, but the 2nd is never equal to the 1st or a composite. geddit?

now that's clear, flirting is fun  Grin Grin Grin i mean even if u're dating a guy, flirting successfully reminds you that's u'r still attractive (which is intoxicating). there's lite flirting which is harmless and maybe healthy even - for your self-esteem. heavy flirting however, is dangerous. because it could discover feelings u didnt know u had, or that u didnt intend to have, or just lead to number two and get u in big trouble with your partner.

so as long as it's lite, yyeeaahhh!!!!
tommyex (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #36 on: March 03, 2008, 09:45 AM »

Quote
flirting successfully reminds you that's u'r still attractive (which is intoxicating)

Hope you know it can lead 2 cheatin?d flirting guy could be talented and later sweep u off your feet.
Which is heavy or light flirt?u dey measure am?
iceblue (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #37 on: March 03, 2008, 10:31 AM »

Quote from: iceblue on March 03, 2008, 09:40 AM
there's lite flirting which is harmless and maybe healthy even - for your self-esteem. heavy flirting however, is dangerous. because it could discover feelings u didnt know u had, or that u didnt intend to have, or just lead to number two and get u in big trouble with your partner.

havent u been to a party and flirted with a girl because she's pretty and it ends there? read my post well well. make i borrow u glasses? yes it's measured. lite flirting is harmless. when it starts getting overt or outright suggestive, that's heavy flirting. if u have your priorities straight (meaning, the flirt doesnt mean anything to you - is it so wrong to say hi to a guy because he has cute dimples?), u wont get into heavy flirting or be fooled by some yeye talents.
amaikama (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #38 on: April 21, 2008, 09:44 AM »

Tectona!! come, since wey them born you, na only one food (garri) you dey chop???

see me see question  Angry
emelumgini (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #39 on: April 21, 2008, 10:32 AM »

It's because they are poligamous in nature
amaikama (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #40 on: April 21, 2008, 10:37 AM »

Emelumgiri! i strongly disaggree with such notion  Angry why not say, they are just exercising their natural animal instinct when it come to women  Grin
cul dalex (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #41 on: June 18, 2008, 10:30 AM »

Tectona!! come, since wey them born you, na only one food (garri) you dey chop???

see me see question   


[tt][/tt]  so like how many type of food do you suggest

gues u are talking from experience Sad Sad
shylladear (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #42 on: June 18, 2008, 11:38 AM »

i don't think flirting is the same thing as cheating

its nature  Cheesy

as for i like flirting just to be noticed and for the fun of it, not because i want to have something to do with the person am flirting with  Grin
HCH3COO
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #43 on: July 26, 2008, 07:49 AM »

flirting is attention without intention  Tongue
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #44 on: July 26, 2008, 07:52 AM »

Yes, baby, tell them.
Baxilexi
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #45 on: July 26, 2008, 08:01 AM »

guy's! not all guys has what it takes to flirt, some are just gifted,

i find flirting adventrous.
Joseph6 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #46 on: July 26, 2008, 08:07 AM »

i gtave a chic a wedgy d day i met the first day how good am i?
vvvjustice
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #47 on: July 26, 2008, 09:10 AM »

   You guys should have known the dictionary definition of FLIRT before making comments on flirting Huh
albridge (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #48 on: July 26, 2008, 10:11 AM »

i think the reason men flirt is the same reason why women flirt. its a no brainer Grin
adamsy07
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #49 on: July 27, 2008, 04:15 PM »

flirting or cheating obviously it's meant to at one time be a practice for a men or women,but once he is married i think he should stop both.
before marriage i support flirting because,u ave to atleast go out with diffrent partners to get your choice of marriage because u ave to be careful about whom u want to marry.
but while u do this u should do it with respect atleast without traces,so as to respect each other because it's not a must for every relationship to turn into marriage.
but once u decide to make a choice u've got to stop, concentrate with your partner and make useful time of your marriage.
   so i believe both sex do it.
but the ability to stop after marriage is what most men lack.
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Flirt?
« #50 on: July 27, 2008, 04:43 PM »

What is wrong with flirting with a woman you admire, and one you're obviously thinking of getting into a relationship with?
I think it actually spice up the relationship.

There are 2 types of flirting:
One with intention
One without intention.

It just depends on who you flirt with.
No man in his right mind should go out flirting, with another woman that is NOT his partner or with a married woman, WITH intentions in his mind.

Guess what, when  men starts complimenting women with desires in their mind, they're flirting.You just got the know the right time, right place and person to flirt with.

Phew!!! I'm done.
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